Guest guest Posted February 1, 2008 Report Share Posted February 1, 2008 , I just went through the same process and thought I had a very good handle on it (I'm a special ed teacher and aware of most of the laws). So I went into the process feeling prepared (didn't realize it would be totally different when it's your own child). #1 don't go to the transition/MFE/IEP meeting alone, take someone (anyone, but preferably someone who knows the law and will be willng to speak up for you); #2 go in knowing exactly what service you want and why (be able to provide documentation as to why your child needs that service (ask your EI SLP to write something up for you) - I had a ton of research stating why kids w/ apraxia need more ST and how schools are legally responsible for providing services to our kids (IDEA), they still looked at me as if I'd grown another head. I believe that schools only have to provide the minimum amount of service (30 minutes weekly), some may actually provide what the child needs though; #3 don't be afraid to be verbal and/or walk out of the meeting - you can always schedule another meeting to further discuss your options (it took us 4 meetings to come to an agreement after I made up a proposal for the school to pay for private ST (they don't have an SLP on staff). I told them at the very begining of our transition process that I was going to be a pain in their butt. I did sign the IEP at our first MFE/IEP mtg, but I signed where it states you agree to the IEP EXCEPT for... and I filled in what I didn't agree with. That will actually start the date the school is responsible for providing services (they may have to " catch up " on services if something is not agreed to at first); #4 due process is always an option and don't be afraid to use those words, school are afraid of it (it can effect their funding). I was really disappointed in our EI caseworker at our first IEP meeting, she sat there and didn't say anything. I contacted local parent mentors/advocates, local Special ed agencies, a state legal rights group. Our school district knew I was right and what they were offering was wrong, apparently I was just the first one to say no to what they offered. Good luck! Bonnie --- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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