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To those of you whom have put your child into childcare/daycare what

are you experiences as far as their health? Could you maintain a

serious job and keep up with all of the docs appointments and

emergency peditrician appointments. s father has his own

business and flexible schedule but will not take to his

doctors appointments. The suggesions I have so far are great ones.

I have had some in home nanny care for last summer and did not

work and ran errands to walmart etc. but his father will not pay for

this now even for me to work and says a " medical professional said

should be placed in childcare immediately. This is my

crossroads, I want the best for because he is soo healthy

right now and to be fair to , myself and his father. I have no

options for work in the town I live so I will have to relocate closer

to s docs and farther away from his father. I moved to the

same town so he would be close to his father gave up my womens only

althletic club to stay with and quite honestly his father now

wants to make my life miserable by sending to

childcare/daycare-his other children no cf stayed at home the first

years of until private school and he is unwilling to do the same for

cause of his anger towards me. I am willing to work and do

whatever it takes!! I suppose my question is DO I FIGHT TO STAY HOME

WITH NATHAN OR FOR PRIVATE CARE IN MY HOME? OR DO I ALLOW HIM TO GO

TO PUBLIC CHILDCARE WHEN WE HAVE MANY OTHER OPTIONS IF I FIGHT. Ps i

have fought for a while now and I am tired and angry, broke (myself)

and so sad..i want to be realistic, fair and do what is in s

best interests. I do get child support so do not feel sorry for

he is well taken care of. Thank you all again..much love to

you and hopefully this will all be over soon.