make a wish issues

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Hi guys,

I hope everyone is doing well.

This has been a lovely week. We attended a funeral for a premature baby. My

niece had him early and he lived about 8 hrs. Precious little thing. But, he

had so much wrong that he couldn't be saved. So, that was pretty emotional.

For me anyway, because it was a baby. Such a sad thing.

Today we got the call from make a wish. They asked questions about the boys,

likes and dislikes, etc....

Everything was going ok until we got to the fact that my stepson is in the

house. They want to include the whole family, but since wish includes

traveling, we have to get permission from his mother. This is what presents the

problem. She is such a #!@#!!!!. If she can stick it to us in any way, she

does it.

Example: We took a trip to Texas to see my mom. Only gone for 4-5 days. We

could not tell her because we did not know where she was. Well, we got told

that if she had known that we went, she would have had us arrested. Mind you,

she doesn't see the boy, it's been about 4 years now. But, technically she has

joint custody.

So, I am ready to scream.

Here's the delimma. Take the trip without him, ( let him stay with family -

while we go) or make change his wish?

For those of you who would ask, is she that heartless? When she found out

about the boys having cf, she said she didn't care about the little bastards

anyway. So, yes she is heartless.

Not to mention she about got what little heart she has ripped out.

Anyhow, any advice? What would you all do?

HELP!

Vondie

mom of & , both w/cf