Sick again

[Guest guest]

My husband's battery finally ran out after two weeks of running around like a

chicken with his head cut off. He was a busy bee for a while. His chronic

fatigue finally caught up with him. He has been in bed for days. He can't stay

awake. He is also complaining about a sore throat. he has dry cough. His split

lips haven't healed either. He hasn't been too crabby which is a plus. I learned

to keep my mouth shut. Usually he is moody when he is sick. When we get into a

heated argument I end up losing the battle. I often get frustrated when he is

sick because I have nobody to depend on. I have to do everything alone. My

family isn't here and his family doesn't have anything to do with him. We have 4

children and it can get very stressful around here. I have friends I hang out

with but I wish we have both families around and closer to help us. It would

make everything easier. I grew up with 7 siblings and many cousins. I was always

surrounded by many relatives. Then I moved away after getting married and

started a family with my husband. It just feels weird being alone at times.

[Guest guest]

I can not imagine how tough it must get for you. I wish there was a magic solution, unfortunately I don't know any. Since he is not in the military anymore, is there someway to move closer to your family?

To: Neurosarcoidosis Sent: Sat, April 23, 2011 1:35:35 AMSubject: Sick again

My husband's battery finally ran out after two weeks of running around like a chicken with his head cut off. He was a busy bee for a while. His chronic fatigue finally caught up with him. He has been in bed for days. He can't stay awake. He is also complaining about a sore throat. he has dry cough. His split lips haven't healed either. He hasn't been too crabby which is a plus. I learned to keep my mouth shut. Usually he is moody when he is sick. When we get into a heated argument I end up losing the battle. I often get frustrated when he is sick because I have nobody to depend on. I have to do everything alone. My family isn't here and his family doesn't have anything to do with him. We have 4 children and it can get very stressful around here. I have friends I hang out with but I wish we have both families around and closer to help us. It would make everything easier. I grew up with 7 siblings and many cousins. I was always surrounded by many

relatives. Then I moved away after getting married and started a family with my husband. It just feels weird being alone at times.