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In a message dated 6/11/03 8:30:01 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

the3stacks@... writes:

> I am sorry. This is a really long vent. If you got through it have a

> cyber drink on me! LOL.

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Yummy!

I hope the asthma improves with the new med. Just keep trying to educate

your dh. There is only so much time you can spend floating down the river of

Denile before you have to get out of the boat.

Roxanna

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It makes sense to go up the molehill

dressed for the mountain

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In a message dated 6/12/2003 8:42:12 AM Pacific Daylight Time,

kneeleee@... writes:

> There is only so much time you can spend floating down the river of

> Denile before you have to get out of the boat.

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You always crack me up!

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karen.....where are you in NJ? Anywhere near Pt. Pleasant?

My husband went through this as well......I'll vent later.

Dennise

Stack <the3stacks@...> wrote:

I have finally got my dh to the point where he can tell people

has HFA. He has been denying 's delays since infancy saying he

will outgrow it. He rarely goes to doctors and it takes weeks for him

to read reports. When a therapist sends activities to so at home he

does them without a word however. He went to pre-k baseball clinic to

watch on Friday. The delays and differences were clear as the

sun. The other kids would run after any ball hit while stood

perfectly still. He tried to talk but had nothing in common. He was

told to back up but not to stop so he kept going. All dh could say

was he'll outgrow it. He doesn't get that things will become harder

in some ways as he gets older. I don't know how to get through. On

the other extreme 's disabilities are the reason he can get away

with murder around his Dad. I honestly believe that my dh has never

punished him for anything in 4 1/2 years! If I give a time out

and Daddy is home he turns on the tears and I am a terrible mother.

When we are alone he doesn't evenm try it.

Part of it is due to 's poor health too. My son has reflux and a

hiatal hernia and can puke at will when he doesn't get his way. This

is something he also doesn't do when we are alone. We were wat the

pulmonologist today because the asthma has been very bad for a few

weeks. I am hoping Singular will help. He has had a sinus infection

that started it and the bad weather here in NJ isn't helping.

I am sorry. This is a really long vent. If you got through it have a

cyber drink on me! LOL.

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In a message dated 6/12/03 12:38:22 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

snperry2@... writes:

> Yeah, and how long is that? I'm still waiting for my ex to climb out of

> that boat!

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lol. Maybe he bought a ticket on the long cruise? lol.

Roxanna ôô

What doesn't kill us

Makes us really mean.

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> I am sorry. This is a really long vent. If you got through it have

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> cyber drink on me! LOL.

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I'm sorry. It's hard when the other parent refuses to learn.

Ignorance is bliss. And sometimes I think that might be why so many

are showing signs of denial. Sometimes I'm envious.

a...who is all too aware

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> Stack <the3stacks@a...> wrote:

> I have finally got my dh to the point where he can tell people

> has HFA. He has been denying 's delays since infancy saying he

> will outgrow it.

Hi ! I forgot to reply to this post..too caught up in

daily life. My husband has JUST accepted that there are some problems

in the last few months ( now she is age seven ). He too felt that she

was just a slow learner and would eventualy catch up. I also had

somewhat the same attitude but with a little voice still nagging at

me in the back of my mind until the age of three. He was still

fighting it until we had the neuropsych testing done and received the

results just a few short weeks ago. I was quite surprised at how well

he took the doctors comments and immediately did some research on the

computer as soon as we arrived home that night. I believe he has

finally accepted the fact that she is not an average child, but does

ask me if I think the dx is correct once in a while. I tell him that

I suppose the dx could be incorrect but whether it is or not is

irrelevent because there are certainly issues that are in need and

this dx should help us obtain that help. He nodded in agreement.

I am sure your husband will come around in time.

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<<<<< And sometimes I think that might be why so many

are showing signs of denial. Sometimes I'm envious.

a...who is all too aware>

argh, a, sister.......

Fania ;-)

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We are in Passaic County. As soon as the water warms up we will be heading to

Point Pleasant Beach, it's about 1 1/2 hours. loves the boardwalk but

isn't crazy about the sand.

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In a message dated 6/15/2003 11:57:53 AM Eastern Standard Time, the3stacks

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> We are in Passaic County. As soon as the water warms up we will be heading to

> Point Pleasant Beach, it's about 1 1/2 hours. loves

> the boardwalk but

> isn't crazy about the sand.

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Um think we got a tad confused- or I am .. Im in NC

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