RE: make a wish issues Vondie

March 21, 2003

Vonide,

Would she have to know you were going? Gee what a awful person, very

selfish. What about a mediator?

(Australia)

make a wish issues

Hi guys,

I hope everyone is doing well.

This has been a lovely week. We attended a funeral for a premature

baby. My niece had him early and he lived about 8 hrs. Precious little

thing. But, he had so much wrong that he couldn't be saved. So, that

was pretty emotional. For me anyway, because it was a baby. Such a

sad thing.

Today we got the call from make a wish. They asked questions about

the boys, likes and dislikes, etc....

Everything was going ok until we got to the fact that my stepson is in

the house. They want to include the whole family, but since

wish includes traveling, we have to get permission from his mother.

This is what presents the problem. She is such a #!@#!!!!. If she can

stick it to us in any way, she does it.

Example: We took a trip to Texas to see my mom. Only gone for 4-5

days. We could not tell her because we did not know where she was.

Well, we got told that if she had known that we went, she would have had

us arrested. Mind you, she doesn't see the boy, it's been about 4

years now. But, technically she has joint custody.

So, I am ready to scream.

Here's the delimma. Take the trip without him, ( let him stay with

family - while we go) or make change his wish?

For those of you who would ask, is she that heartless? When she found

out about the boys having cf, she said she didn't care about the little

bastards anyway. So, yes she is heartless.

Not to mention she about got what little heart she has ripped out.

Anyhow, any advice? What would you all do?

HELP!

Vondie

mom of & , both w/cf

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