Guest guest Posted February 9, 2008 Report Share Posted February 9, 2008 NACD will help you with that. My kids do not have the labels you speak of but intensity, frequency and duration, what is needed with these kids who are struggling can be best done one on one. Not the total answer but part of it for sure. Take a look at the Brain that fixes Itself by Dr. Doidge > > I have heard that a lot of children that has these special needs > has a more harder time surviving in school and benefits more from a 1 > to 1 basis of being home schooled. My son is in 1'st grade and > struggling more as each week goes by. I was just wondering is there a > lot out there has to home school their child. How does your child > survive in school? Are they in a normal classroom or in a Special > Education Room? Do any of your children with apraxia, AP, or sensory > isues have a teacher aide just with your child? > Home schooling is on my mind so much more as the year goes by. My > son is struggling soo hard in so many arreas. His teacher is wonderful > and really patient and doing her best in working with him. We talk on > a regular basis. I am blessed to have such a wonderful and caring > teacher that wants him to succeed this year. But she is so concerned > that he is no where ready for 2'nd grade. She is afraid he won't be > able to handle it. I am glad she is honest with me, but i am so very > worried about him. Probably too much. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 2008 Report Share Posted February 10, 2008 Hi - A year ago we were in the same situation! Out daughter was in first grade and struggling. She was out of the classroom for therapy at least an hour a day, and we were doing 2+ hours of homework every night! She just did not do well in class and on tests, even though at home she seemed to know the material. Reading was the hardest for her. She just did not seem motivated at school at all, and they did not understand what she said, so it made it very difficult for her. She was definitey falling through the cracks. They recommended retaining her in 1st grade again. I did not see how more of the same was the solution. They also recommended a self contained class focused on life skills. No way was I ready for that! So, my husband and I decided to homeschool. We were tired of fighting for services, blaming everyone else, and trying to convince everyone what she was capable of. We essentially opted out, and decided to take responisibility for her ourselves, since we knew what she could do. It has been GREAT for her. It allowed us to teach to her strengths, and work on her weaknesses. It also allows her to work at her pace, and the days when she is low on energy she can take it easy. We belong to a local co-op of like aged kids and go on field trips every week. She misses her school friends, but she has made some new ones. She has also continued with karate, bowling, girl scouts, etc., only since we are not doing hours of homework, she actually has the energy for it! Best of all, she is almost reading at grade level! We are working with the NACD, but mostly because we felt like we needed a safety net, and they have provided that. It has been great, but you certainly can do it without! One consideration is that you will need to provide your own services (speech, PT, OT, etc) at least here in NY. But, since our district sent us a letter denying services, our insurance will probably conver it. (The district provided services, even though they did not legally have to, until a couple of weeks ago, when we got a letter in the mail basically saying they were terminating them.Long story :- ) Anyway, it has been a HUGE undertaking, don't get me wrong. It has been a major transition for all of us, but it has been the best decision for our daughter. I do not knw if this is a long term decision, or just to get her on track. For now we are taking it one day at a time. Good luck in your decision. Wendi > > > > I have heard that a lot of children that has these special > needs > > has a more harder time surviving in school and benefits more from a > 1 > > to 1 basis of being home schooled. My son is in 1'st grade and > > struggling more as each week goes by. I was just wondering is > there a > > lot out there has to home school their child. How does your child > > survive in school? Are they in a normal classroom or in a Special > > Education Room? Do any of your children with apraxia, AP, or > sensory > > isues have a teacher aide just with your child? > > Home schooling is on my mind so much more as the year goes > by. My > > son is struggling soo hard in so many arreas. His teacher is > wonderful > > and really patient and doing her best in working with him. We talk > on > > a regular basis. I am blessed to have such a wonderful and caring > > teacher that wants him to succeed this year. But she is so > concerned > > that he is no where ready for 2'nd grade. She is afraid he won't > be > > able to handle it. I am glad she is honest with me, but i am so > very > > worried about him. Probably too much. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 2008 Report Share Posted February 10, 2008 Thanks for the input on your children. It's so good to know that i'm not the only one having to deal with this situation. i know i'm not but at times it seems this way. Here lately my son is getting where he is argueing with people at school. which gets him into trouble. He's never done this before with anyone other than me. I don't know what is going on here. Thanks a bunch, kathryn > > > > > > I have heard that a lot of children that has these > special > > needs > > > has a more harder time surviving in school and benefits more > from a > > 1 > > > to 1 basis of being home schooled. My son is in 1'st grade and > > > struggling more as each week goes by. I was just wondering is > > there a > > > lot out there has to home school their child. How does your > child > > > survive in school? Are they in a normal classroom or in a > Special > > > Education Room? Do any of your children with apraxia, AP, or > > sensory > > > isues have a teacher aide just with your child? > > > Home schooling is on my mind so much more as the year goes > > by. My > > > son is struggling soo hard in so many arreas. His teacher is > > wonderful > > > and really patient and doing her best in working with him. We > talk > > on > > > a regular basis. I am blessed to have such a wonderful and > caring > > > teacher that wants him to succeed this year. But she is so > > concerned > > > that he is no where ready for 2'nd grade. She is afraid he > won't > > be > > > able to handle it. I am glad she is honest with me, but i am so > > very > > > worried about him. Probably too much. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 I hope you are still reading posts as I am so late on this one! I just wanted to say that I pulled my 6 yr old son from 1st grade within the first month. I am un-schooling or de-schooling now due to all the negative feelings he built toward school in kindergarten and less than 1 month of first grade. If you would like to talk more please don't hesitate to contact me - smccann@... It would be nice to connect with others in similar situations! > > Thanks for the input on your children. It's so good to know that i'm > not the only one having to deal with this situation. i know i'm not > but at times it seems this way. Here lately my son is getting where > he is argueing with people at school. which gets him into trouble. > He's never done this before with anyone other than me. I don't know > what is going on here. Thanks a bunch, kathryn--- In > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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