Guest guest Posted February 27, 2003 Report Share Posted February 27, 2003 I don't mean to sound harsh, but could you tell me why you choose to keep having children, when you know you and your spouse are carriers? This has alway s peeked my interest. Thank you, and again I am not judging you or trying to be hateful, I am just curious. Amber Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2003 Report Share Posted February 27, 2003 Jen, First, let me say that I just adore the names you have chosen for your children! The CFF has info on the sweat test on their site at http://www.cff.org/living_with_cf/sweat_testing.cfm According to them, it can be done at any age. Some small babies don't make enough sweat, but I think this is the exception rather than the rule. (My son had the sweat test when he was 4 days old and it clearly indicated cf.) Values between 40 and 60 are borderline. Anything under 40 is negative for cf. This has not changed as far as I know. I don't know why they don't just do the genetic test, maybe expense, maybe because it takes longer to get the results, maybe nobody thought of it, maybe because it's slightly more invasive, maybe because the equipment they purchased to perform the sweat tests hasn't paid for itself yet. Your guess is as good as mine. Good luck with the new baby! ~ mommy of 3, 1 with cf Mannatech Associate > > Anyone else have the problem that they know so much about something and when > you need to recall the knollage you sound like an idiot? It could be > pregnauncy brain too, lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2003 Report Share Posted February 27, 2003 Not a problem. We didn't find out the girls had CF untill was 1 1/2 and Yoli was 4 months old. Since the military won't do genetic screening we figured that it wouldn't happen again? Majority of it ignorance on our part I guess. We both kinda figured lighting couldn't strike the same place 3 times right? We were really wrong. This last preg was a complete accident. Phynix was only 4 months old. Since I could never justify and abortion to my kids, I figure we'll take what ever is thrown. I've come to look at life differently because of this. It could be ALOT worse, at least they can see, hear and walk around. No one's gauranteed a certain amount of time on earth, it's what you do with the time you have that is important. I'm only 23 years old and will be having my tubes tied after Orion is born. It's just another cold hard fact of life that we are having to deal with. Jen A, mom to 4, Yoli 3 and Phynix 10 months and running all w/cf. Orion due April 14th?? >From: misybailey1@... >Reply-To: cfparents >To: cfparents >Subject: Re: Sweat Chloride Question (I should know this by >now!) >Date: Thu, 27 Feb 2003 23:20:43 EST > >I don't mean to sound harsh, but could you tell me why you choose to keep >having children, when you know you and your spouse are carriers? This has >alway s peeked my interest. > >Thank you, >and again I am not judging you or trying to be hateful, I am just curious. > >Amber > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 I'm kinda lucky. I have two other children besides my daughter. The two boys don't have CF, but guess why, because they're from different fathers. But I didn't know she had CF until she was 10. Had Iknown and still been with her father, would i have had more children?! I don't know. I know I would have had more still, if they hadn't told me I couldn't, but I do think its a very PERSONAL decision and also we have to take into consideration the major improvements they have made in treating CF and how the life expectancy has become greater. Maybe some of still hold out for that cure that will give our kids the same chance as everyone else! I don't know!...just a thought! G mom of Sammy 14 w/cf, mom of bobby and matt no/cf Re: Sweat Chloride Question (I should know this by now!) > I don't mean to sound harsh, but could you tell me why you choose to keep > having children, when you know you and your spouse are carriers? This has > alway s peeked my interest. > > Thank you, > and again I am not judging you or trying to be hateful, I am just curious. > > Amber > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 My daughter is 4 months old and they are going to test her. My cf dr. didn't say whether is was going to be harder on her than her brother, just that she needed to have it done soon. Christal MOm of Tristan 6ncf, Zack 2wcf, Ki'a 4monthscf? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 28, 2003 Report Share Posted February 28, 2003 I am unsure who this message was addressing. But in my case my husband and I had no idea we were carriers. Our son was not diagnosed until after we had our daughter. I have to honestly say that if we knew that he had it and there was a rick that she could, she probably would not exist. It would have taken a lot of praying and heart-searching. But you have to remember, these children, our children, need normalacy. They need brothers and sisters and people who care for them. It's like saying " oh- my mother has bipolar (which is also hereditary) that means me child could so even though I want a child I am not going to have one. " If you are a carrier and you want a child, theres no reason not to have one. We just need to remember the odd s, 1 in 4, to me that is good odds that my children would be ok. Christal Mom of Tristan 6ncf, Zack 2wcf, Ki'a 4monthscf? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 1, 2003 Report Share Posted March 1, 2003 In a message dated 2/28/2003 12:14:21 AM Central Standard Time, cfkids2@... writes: > No one's gauranteed a certain amount of time on > earth, it's what you do with the time you have that is important. VERY WELL SAID!!! Deb A Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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