Guest guest Posted February 15, 2003 Report Share Posted February 15, 2003 ((((((((((Debbie)))))))))))))) I have missed some of the more recent post about your daughter, but I have been keeping her in my prayers.. I know Ceep had said something about her maybe being able to get on some mild sedative medicines that won't harm the baby.. Today I met someone on line who just lost her little boy to drowning (Feb. 3rd) Since I too lost my little girl this way she and I have talked alot today. She is actually pregnant and due the end of this month or middle of next.. Her Dr.s put her on " hydroxyzine " she takes it every 6 hrs, she says it is very mild, but she can tell some difference in it helping her.. Anyways just wanted to let you know she and your whole family are in my prayers, and maybe you all can check into the medicine.. I know the worry and no sleep can only make things harder to deal with. Lots and lots of hugs, Chandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2003 Report Share Posted February 15, 2003 ((((((((((Debbie)))))))))))))) I have missed some of the more recent post about your daughter, but I have been keeping her in my prayers.. I know Ceep had said something about her maybe being able to get on some mild sedative medicines that won't harm the baby.. Today I met someone on line who just lost her little boy to drowning (Feb. 3rd) Since I too lost my little girl this way she and I have talked alot today. She is actually pregnant and due the end of this month or middle of next.. Her Dr.s put her on " hydroxyzine " she takes it every 6 hrs, she says it is very mild, but she can tell some difference in it helping her.. Anyways just wanted to let you know she and your whole family are in my prayers, and maybe you all can check into the medicine.. I know the worry and no sleep can only make things harder to deal with. Lots and lots of hugs, Chandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2003 Report Share Posted February 15, 2003 Dear Ceep You and this group are not intruding. YOu infact are what is helping me hold on and helping me be strong for my daughter. Remeo has been so helpful. When we saw the army doc last week I was truley convinced the baby was going to dye, and at that point my only concern became cyn. Neither one of us believe in abortion, I mean we beleive its a momans right to say yes oor no. I knew nothing about Ds babys, It neve occured to me that they were a higher risk of dying in the woumb. This doctor said theres never been a baby survive. Ok I took her at her word. Im so glad i put this to our group cause ive since been emailed that there are babys who have survived this condition called hydrops fetals. contacted her doc specialist and he said this was a serious condition and is the main reason for the deaths. I was also told it could correct itself and the baby be no worse off. Although this is rare. I relayed this to cyn. I could since a calm come over her. All she wanted was some one to tell her there was a sliver of hope. She fully understands whats happening, but is leaving it Gods hands. She is 20 weeks along as of today so the cut off for legal abortions are 24 weeks so she has to be seen by next week or the week after. I was so glad I fought my boss and was there with her. Thank you all for helping us through this I could not have made it with out you. I will ask for the meds for her. She will be 22 on feb 24th and has another ultrasound. Debby R (wa) >From: lacorona@... >To: Graduate-OSSG >Subject: prayers needed >Date: Sun, 16 Feb 2003 00:09:30 EST > >Dear Debbie: hang in there; don't listen to any well-meaning folks who >think >they can predict the future based on nothing, or say what is right for your >daughter and her child. > >Your daughter will decide, along with your tender counsel to her, and a >much >greater Hand guiding you both. Try as hard as you can, not to let her jump >ahead about never having a child, and all those horrible thoughts that >assail >us during hellacious times. Perhaps suggest to her to try to stop scaring >herself with " what if? " thoughts right now. That you and she will deal with >one thing at a time, with what is real, rather than what is frightening >fantasy. > >Try to get her to just stay right in the present. Perhaps by suggesting to >her that it is good for the baby that she remain as calm as she can under >the >circumstances, and that fantasies about the far future make her hormones >spill, and the baby feels those too. I think it is the hardest thing in the >world to stay in the present when it feels like the gates of hell are >clanking closed all around you. But, the one day at a time, the one hour >at >a time, is a proven strategy that helps to take the edges off the panic. > >If you feel like she cannot release at all, you might ask her doc if there >is >any extremely mild sedative that will in no way harm her or the baby that >might help in the interim. You might see about a claming tea that will not >hurt a pregnant woman or her child. > >This is not your situation at all, but it is one I draw my experience >from....I know when my child (grown daughter) was so out of her mind over >her >dying child, even though i felt like I could barely stand myself--but with >the arms of the Blessed Mother around me, I undressed my beloved daughter >and >washed her and put lotion on her whole body, and combed her hair, and just >loved her like she was a little baby herself, and it helped for it gave her >the place to weep and be held, and feel loved insofar as she could manage. >I >guess I am just trying to say, that sometimes as a mother there is so >little >to be said to help one's suffering child, but touch can say what words >cannot. > >I do not in any way want to intrude at a time like this Debbie, but if you >are up to it, can you tell us *when* the docs might have more reliable >information for your daughter? Waiting can hurt. > >This comes with love and peace for your mother's heart, and for your >daughter's heart also. >ceep G-MOM > > > > > > > > > > > Cyndie is > > is only into . > > He is not suportive at all. > > Right now I think the only thing Cyndie wants to hear is >that > > this baby has a chance to live. She dosnt care that it will >e >a > > ds baby. > > I called her and read some of the posts. I told her that one >of > > > them has a living baby who had the same dx as cyns baby. > > I think she found comfort in this one post. > > This is so hard. Every one keeps saying its for the best that > > she loose it WHY is this best. Either way this will never be >over > > for cyn. Yes the pain will lesson but she will never forget >and > > . This will not be a simple miscarae if this is what >happens. > > She fears she will never be able to have a normal child. > > Thanks for careing > > Debby R (wa) > > > >Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG > >Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 15, 2003 Report Share Posted February 15, 2003 Dear Ceep You and this group are not intruding. YOu infact are what is helping me hold on and helping me be strong for my daughter. Remeo has been so helpful. When we saw the army doc last week I was truley convinced the baby was going to dye, and at that point my only concern became cyn. Neither one of us believe in abortion, I mean we beleive its a momans right to say yes oor no. I knew nothing about Ds babys, It neve occured to me that they were a higher risk of dying in the woumb. This doctor said theres never been a baby survive. Ok I took her at her word. Im so glad i put this to our group cause ive since been emailed that there are babys who have survived this condition called hydrops fetals. contacted her doc specialist and he said this was a serious condition and is the main reason for the deaths. I was also told it could correct itself and the baby be no worse off. Although this is rare. I relayed this to cyn. I could since a calm come over her. All she wanted was some one to tell her there was a sliver of hope. She fully understands whats happening, but is leaving it Gods hands. She is 20 weeks along as of today so the cut off for legal abortions are 24 weeks so she has to be seen by next week or the week after. I was so glad I fought my boss and was there with her. Thank you all for helping us through this I could not have made it with out you. I will ask for the meds for her. She will be 22 on feb 24th and has another ultrasound. Debby R (wa) >From: lacorona@... >To: Graduate-OSSG >Subject: prayers needed >Date: Sun, 16 Feb 2003 00:09:30 EST > >Dear Debbie: hang in there; don't listen to any well-meaning folks who >think >they can predict the future based on nothing, or say what is right for your >daughter and her child. > >Your daughter will decide, along with your tender counsel to her, and a >much >greater Hand guiding you both. Try as hard as you can, not to let her jump >ahead about never having a child, and all those horrible thoughts that >assail >us during hellacious times. Perhaps suggest to her to try to stop scaring >herself with " what if? " thoughts right now. That you and she will deal with >one thing at a time, with what is real, rather than what is frightening >fantasy. > >Try to get her to just stay right in the present. Perhaps by suggesting to >her that it is good for the baby that she remain as calm as she can under >the >circumstances, and that fantasies about the far future make her hormones >spill, and the baby feels those too. I think it is the hardest thing in the >world to stay in the present when it feels like the gates of hell are >clanking closed all around you. But, the one day at a time, the one hour >at >a time, is a proven strategy that helps to take the edges off the panic. > >If you feel like she cannot release at all, you might ask her doc if there >is >any extremely mild sedative that will in no way harm her or the baby that >might help in the interim. You might see about a claming tea that will not >hurt a pregnant woman or her child. > >This is not your situation at all, but it is one I draw my experience >from....I know when my child (grown daughter) was so out of her mind over >her >dying child, even though i felt like I could barely stand myself--but with >the arms of the Blessed Mother around me, I undressed my beloved daughter >and >washed her and put lotion on her whole body, and combed her hair, and just >loved her like she was a little baby herself, and it helped for it gave her >the place to weep and be held, and feel loved insofar as she could manage. >I >guess I am just trying to say, that sometimes as a mother there is so >little >to be said to help one's suffering child, but touch can say what words >cannot. > >I do not in any way want to intrude at a time like this Debbie, but if you >are up to it, can you tell us *when* the docs might have more reliable >information for your daughter? Waiting can hurt. > >This comes with love and peace for your mother's heart, and for your >daughter's heart also. >ceep G-MOM > > > > > > > > > > > Cyndie is > > is only into . > > He is not suportive at all. > > Right now I think the only thing Cyndie wants to hear is >that > > this baby has a chance to live. She dosnt care that it will >e >a > > ds baby. > > I called her and read some of the posts. I told her that one >of > > > them has a living baby who had the same dx as cyns baby. > > I think she found comfort in this one post. > > This is so hard. Every one keeps saying its for the best that > > she loose it WHY is this best. Either way this will never be >over > > for cyn. Yes the pain will lesson but she will never forget >and > > . This will not be a simple miscarae if this is what >happens. > > She fears she will never be able to have a normal child. > > Thanks for careing > > Debby R (wa) > > > >Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG > >Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2003 Report Share Posted February 17, 2003 Your little girl sounds beautiful to me. Thank you for all your kind support. I wish Cyn didnt live so far away. We are a two hour drive away and a 130 miles. We are going up to Tacamo this weekend. If not sooner if the apt is this week. Debby R (wa) > >Reply-To: >To: " Debby Rose " >Subject: RE: prayers needed >Date: Mon, 17 Feb 2003 07:00:18 -0600 > >Dear Debby, > You are truly a blessing by your daughters side... I think in your >way it >would be called that you are an Angel on her shoulder (?) sorry if I get >the term wrong but meant in a loving way... > The connection felt between our Maiden, Mother and Crone selves are >not an >accident and to be able to be there and support your daughter is a >wonderful >thing. I understand how her older sister is afraid for her but all children >are special children. Some times we know it before or at birth and other >times we don't know it until they are older... some " need us " more than >others but they don't have to be born with a label to be more 'needy' as >many children just are and many just aren't and I have no doubt that >Goddess >wouldn't give your little girl more than she can deal with and become a >stronger person for it... if she chooses to terminate she would become >stronger and if she chooses to keep the baby she will become stronger so >she >is truly in a win win situation even though it is fearful and scary. > Our little girl is 5 now (adopted this one) and she was 2lbs 2oz >when she >was born but we wanted her anyway. We had no way to know about any >possibilities of how she might be different until she grew some... really >we didn't even know for the first several days if she would live but it >didn't matter we were set to love her for however long and under any >circumstances... She's not only caught up but past many children her age in >terms of how smart she is. Her eye sight is not good and her upper body >strength is something we work on a lot with swimming, gymnastics and other >sports and play. She is such a blessing and I wouldn't trade her for >anything in the world. > We didn't plan to adopt -- she is a family member and her mother was >just >too young and couldn't take care of her... my husband (63) and myself (42) >are too old to be parents again (our 4 children are already grown) But, it >is something Goddess has given us to do for whatever reason and we simply >love it... love her and truly love being a family with a small child. > We just don't always get to " plan " our own ideals of our " perfect " >future >but if we get out of the way and leave it in God/dess hands with total >trust >then it all works itself out in wonderful ways. > > >>> She fears that cyn wont be able to cope with a special child. >I feel she can.<<< > I don't believe in my heart that Cyn will be given a child that she >can't >cope with and that whole thing is just not in our hands -- older sisters >are >very protective and that too is a good thing in its own way. None of us are >given a task we are not up to. ~smile~ I truly didn't think I could be a >Mother again at my age and having already done it most of my life... but I >can and I am and it is a blessing every morning and every night -- that >isn't to say it isn't a struggle too, it is... but one that makes us all >stronger and brings those we love closer if we allow it to. > > >>>> I feel like ive aged ten years this past week.<<< > Oh Debby, I KNOW that feeling so well *sigh* I can spend a difficult >1/2 a >day with my 22 year old daughter and her issues and come away feeling old >and decrepit and just " drained " -- Be SURE your taking some time out for >yourself to rebuild your own reserves. This is so hard for us to remember >to >do but we need that " time " to recharge. Eat super healthy, lots of protein >shakes help me a lot, a long hot bath alone or a simple walk outdoors >(difficult in this weather) > > A truly good option is just the making and sitting down with a hot >cup of >chamomile tea with you alone or you and Cyn can be a relaxing and wonderful >thing to do for both of you. Do check with her doctor but chamomile during >pregnancy is normally not an issue if she isn't on any other medications... >it is good for the digestive track and it is even recommended for babies >with trouble sleeping or tummy problems (in cut amounts... I used half >tea/half water... after she was old enough added honey) > > My thoughts and prayers are with you all... >hugz, >~denise _________________________________________________________________ Protect your PC - get McAfee.com VirusScan Online http://clinic.mcafee.com/clinic/ibuy/campaign.asp?cid=3963 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2003 Report Share Posted February 17, 2003 Your little girl sounds beautiful to me. Thank you for all your kind support. I wish Cyn didnt live so far away. We are a two hour drive away and a 130 miles. We are going up to Tacamo this weekend. If not sooner if the apt is this week. Debby R (wa) > >Reply-To: >To: " Debby Rose " >Subject: RE: prayers needed >Date: Mon, 17 Feb 2003 07:00:18 -0600 > >Dear Debby, > You are truly a blessing by your daughters side... I think in your >way it >would be called that you are an Angel on her shoulder (?) sorry if I get >the term wrong but meant in a loving way... > The connection felt between our Maiden, Mother and Crone selves are >not an >accident and to be able to be there and support your daughter is a >wonderful >thing. I understand how her older sister is afraid for her but all children >are special children. Some times we know it before or at birth and other >times we don't know it until they are older... some " need us " more than >others but they don't have to be born with a label to be more 'needy' as >many children just are and many just aren't and I have no doubt that >Goddess >wouldn't give your little girl more than she can deal with and become a >stronger person for it... if she chooses to terminate she would become >stronger and if she chooses to keep the baby she will become stronger so >she >is truly in a win win situation even though it is fearful and scary. > Our little girl is 5 now (adopted this one) and she was 2lbs 2oz >when she >was born but we wanted her anyway. We had no way to know about any >possibilities of how she might be different until she grew some... really >we didn't even know for the first several days if she would live but it >didn't matter we were set to love her for however long and under any >circumstances... She's not only caught up but past many children her age in >terms of how smart she is. Her eye sight is not good and her upper body >strength is something we work on a lot with swimming, gymnastics and other >sports and play. She is such a blessing and I wouldn't trade her for >anything in the world. > We didn't plan to adopt -- she is a family member and her mother was >just >too young and couldn't take care of her... my husband (63) and myself (42) >are too old to be parents again (our 4 children are already grown) But, it >is something Goddess has given us to do for whatever reason and we simply >love it... love her and truly love being a family with a small child. > We just don't always get to " plan " our own ideals of our " perfect " >future >but if we get out of the way and leave it in God/dess hands with total >trust >then it all works itself out in wonderful ways. > > >>> She fears that cyn wont be able to cope with a special child. >I feel she can.<<< > I don't believe in my heart that Cyn will be given a child that she >can't >cope with and that whole thing is just not in our hands -- older sisters >are >very protective and that too is a good thing in its own way. None of us are >given a task we are not up to. ~smile~ I truly didn't think I could be a >Mother again at my age and having already done it most of my life... but I >can and I am and it is a blessing every morning and every night -- that >isn't to say it isn't a struggle too, it is... but one that makes us all >stronger and brings those we love closer if we allow it to. > > >>>> I feel like ive aged ten years this past week.<<< > Oh Debby, I KNOW that feeling so well *sigh* I can spend a difficult >1/2 a >day with my 22 year old daughter and her issues and come away feeling old >and decrepit and just " drained " -- Be SURE your taking some time out for >yourself to rebuild your own reserves. This is so hard for us to remember >to >do but we need that " time " to recharge. Eat super healthy, lots of protein >shakes help me a lot, a long hot bath alone or a simple walk outdoors >(difficult in this weather) > > A truly good option is just the making and sitting down with a hot >cup of >chamomile tea with you alone or you and Cyn can be a relaxing and wonderful >thing to do for both of you. Do check with her doctor but chamomile during >pregnancy is normally not an issue if she isn't on any other medications... >it is good for the digestive track and it is even recommended for babies >with trouble sleeping or tummy problems (in cut amounts... I used half >tea/half water... after she was old enough added honey) > > My thoughts and prayers are with you all... >hugz, >~denise _________________________________________________________________ Protect your PC - get McAfee.com VirusScan Online http://clinic.mcafee.com/clinic/ibuy/campaign.asp?cid=3963 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2003 Report Share Posted December 24, 2003 In a message dated 12/24/2003 10:58:13 PM Central Standard Time, candiread@... writes: Got a call from my father in law just about an hour ago. My mother in law had a stroke today (early afternoon). She is home. The doctor said they felt she had a mild stroke and that could be a more serious one on the way but they could not keep her in the hospital. We are going over early tomorrow to help Dad get the food ready. She still wants everyone there with her. I don't know how my husband will deal with it if anything happens to her. He loves his Mom and Dad soo much. Candi Oh Candi I hate to hear this...Prayers headed all of your way! God Bless and take care. Wolfie Leeds, Alabama " Keep It Real & Off the Top " Lap Rny & Choly Dr. Lee Schmitt Medical Center East August 27,2003 349Pre-Op/336/257/200 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 24, 2003 Report Share Posted December 24, 2003 In a message dated 12/24/2003 10:58:13 PM Central Standard Time, candiread@... writes: Got a call from my father in law just about an hour ago. My mother in law had a stroke today (early afternoon). She is home. The doctor said they felt she had a mild stroke and that could be a more serious one on the way but they could not keep her in the hospital. We are going over early tomorrow to help Dad get the food ready. She still wants everyone there with her. I don't know how my husband will deal with it if anything happens to her. He loves his Mom and Dad soo much. Candi Oh Candi I hate to hear this...Prayers headed all of your way! God Bless and take care. Wolfie Leeds, Alabama " Keep It Real & Off the Top " Lap Rny & Choly Dr. Lee Schmitt Medical Center East August 27,2003 349Pre-Op/336/257/200 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 Candi ....more prayers headed your way.... take care.. Skinny wishes and prayers from Mandy in CA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 Candi ....more prayers headed your way.... take care.. Skinny wishes and prayers from Mandy in CA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 Candi, I'm so sorry to hear this. Be there to support your husband. Emotionally he'll need it even if nothing else happens. Joan LAP RNY 11/18/03 Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA 282pre-op/275surg/243/140 Prayers Needed Got a call from my father in law just about an hour ago. My mother in law had a stroke today (early afternoon). She is home. The doctor said they felt she had a mild stroke and that could be a more serious one on the way but they could not keep her in the hospital. We are going over early tomorrow to help Dad get the food ready. She still wants everyone there with her. I don't know how my husband will deal with it if anything happens to her. He loves his Mom and Dad soo much. Candi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 Candi, I'm so sorry to hear this. Be there to support your husband. Emotionally he'll need it even if nothing else happens. Joan LAP RNY 11/18/03 Dr. Higa, Fresno, CA 282pre-op/275surg/243/140 Prayers Needed Got a call from my father in law just about an hour ago. My mother in law had a stroke today (early afternoon). She is home. The doctor said they felt she had a mild stroke and that could be a more serious one on the way but they could not keep her in the hospital. We are going over early tomorrow to help Dad get the food ready. She still wants everyone there with her. I don't know how my husband will deal with it if anything happens to her. He loves his Mom and Dad soo much. Candi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 25, 2003 Report Share Posted December 25, 2003 I will keep you in my prayers. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted November 28, 2005 Report Share Posted November 28, 2005 I went for labwork today at the hospital and my line was completely clotted off. I know it is entirely my fault as I was amiss in flushing my line over the holiday. Nothing will flush thru and even the IV Team had no success and so TPA couldn't even be used. They said it was really bad and that the line would have to be pulled. It needed to be soon as there is high risk of infection now and/or that the clot could move. I'm just sick over this. We called Cleveland Clinic where I had the line placed and the surgeon who placed my line can remove the old one and place a new one on Wed. Ashlee will be driving my mom and I to Cleveland tom. (Tues) and I will be having surgery sometime on Wed. We have a room at RMH for tom night. I would really appreciate your prayers as we are all anxious about this whole matter. I've been so very careful to guard against an infection and now I was so dumb and didn't flush my line. Thank you and check my CB site for updates. Check in the guestbook as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2005 Report Share Posted November 28, 2005 let me add my thoughts and prayers! Vivian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2005 Report Share Posted November 28, 2005 --- LILQT4U1984@... wrote: , I am sorry for your bad luck, I will ask my church for prayers for you. Good Luck and God Bless, Dolores --------------------------------- I went for labwork today at the hospital and my line was completely clotted off. I know it is entirely my fault as I was amiss in flushing my line over the holiday. Nothing will flush thru and even the IV Team had no success and so TPA couldn't even be used. They said it was really bad and that the line would have to be pulled. It needed to be soon as there is high risk of infection now and/or that the clot could move. I'm just sick over this. We called Cleveland Clinic where I had the line placed and the surgeon who placed my line can remove the old one and place a new one on Wed. Ashlee will be driving my mom and I to Cleveland tom. (Tues) and I will be having surgery sometime on Wed. We have a room at RMH for tom night. I would really appreciate your prayers as we are all anxious about this whole matter. I've been so very careful to guard against an infection and now I was so dumb and didn't flush my line. Thank you and check my CB site for updates. Check in the guestbook as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2005 Report Share Posted November 28, 2005 You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Don't beat yourself up over this. We all need to leave this disease at the doorstep once in awhile. It just happened that your line didn't like being ignored. Hugs, laurie > I went for labwork today at the hospital and my line was completely clotted > off. I know it is entirely my fault as I was amiss in flushing my line over > the > holiday. Nothing will flush thru and even the IV Team had no success and so > TPA couldn't even be used. They said it was really bad and that the line > would > have to be pulled. It needed to be soon as there is high risk of infection > now > and/or that the clot could move. I'm just sick over this. We called > Cleveland > Clinic where I had the line placed and the surgeon who placed my line can > remove the old one and place a new one on Wed. Ashlee will be driving my > mom and > I to Cleveland tom. (Tues) and I will be having surgery sometime on Wed. We > have a room at RMH for tom night. I would really appreciate your prayers as > we > are all anxious about this whole matter. I've been so very careful to guard > against an infection and now I was so dumb and didn't flush my line. Thank > you > and check my CB site for updates. Check in the guestbook as well. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2005 Report Share Posted November 28, 2005 , I'll include you in my daily prayers. I'll think good thoughts that all will go well. Hugs, Shelby > , > > Of course our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please have a safe > trip and try to have a positive attitude that things will go well. > Also, try not to beat yourself up too much about it happening, > sometimes > it just feels way too good to try to just have a few normal days. > > If someone can let us know how things are going, that would be great. > > Hugs, > > > LILQT4U1984@... wrote: > >> I went for labwork today at the hospital and my line was completely >> clotted >> off. I know it is entirely my fault as I was amiss in flushing my >> line over the >> holiday. Nothing will flush thru and even the IV Team had no success >> and so >> TPA couldn't even be used. They said it was really bad and that the >> line would >> have to be pulled. It needed to be soon as there is high risk of >> infection now >> and/or that the clot could move. I'm just sick over this. We called >> Cleveland >> Clinic where I had the line placed and the surgeon who placed my line >> can >> remove the old one and place a new one on Wed. Ashlee will be driving >> my mom and >> I to Cleveland tom. (Tues) and I will be having surgery sometime on >> Wed. We >> have a room at RMH for tom night. I would really appreciate your >> prayers as we >> are all anxious about this whole matter. I've been so very careful to >> guard >> against an infection and now I was so dumb and didn't flush my line. >> Thank you >> and check my CB site for updates. Check in the guestbook as well. >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2005 Report Share Posted November 28, 2005 , I am so very sorry to hear you have to have another surgery, I will also keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.Best of luck hugs. Donna K ---- LILQT4U1984@... wrote: > I went for labwork today at the hospital and my line was completely clotted > off. I know it is entirely my fault as I was amiss in flushing my line over the > holiday. Nothing will flush thru and even the IV Team had no success and so > TPA couldn't even be used. They said it was really bad and that the line would > have to be pulled. It needed to be soon as there is high risk of infection now > and/or that the clot could move. I'm just sick over this. We called Cleveland > Clinic where I had the line placed and the surgeon who placed my line can > remove the old one and place a new one on Wed. Ashlee will be driving my mom and > I to Cleveland tom. (Tues) and I will be having surgery sometime on Wed. We > have a room at RMH for tom night. I would really appreciate your prayers as we > are all anxious about this whole matter. I've been so very careful to guard > against an infection and now I was so dumb and didn't flush my line. Thank you > and check my CB site for updates. Check in the guestbook as well. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2005 Report Share Posted November 28, 2005 , Of course our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please have a safe trip and try to have a positive attitude that things will go well. Also, try not to beat yourself up too much about it happening, sometimes it just feels way too good to try to just have a few normal days. If someone can let us know how things are going, that would be great. Hugs, LILQT4U1984@... wrote: >I went for labwork today at the hospital and my line was completely clotted >off. I know it is entirely my fault as I was amiss in flushing my line over the >holiday. Nothing will flush thru and even the IV Team had no success and so >TPA couldn't even be used. They said it was really bad and that the line would >have to be pulled. It needed to be soon as there is high risk of infection now >and/or that the clot could move. I'm just sick over this. We called Cleveland >Clinic where I had the line placed and the surgeon who placed my line can >remove the old one and place a new one on Wed. Ashlee will be driving my mom and >I to Cleveland tom. (Tues) and I will be having surgery sometime on Wed. We >have a room at RMH for tom night. I would really appreciate your prayers as we >are all anxious about this whole matter. I've been so very careful to guard >against an infection and now I was so dumb and didn't flush my line. Thank you >and check my CB site for updates. Check in the guestbook as well. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2005 Report Share Posted November 29, 2005 , you'll be in my prayers. Also, please remember that we all make mistakes. It's part of being human. When people don't have such a serious illness, they don't pay as high a price. Please forgive yourself. I've made lots of mistakes in my life and I've found self-forgiveness to be truly healing. Best wishes to you, Shayna > > I went for labwork today at the hospital and my line was completely clotted > off. I know it is entirely my fault as I was amiss in flushing my line over the > holiday. Nothing will flush thru and even the IV Team had no success and so > TPA couldn't even be used. They said it was really bad and that the line would > have to be pulled. It needed to be soon as there is high risk of infection now > and/or that the clot could move. I'm just sick over this. We called Cleveland > Clinic where I had the line placed and the surgeon who placed my line can > remove the old one and place a new one on Wed. Ashlee will be driving my mom and > I to Cleveland tom. (Tues) and I will be having surgery sometime on Wed. We > have a room at RMH for tom night. I would really appreciate your prayers as we > are all anxious about this whole matter. I've been so very careful to guard > against an infection and now I was so dumb and didn't flush my line. Thank you > and check my CB site for updates. Check in the guestbook as well. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2005 Report Share Posted November 29, 2005 , I will be thinking of you and praying for you and your medical team as you go to Cleveland for yet another surgery. In your young life, you have been thru many of these difficult times. My heart reaches out to you and I am amazed at your strength. I am sorry you have had to go thru so much. Many Hugs! Alice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2005 Report Share Posted November 29, 2005 Thank you so much to everyone for the prayers. We arrived in Cleveland late this afternoon and I'm very exhausted. My surgery is tom. Wed at 2 p.m. EST. Thank you again. Love, Re: Prayers Needed , I will be thinking of you and praying for you and your medical team as you go to Cleveland for yet another surgery. In your young life, you have been thru many of these difficult times. My heart reaches out to you and I am amazed at your strength. I am sorry you have had to go thru so much. Many Hugs! Alice Medical advice, information, opinions, data and statements contained herein are not necessarily those of the list moderators. The author of this e mail is entirely responsible for its content. List members are reminded of their responsibility to evaluate the content of the postings and consult with their physicians regarding changes in their own treatment. Personal attacks are not permitted on the list and anyone who sends one is automatically moderated or removed depending on the severity of the attack. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2005 Report Share Posted November 30, 2005 --- , You will be in my prays today . I will pray that the surgury is a sucess with out any complications. Hug! DawnAnich In , LILQT4U1984@a... wrote: > > Thank you so much to everyone for the prayers. We arrived in Cleveland late this afternoon and I'm very exhausted. My surgery is tom. Wed at 2 p.m. EST. Thank you again. Love, > > Re: Prayers Needed > > > , > > I will be thinking of you and praying for you and your medical team as > you go to Cleveland for yet another surgery. In your young life, you > have been thru many of these difficult times. My heart reaches out to > you and I am amazed at your strength. I am sorry you have had to go > thru so much. > > Many Hugs! > Alice > > > > > > > > > > > > Medical advice, information, opinions, data and statements contained herein are > not necessarily those of the list moderators. The author of this e mail is > entirely responsible for its content. List members are reminded of their > responsibility to evaluate the content of the postings and consult with their > physicians regarding changes in their own treatment. > > Personal attacks are not permitted on the list and anyone who sends one is > automatically moderated or removed depending on the severity of the attack. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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