Guest guest Posted May 19, 2003 Report Share Posted May 19, 2003 The relationship between income and survival is a sad statistic indeed, and it seems to me that here in the usa, where there is no real excuse for this, that it is avoidable--if only any one were so motivated in our government to worry about universal medical care for our citizens, and to base it on tax income to the government rather than piddly litte " tax refunds " going primarily to the super wealthy--said she, distressedly. Love to all at cfparents, n Rojas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2003 Report Share Posted May 19, 2003 This is CRAZY because there are so many programs out there to help people that can't afford medication. I think it has to do with the parents and how well take care of there child with CF rather then there amount of money they have. Face it there are parents out there that have kids with CF that don't give a damn!! And don't have there kids do treatments because it might effect there social life. It's sad but it is reality. Deb A Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2003 Report Share Posted May 19, 2003 Managed Care Weekly Digest May 12, 2003 HEADLINE: CYSTIC FIBROSIS: Income level tied to mortality The risk of death from cystic fibrosis (CF) is related to the income level of the family, according to New England medical researchers. Their study, published in Pediatrics, reports those living with lower incomes are at a greater risk of death from this disease. " Financial disadvantage has been shown to have a strong effect on the health status of individuals, but this effect has never been examined in cystic fibrosis, " said head author, Dr. Gerald T. O'Connor, professor of medicine and of community and family medicine. He led a team of nine researchers from the Northern New England Cystic Fibrosis Consortium, a regional group of health care professionals that seeks to improve the quality of care for people with cystic fibrosis. Participating medical centers include DHMC, Central Maine Medical Center, Eastern Maine Medical Center, Fletcher Health Care and Maine Medical Center. Cystic fibrosis, considered the most frequently occurring lethal autosomal genetic disease in the white population, affects about 30,000 children and adults in the U.S. Patients produce abnormally thick mucus in the lungs and pancreas, which causes them to cough, wheeze, and experience respiratory problems and infections. While there is no cure for the disease, CF patients are now living longer thanks to advanced treatments. The researchers wanted to determine if income was a factor. For the study, the researchers selected records of white patients throughout the country who were diagnosed with CF before they reached the age of 18. Clinicians then linked these 23,817 patients with information from the U.S. census. They adjusted the household incomes based on state differences in cost of living. They found a strong association between household income and the death rate from CF. In the lowest income category, which included families who earned less than $20,000, the incidence of death was 90.3 per 10,000 person years compared to 62 per 10,000 person years in the highest income group, which included families who made more than $50,000. This translates to a 44% increased risk of death among those in the lowest income category. Furthermore, those in the lowest income group had reduced pulmonary function and lower body weight. " The strong effect of low income on outcomes is not yet fully understood, " said O'Connor. " Detailed studies are in progress to understand the mechanism by which socioeconomic status plays a role in clinical outcomes for CF patients. " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2003 Report Share Posted May 19, 2003 For somebody like me that was born and raised in a third world country this is incredible!!! The USA expends so much money for other countries but can't take care of their own. So terribly SAD. mom of a 9 wcf, Venanzio 6 nocf, Pepe 3 nocf > > Managed Care Weekly Digest > May 12, 2003 > HEADLINE: CYSTIC FIBROSIS: Income level tied to mortality > The risk of death from cystic fibrosis (CF) is related to the income > level of the family, according to New England medical researchers. > Their study, published in Pediatrics, reports those living with lower > incomes are at a greater risk of death from this disease. > " Financial disadvantage has been shown to have a strong effect on the > health status of individuals, but this effect has never been examined in > cystic fibrosis, " said head author, Dr. Gerald T. O'Connor, professor of > medicine and of community and family medicine. > He led a team of nine researchers from the Northern New England Cystic > Fibrosis Consortium, a regional group of health care professionals that > seeks to improve the quality of care for people with cystic fibrosis. > Participating medical centers include DHMC, Central Maine Medical > Center, Eastern Maine Medical Center, Fletcher Health Care and > Maine Medical Center. > Cystic fibrosis, considered the most frequently occurring lethal > autosomal genetic disease in the white population, affects about 30,000 > children and adults in the U.S. Patients produce abnormally thick mucus > in the lungs and pancreas, which causes them to cough, wheeze, and > experience respiratory problems and infections. While there is no cure > for the disease, CF patients are now living longer thanks to advanced > treatments. The researchers wanted to determine if income was a factor. > For the study, the researchers selected records of white patients > throughout the country who were diagnosed with CF before they reached > the age of 18. Clinicians then linked these 23,817 patients with > information from the U.S. census. They adjusted the household incomes > based on state differences in cost of living. > They found a strong association between household income and the death > rate from CF. In the lowest income category, which included families who > earned less than $20,000, the incidence of death was 90.3 per 10,000 > person years compared to 62 per 10,000 person years in the highest > income group, which included families who made more than $50,000. This > translates to a 44% increased risk of death among those in the lowest > income category. Furthermore, those in the lowest income group had > reduced pulmonary function and lower body weight. > " The strong effect of low income on outcomes is not yet fully > understood, " said O'Connor. " Detailed studies are in progress to > understand the mechanism by which socioeconomic status plays a role in > clinical outcomes for CF patients. " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 It also may have to do with the problem of being able to keep food on the table. If you don't have much money, a lot of the supplements that we can buy for our kids cost much more than is affordable. You are right, there may also be a compliance problem, too but we can't assume that it is all because of that. We all know how important nutrition is, but even with the programs out there for people who don't have money for food, they are not able to get the same nutrition as those who come from more money. The programs we have for food (like WIC) do not differentiate between kids with CF and the rest of the family. and WIC ends when the child is 5. Don't be fooled into thinking it is all about compliance alone. It is probably a combination of things. (the parent's education probably plays a role here too) Re: Something to get mad about :-((( This is CRAZY because there are so many programs out there to help people that can't afford medication. I think it has to do with the parents and how well take care of there child with CF rather then there amount of money they have. Face it there are parents out there that have kids with CF that don't give a damn!! And don't have there kids do treatments because it might effect there social life. It's sad but it is reality. Deb A Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 In a message dated 5/20/2003 5:50:55 AM Central Daylight Time, drea@... writes: > It also may have to do with the problem of being able to keep food on the > table. If you don't have much money, a lot of the supplements that we can > buy for our kids cost much more than is affordable. You are right, there > may also be a compliance problem, too but we can't assume that it is all > because of that. We all know how important nutrition is, but even with the > programs out there for people who don't have money for food, they are not > able to get the same nutrition as those who come from more money. The > programs we have for food (like WIC) do not differentiate between kids with > CF and the rest of the family. and WIC ends when the child is 5. Don't be > fooled into thinking it is all about compliance alone. It is probably a > combination of things. (the parent's education probably plays a role here > too) > At our clinic one of the nurses there told me how there are lots of families that come to the clinic there do not take care of there kids are well as we do. I am sure it does have to do with there nutrition too but changes are it's because the parents don't give a damn! If they cared about there child they would work 2 jobs so they could give there kids the proper nutrition. I am sorry but I know how there are lots of parents that would rather sit in front of the TV then work. I never asked to have two kids with CF but I am not going to sit around I am going to do all I can to keep them as healthy as possible! Sorry about being down in the dumps about people that don't take care of there kids but yesterday I just talked to a friend of mine that has two kids with CF and she is now taking care of a brother in law's two kids who is so into drugs that he can't take care of his two healthy kids and now she is taking care of her two with CF and his. It just pisses me off to know end when people bring kids into this world drown themselves in drugs and want pity GROW UP!!! Take on RESPONSIBILITIES!! CF or not people need to take care of there kids or don't have them!! Deb A Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 I think what is sad is the fact they the spend so much time with these statistics. I wish they would use more of their time finding a cure as they do on little things don't don't mean much to a parent of a CF child. I just want a cure! I am sure that that took a lot of work to put together. look at the research that could've been done in that time. mother of three ages 6,5,and 4, 6 year old and 4 year old with CF Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 I don't think it has anything to do with actual income. There are tremendous programs for those who can afford nothing. The " rich " can buy just about anything they want. I personally believe that in the US it is the middle income family who gets shafted. They make to much to receive assitance, and way to little to be able to afford high end treatments. But money aside, I think that a better indicator than wealth would be parental knowledge. Lets face it...most people on a really low income are either not smart or not willing to use it. They didn't finish school, most of them because they didn't want to obey authority and do the " home work. " When it comes to dealing with a chronic illness you have to be willing to do both. You have to obey authority when it is obvious the doctor knows best but you don't want to face it i.e. initial diagnosis. You have to do your homework when you want to change your childs protacall an the doctors aren't sure. You need the facts and figgures to back you up. With all due respect n you are one intelligent lady. I really believe it has helped you survive. Those who were only half as intelligent wouldn't make it out of half of the scrapes that you tell us about. I love you, but I don't think giving poor people more money is the answer. They need to get up and work to find and collect what's all ready available. Being poor is no excuse for having no information resources. Anyone can walk to their nearest library and surf the net. Respectfully, Dawn (whose family is currently considered poor as engineer hubby had to take a nasty little job when laid off two years ago, but whose children still receive the utmost care since mom and dad are smart enough to push for it) mom of 4, 7 and under, the youngest wcf Re: Something to get mad about :-((( The relationship between income and survival is a sad statistic indeed, and it seems to me that here in the usa, where there is no real excuse for this, that it is avoidable--if only any one were so motivated in our government to worry about universal medical care for our citizens, and to base it on tax income to the government rather than piddly litte " tax refunds " going primarily to the super wealthy--said she, distressedly. Love to all at cfparents, n Rojas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 Dear Dawn, A few weeks ago there was an article on Parade Magazine about hunger in America, and believe me hunger in America is alive and well. True there are a lot of programs for the underprivileged, true some people do not want to help themselves, but the bigger picture is a lot more complicated than not wanting and not willing to do anything. Before, a was diagnosed with CF I used to volunteer in just about any program to feed people, if you ever sit down with some of this people in a soup kitchen your viewpoint would drastically changed forever. Now, lets take that mom that came to our soup kitchen, I used to see her at least once a week, with 4 kids all under 5 and lets make one of her kids have CF, now think about this, she could not work, funds had been cut for the headstart program she used to have her kids in, her subsidised apartment was rat/rouch infected, Do you think the child with CF would survive very long? Granted Tennessee has mandatory insurance for all kids under 18, granted Shelby county, where we live, has food stamps, and wic for children under 5. You see, it goes even further than that, boy how many times I wanted to take this mom and many more with me and let her have at one day of normalcy in their lives!! Sorry, I am taking so long but as I said before I came from a third world country where things are very hard, but in America it should not happen. Taxes, true they go up, we are heavely taxed, but if we don't take care of the underprivileged now, our problems will be nothing compare to Venezuela where I come from, it is a matter of time. mom of a 9 wcf, Venanzio 6 nocf, Pepe 3 nocf > I don't think it has anything to do with actual income. There are tremendous programs for those who can afford nothing. The " rich " can buy just about anything they want. I personally believe that in the US it is the middle income family who gets shafted. They make to much to receive assitance, and way to little to be able to afford high end treatments. > > But money aside, I think that a better indicator than wealth would be parental knowledge. Lets face it...most people on a really low income are either not smart or not willing to use it. They didn't finish school, most of them because they didn't want to obey authority and do the " home work. " When it comes to dealing with a chronic illness you have to be willing to do both. You have to obey authority when it is obvious the doctor knows best but you don't want to face it i.e. initial diagnosis. You have to do your homework when you want to change your childs protacall an the doctors aren't sure. You need the facts and figgures to back you up. > > With all due respect n you are one intelligent lady. I really believe it has helped you survive. Those who were only half as intelligent wouldn't make it out of half of the scrapes that you tell us about. I love you, but I don't think giving poor people more money is the answer. They need to get up and work to find and collect what's all ready available. Being poor is no excuse for having no information resources. Anyone can walk to their nearest library and surf the net. > > Respectfully, > Dawn (whose family is currently considered poor as engineer hubby had to take a nasty little job when laid off two years ago, but whose children still receive the utmost care since mom and dad are smart enough to push for it) mom of 4, 7 and under, the youngest wcf > Re: Something to get mad about :-((( > > > The relationship between income and survival is a sad statistic indeed, > and it seems to me that here in the usa, where there is no real excuse > for this, that it is avoidable--if only any one were so motivated in our > government to worry about universal medical care for our citizens, and > to base it on tax income to the government rather than piddly litte " tax > refunds " going primarily to the super wealthy--said she, distressedly. > Love to all at cfparents, > n Rojas > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 I agree. We are EXTREMELY lucky in Canada, and particularly in Ontario. I remember the days of writing the letters to our government reps and joining the lobby (unpaid patients and families of CF) for meds to be covered so young adults and families would be able to work when able and not have to go on social assistance just to ensure meds were covered ....so we have not always been so fortunate. The coverage differs from province to province and even to some extent from Clinic to Clinic within the provinces. Even with the extensive covereage we have, it is still more costly to provide well for someone with CF and those costs are very significant for some families. In Ontario, we do pay for our own nebuizers and a minimum of 25 per cent of the cost of other equipment such as compressors and postural drainage boards (more than 25 per cent of the cost if we upgrade to more than the basic models for which the government allows). Not all meds that may be helpful are covered. For instance, Pulmozyme has not been covered in Ontario. Tobi has not been covered and so Tobramycin is still the prescribed choice for inhalation. Various supplements my son takes are not covered. We happen to think they benefit his health so we pay for them ourselves. Some people have additional insurance through places of employment to cover some of the extra costs but many do not. Some are self-employed and do not have such plans. Not everyone receives the Children's Handicap benefit ... some fall into the middle class that just misses being eligible. Our Foundation just recently won the argument for certain levels of CF to qualify for the disability deduction in federal taxes. When a child or spouse with CF is ill or in hospital or waiting for transplant and a family member takes time off to be with them, it may be unpaid time. Some choose to have one parent at home full-time to provide the best care they can but it may stress finances. Thank goodness, clinic visits and hospital stays are covered but when I spent 2 weeks staying in the hospital with my son, the costs of eating out, parking, my husband driving down to visit, and care for our children at home was not covered. Paying for babysitters to come into my home, while I was home, and be trained to do meds and therapy, just to have the opportunity to go out on a few occassions was an extra expense not covered. My point is that even though we are extrememly lucky to live where we have most health costs of CF covered, there are still significant costs that would be a stress to many. In other places where there are fewer or no costs covered, it must be extrememly difficult. jen mavretic wrote: >I just had to step in. I'm am from Canada and most of >what kayla needs is paid for by ohip. The cf clinic >gives out all her medication plus boxes and boxes of >ensure every month for free, so none of this is a >concern for me whether i make alot of money or not. >Kayla also recieves a Children's handicap benefit >every month of $400 which covers travel to hospitals >and groceries for high fat high calorie. Hospital >stays and stuff like that are also free, I couldn't >even imagine having to pay for any of this as i would >be on the streets. Health care each country is always >so different and it is too bad its not all like this. >The only thing we are lacking is funding for the >vests, which i hope to see soon. Thanks >Jen > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 You know, I grew up dirt poor and very hungry. You can make it. So I don't have to sit down with these people...I've been these people. I'm still saying that the help is out there... You just have to figgure out how to get it... Dawn mom of 4, 7 and under, the youngest wcf Re: Something to get mad about :-((( > > > The relationship between income and survival is a sad statistic indeed, > and it seems to me that here in the usa, where there is no real excuse > for this, that it is avoidable--if only any one were so motivated in our > government to worry about universal medical care for our citizens, and > to base it on tax income to the government rather than piddly litte " tax > refunds " going primarily to the super wealthy--said she, distressedly. > Love to all at cfparents, > n Rojas > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 Well, I would had thought somebody that has been there would be more sensitive, at any rate, I have never experienced being poor, I am actually what you would consider an upper class, very well educated, successful business woman, I speak a few languages and I hope never to be in the down side of this path call life, but as you may be up you can go just as quickly down, hey newton's law, not quiet but paralell. I do believe some people need just a little help and some need a lot of help, it has been proven that poverty is a disease in itself and it goes hand in hand with hunger, add CF to the equation, and life is no longer feasible. mom of a 9wcf, Venanzio 6 nocf, Pepe 3 nocf > > I don't think it has anything to do with actual income. There are > tremendous programs for those who can afford nothing. The " rich " can > buy just about anything they want. I personally believe that in the > US it is the middle income family who gets shafted. They make to > much to receive assitance, and way to little to be able to afford > high end treatments. > > > > But money aside, I think that a better indicator than wealth would > be parental knowledge. Lets face it...most people on a really low > income are either not smart or not willing to use it. They didn't > finish school, most of them because they didn't want to obey > authority and do the " home work. " When it comes to dealing with a > chronic illness you have to be willing to do both. You have to obey > authority when it is obvious the doctor knows best but you don't want > to face it i.e. initial diagnosis. You have to do your homework when > you want to change your childs protacall an the doctors aren't sure. > You need the facts and figgures to back you up. > > > > With all due respect n you are one intelligent lady. I really > believe it has helped you survive. Those who were only half as > intelligent wouldn't make it out of half of the scrapes that you tell > us about. I love you, but I don't think giving poor people more > money is the answer. They need to get up and work to find and > collect what's all ready available. Being poor is no excuse for > having no information resources. Anyone can walk to their nearest > library and surf the net. > > > > Respectfully, > > Dawn (whose family is currently considered poor as engineer hubby > had to take a nasty little job when laid off two years ago, but whose > children still receive the utmost care since mom and dad are smart > enough to push for it) mom of 4, 7 and under, the youngest wcf > > Re: Something to get mad about :-((( > > > > > > The relationship between income and survival is a sad statistic > indeed, > > and it seems to me that here in the usa, where there is no real > excuse > > for this, that it is avoidable--if only any one were so motivated > in our > > government to worry about universal medical care for our > citizens, and > > to base it on tax income to the government rather than piddly > litte " tax > > refunds " going primarily to the super wealthy--said she, > distressedly. > > Love to all at cfparents, > > n Rojas > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 Re: Something to get mad about :-((( In a message dated 5/20/2003 5:50:55 AM Central Daylight Time, drea@... writes: > It also may have to do with the problem of being able to keep food on the > table. If you don't have much money, a lot of the supplements that we can > buy for our kids cost much more than is affordable. You are right, there > may also be a compliance problem, too but we can't assume that it is all > because of that. We all know how important nutrition is, but even with the > programs out there for people who don't have money for food, they are not > able to get the same nutrition as those who come from more money. The > programs we have for food (like WIC) do not differentiate between kids with > CF and the rest of the family. and WIC ends when the child is 5. Don't be > fooled into thinking it is all about compliance alone. It is probably a > combination of things. (the parent's education probably plays a role here > too) > At our clinic one of the nurses there told me how there are lots of families that come to the clinic there do not take care of there kids are well as we do. I am sure it does have to do with there nutrition too but changes are it's because the parents don't give a damn! If they cared about there child they would work 2 jobs so they could give there kids the proper nutrition. I am sorry but I know how there are lots of parents that would rather sit in front of the TV then work. I never asked to have two kids with CF but I am not going to sit around I am going to do all I can to keep them as healthy as possible! Sorry about being down in the dumps about people that don't take care of there kids but yesterday I just talked to a friend of mine that has two kids with CF and she is now taking care of a brother in law's two kids who is so into drugs that he can't take care of his two healthy kids and now she is taking care of her two with CF and his. It just pisses me off to know end when people bring kids into this world drown themselves in drugs and want pity GROW UP!!! Take on RESPONSIBILITIES!! CF or not people need to take care of there kids or don't have them!! Deb A Unfortunately, we are told the same thing about the level of care that our daughter receives. Many families do not do as well with handling therapy and meds and fighting for things as well as we do. I am a stay at home mom but I don't sit watching tv all the time. We do struggle with $ too. But again we put her care above new clothes and new cars and the things others care about. We make the sacrifice of being a one income family to take proper care of . We were unwilling to put her in daycare and risk her health to people who don't give a damn if they send their kids in to daycare sick and get others sick. We do all we can to keep her healthy. Please don't get me wrong, I just think that it is a combination of factors (compliance would certainly be one, but just not the only thing) that accounts for this. Some people do every therapy and do all they can for nutrition and they still loose their children to CF earlier than others, money or no money. As for people who choose not to take care of their children, I am with you 100% they need to grow up and handle their situation, whatever it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 > It also may have to do with the problem of being able to keep food on the table. Or the money for doctor's visits and hospitalization and insurance. How about getting the time off from work for all the doctor's visits? Or having a reliable car to drive the child to the CF center and getting the child out of school for the day. Think about it. Could you support four people on an income of $20,000? I couldn't. jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 Hi all. I have debated on replying to this topic as it seems like such a heated one. I feel that everyone is right. It is all a combination of everything everyone has mentioned. We are fortunate. My husband's insurance takes care of most of charlie's medical bills and medicines. If not, we would be up a sh** creek, if you catch my drift. I also agree that our government could do more for our own people. That is painfully obvious. Just as obvious are the parents that don't care for their children like we do. It's the sad reality we live in. We can only do what we can, and give them what we can. I try not to dwell on money issues as it gives me migraines and I really don't need anymore stress in my life. This nasty disease gives me enough of that already. Farrah, mommy to Charlie 3yr w/cf and 10 mos. no/cf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2003 Report Share Posted May 20, 2003 We support 6 on $24,000 a year. Dawn mom of 4, 7 and under, the youngest wcf Re: Something to get mad about :-((( > It also may have to do with the problem of being able to keep food on the table. Or the money for doctor's visits and hospitalization and insurance. How about getting the time off from work for all the doctor's visits? Or having a reliable car to drive the child to the CF center and getting the child out of school for the day. Think about it. Could you support four people on an income of $20,000? I couldn't. jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2003 Report Share Posted May 21, 2003 In a message dated 5/20/03 11:28:43 PM Eastern Daylight Time, johndawn@... writes: > We support 6 on $24,000 a year. > All I can say to this is WOW!!!! This is about impossible here in the washingtondc metro area where I live. We barley make it every month on my husbands 40,000 a year with 6 of us. mom to Y Kiersten Lee 2-13-98 w/cf Y Y Natasha Rose 2-24-00 w/o cf Y Y Trevor 10-18-01 w/o cf Y Y Noelle 11-29-02 w/o cf Y Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 21, 2003 Report Share Posted May 21, 2003 > We support 6 on $24,000 a year. visits? More power to you! I live in MA and I don't really know how you could support 6 here for that amount. You must be one thrifty Mom! What are your secrets? jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2003 Report Share Posted May 22, 2003 Very Well said Dawn:)) mom to Y Kiersten Lee 2-13-98 w/cf Y Y Natasha Rose 2-24-00 w/o cf Y Y Trevor 10-18-01 w/o cf Y Y Noelle 11-29-02 w/o cf Y Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2003 Report Share Posted May 22, 2003 Well, first off the creator takes very good care of us. Second, Texas has a lower cost of living than most states. Third we try very hard to spend less money than we make and not to acquire debt. The debt thing was a hard lesson to learn, but I think we finally did after almost 11 years of marriage. Besides utilites, the only things we owe on are our house and van. Our biggest expenditure is food and dry goods. We spend around $200 a week. I make a menue for the week and try to stick to it when grocery shopping. We eat fast food once a week, but it is usually on buy one get one free hamburger night. We bring it home to eat and drink our own drinks and either have chips or split two gigantic orders of fries. (Do you realize how many portions are in a super sized frie order...not to mention the fat and calories) Other than that it is a lifestyle. Our clothes come from WalMart or factory outlets or a very good sale at a department store. I am a stay at home mom so my wardrobe consists of t-shirt and shorts in the summer and t-shirt and jeans/sweats in the winter. Do I sometimes want to spend more to look better? Yes...but I get over it quickly. ;-) The kids get their age's worth of allowance every month. With it they can impulse buy gum/candy/small toys. They are learning that if they want the bigger toys then they have to save for it. It is a good lesson for them to learn. Other than that, when the beg for things I just simply say, do you have any more allowance? In six months of getting an allowance they have learned not to beg. Now don't think they are toy poor...'s side of the family showers them with junk on birhtdays and Christmas. We do give them extra things during the month. Like we might go to the movie on cheap night if there is a kids picture, or last week I took them to Hastings to pick out a book. Other than that I don't know what to tell you. It is a life style. You just have to learn to be happy with what you have. I'm not saying that you don't wish for other things from time to time. But you don't always need the biggest and the best of everything. Dawn mom of 4, 7 and under, the youngest wcf Re: Something to get mad about :-((( > We support 6 on $24,000 a year. visits? More power to you! I live in MA and I don't really know how you could support 6 here for that amount. You must be one thrifty Mom! What are your secrets? jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2003 Report Share Posted May 22, 2003 Jan, I agree there is a big difference in the cost of living in different parts of the country. Places like MA, NY and CA are much more costly for everyday expenses like food and housing. Alabama is much less costly. While in Houston I would never have been able to buy my own house without the help of another income. With a major cut in pay when I moved back here, I was still able to buy a 3BR brick with over 2000 sq ft of room plus a huge basement. AND a car that was less than a year old. When I had to add the riding lawnmower for the 3.5 acres of yard, it got squeaky tight on money until the next pay raise then I was doing pretty good. In Houston I could barely make the rent and car payments on the older model car. While in Mass. I went into shock at the prices!!! Of EVERYthing! But, even here, there are still a lot of people who can barely make ends meet. Young mothers with a housefull of kids, the elderly, and many of the young couples starting out in life, have a really hard time keeping the electric and/or gas turned on, their junk heap of a car running, or decent food on the table s. Many are on a level with welfare even though they work full time. It makes it hard to get some out of the welfare system since they cant make enough money working to compensate for the loss of medical, food and housing assistance they receive while NOT working! It's like a catch 22. Add a special needs person to that and it gets even worse. It would be so great if the country would get the public assistance level equalized to the individual areas. And to the ones who really do need the assistance. Many parts of the country are lacking in the assistance programs that are available in other parts of the country. Much of the reason for that is due to the low rate of taxes in places like Alabama. We don't pay very high taxes but we don't get very many good programs to assist those who really need the help. That is, unless you are in the welfare system. But, even the welfare system doesn't allow much for special needs persons. Wooops! Sorry for the ranting. I've just seen too much and am the kind of person who likes to " fix " things. However, this is a situation where I cannot fit what is wrong. I also know it is something that there is no " quick fix " available. OK, enough! I thing we should put n on the next presidential ballot as a write in vote! Or, if she doesn't want to do it, I think would make a good candidate! Let's get some CF POWER into congress!!!! As always--Crazy in Alabama! Aunt B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2003 Report Share Posted May 22, 2003 All depends on the individual circumstances it seems. It sounds like you are doing a marvelous job of making the most out of what you are given. A family of 6 here would be at poverty levels and below in urban MA. I spend $10,000 a year alone just on medical insurance and copays. Another $5000 for food ($100 weekly for three) and $10,000 for mortgage/rent brings us at your $26,000. That leaves absolutely nothing for anything else such as heat, water, electricity or transportation. Where you live makes a big difference in how far the money goes. .. > > Other than that I don't know what to tell you. It is a life style. You just have to learn to be happy with what you have. I'm not saying that you don't wish for other things from time to time. But you don't always need the biggest and the best of everything. > > Dawn mom of 4, 7 and under, the youngest wcf > Re: Something to get mad about :-((( > > > > > We support 6 on $24,000 a year. > visits? > > More power to you! I live in MA and I don't really know how you > could support 6 here for that amount. You must be one thrifty Mom! > What are your secrets? > > jan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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