Patty

[Guest guest]

Do you think that maybe you were so embarrassed is because you still

may have feelings for him? Would you have been so flustered had it

just been you and your daughter? I have been with the same man

since I was 14, nothing embarrasses me with him; and hasn't for a

very very long time. But that does not mean by any standard that I

am not a lady! I just coose to fart in the company of loved ones,

where it belongs!!LOL.

Chrissy

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> Thanks for the response. I to can go out without drinking. I

found out the hard way a year ago. I went out with some friends and

decided to have a drink. One turned into 5 quickly. No sooner I

finished the 5th one did I get severely sick. I had to run to the

bathroom and throw up. I was having excruciating pain and was

Sweating profusely.

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> Getting gussied up and hitting the streets sounds like a good

idea. I have been spending alot of time at My 1st ex-husband's

house because the kids live with him. We have been doing a lot of

things together, all four of us. We have been divorced 13 years. I

have to tell you what happened to me last night at his house.....I

was laying on the livingroom floor doing my daughter's nails.

Without a warning what so ever I FARTED. I was soooooo embarrassed

and ran to the back bedroom. Of course the kids thought it was

hilarious. I just wanted to die. I felt like crying because ladies

are not suppose to do things like that. Steve's (my ex) face turned

red and he was laughing also. He came to the back bedroom hugging

me and saying it's OK everyone does it. He said if it makes you

feel better I will FART to. I told him it's OK for men to do that

because that is what they do but not women. Today I am still

embarrassed for doing that. OH WELL it goes with the disease.

> Again thanks for the response

> Patty,

> Corydon Indiana

[Guest guest]

Dear Patty, Sorry things have not been too great for you. But dont

let the fact that you " farted " in the presence of your X disturb

you. As you get older and certain factors happen to your body, you

will find that you will give several people the pleasure of hearing

you " fart " . Heck I can even do it walking thru a store, so I can

leave the effects for many to benefit from it. LOL

It seems to me that there must be some feelings left between you and

your X for him to let you live in his home and for you to be so

embarrassed by him hearing you do that.

And I am not trying to interfere in that, just an observation. I am

happy for you in having an X like that. It is good for the children

and for you. Unlike so many broken up marriages end.

I do hope you feel better about it all today and that things go well

with you. love Jean

[Guest guest]

Yes I do still have feelings for him. When we were married I was 19 and he was

22. We divorced after 4 years. I then remarried in 1997 to the idiot I am

divorcing now. Steve (1st husband) have gotten along well the past 3 years. I

even liked his last girlfriend. It made is soo much easier for the kids for us

to get along. He broke up with his girlfriend back in January. I asked him out

to dinner to discuss the kids and see if I could come see them often. I wanted

to make sure that by me being there quite often I was there to see the kids. We

didn't want to give the kids False hope of us getting together. He agreed and

we would just do things together all four of us. Well by doing this we started

having those feelings of wanting to be more than just friends. I'm 36 now and

he is 39. We've grown up a little since then. I know it is kinda soon since I

just left my 2nd husband in January but I think what did it for me is seeing how

well he does in taking care of the kids. (I let my kids move in with their

father because Todd (2nd husband was so mean to them) My oldest seemed

depressed and has always been so close to her brother that I couldn't

separate them. I should have listened to my kids when they said they didn't

like him but I didn't and I married the idiot. My parents have always liked

Steve (1st husband) and are happy to see me happy. You know people sometimes

don't understand how someone could go back to someone they've divorced but I

have.

Patty

Corydon Indiana

> Re: Patty

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> Do you think that maybe you were so embarrassed is because you still

> may have feelings for him? Would you have been so flustered had it

> just been you and your daughter? I have been with the same man

> since I was 14, nothing embarrasses me with him; and hasn't for a

> very very long time. But that does not mean by any standard that I

> am not a lady! I just coose to fart in the company of loved ones,

> where it belongs!!LOL.

> Chrissy

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> > ,

> > Thanks for the response. I to can go out without drinking. I

> found out the hard way a year ago. I went out with some friends and

> decided to have a drink. One turned into 5 quickly. No sooner I

> finished the 5th one did I get severely sick. I had to run to the

> bathroom and throw up. I was having excruciating pain and was

> Sweating profusely.

> >

> > Getting gussied up and hitting the streets sounds like a good

> idea. I have been spending alot of time at My 1st ex-husband's

> house because the kids live with him. We have been doing a lot of

> things together, all four of us. We have been divorced 13 years. I

> have to tell you what happened to me last night at his house.....I

> was laying on the livingroom floor doing my daughter's nails.

> Without a warning what so ever I FARTED. I was soooooo embarrassed

> and ran to the back bedroom. Of course the kids thought it was

> hilarious. I just wanted to die. I felt like crying because ladies

> are not suppose to do things like that. Steve's (my ex) face turned

> red and he was laughing also. He came to the back bedroom hugging

> me and saying it's OK everyone does it. He said if it makes you

> feel better I will FART to. I told him it's OK for men to do that

> because that is what they do but not women. Today I am still

> embarrassed for doing that. OH WELL it goes with the disease.

> > Again thanks for the response

> > Patty,

> > Corydon Indiana

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