Guest guest Posted October 10, 2003 Report Share Posted October 10, 2003 Hi, everyone. I have been observing Max and his day to day dealings with high school and have made a very interesting note.... The older/bigger kids, girls mostly, are very protective of Max and think " he is so cute!!! " Max eats it up, of course. They have helped him with his locker, gotten his books, bought him bagels, bought him candy, and just remarked about how cute he is as he has walked by. This is even to the point of telling their parents at night about Max! The reason I have found this interesting is because it is sort of like preschool all over again! Remember how we have commented on kids in school wanting to " baby " our RSS kids because at that age they are so small. Whenever they play house, the RSS child is the baby due to size. Well, now it is happening in the same way in high school. What a funny way to come full circle, huh? Here we were afraid that Max would get teased, but they are actually protective of him and look out for that " cute kid " walking down the hall or going to study hall, or whatever. I am not sure if this is good or bad. We want Max to be independent, but, then again, he is not asking for this. People are just reacting this way to him. My husband and I figure that if he is happy, that is all that matters right now. And Max is VERY happy at school. His teachers cannot say enough good things about him, he has all A's now and he looks forward to going. I don't think a parent could ask for more. Jodi Z. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2003 Report Share Posted October 10, 2003 Our class president in high school was very small - I think he needed to sit on something to see over the steering wheel in Driver's Ed. Everyone loved him, too. When I feel frightened for Tim's future, I like to remember him ! Inga At 01:03 AM 10/11/2003 +0000, you wrote: >Hi, everyone. I have been observing Max and his day to day dealings >with high school and have made a very interesting note.... > >The older/bigger kids, girls mostly, are very protective of Max and >think " he is so cute!!! " Max eats it up, of course. They have >helped him with his locker, gotten his books, bought him bagels, >bought him candy, and just remarked about how cute he is as he has >walked by. This is even to the point of telling their parents at >night about Max! > >The reason I have found this interesting is because it is sort of >like preschool all over again! Remember how we have commented on >kids in school wanting to " baby " our RSS kids because at that age >they are so small. Whenever they play house, the RSS child is the >baby due to size. Well, now it is happening in the same way in high >school. What a funny way to come full circle, huh? Here we were >afraid that Max would get teased, but they are actually protective >of him and look out for that " cute kid " walking down the hall or >going to study hall, or whatever. > >I am not sure if this is good or bad. We want Max to be >independent, but, then again, he is not asking for this. People >are just reacting this way to him. My husband and I figure that if >he is happy, that is all that matters right now. And Max is VERY >happy at school. His teachers cannot say enough good things about >him, he has all A's now and he looks forward to going. > >I don't think a parent could ask for more. > >Jodi Z. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2003 Report Share Posted October 11, 2003 Hi Inga Its Kim(25) from the UK I'm 4'4 " approx and I drive a car {a family auto hatchbach}with no adaptions at all i don't even need a cushion on the seat.So RSS people can live a " normal " life in some areas. Take Care all Inga ihughes@...> wrote: Our class president in high school was very small - I think he needed to sit on something to see over the steering wheel in Driver's Ed. Everyone loved him, too. When I feel frightened for Tim's future, I like to remember him ! Inga At 01:03 AM 10/11/2003 +0000, you wrote: >Hi, everyone. I have been observing Max and his day to day dealings >with high school and have made a very interesting note.... > >The older/bigger kids, girls mostly, are very protective of Max and >think " he is so cute!!! " Max eats it up, of course. They have >helped him with his locker, gotten his books, bought him bagels, >bought him candy, and just remarked about how cute he is as he has >walked by. This is even to the point of telling their parents at >night about Max! > >The reason I have found this interesting is because it is sort of >like preschool all over again! Remember how we have commented on >kids in school wanting to " baby " our RSS kids because at that age >they are so small. Whenever they play house, the RSS child is the >baby due to size. Well, now it is happening in the same way in high >school. What a funny way to come full circle, huh? Here we were >afraid that Max would get teased, but they are actually protective >of him and look out for that " cute kid " walking down the hall or >going to study hall, or whatever. > >I am not sure if this is good or bad. We want Max to be >independent, but, then again, he is not asking for this. People >are just reacting this way to him. My husband and I figure that if >he is happy, that is all that matters right now. And Max is VERY >happy at school. His teachers cannot say enough good things about >him, he has all A's now and he looks forward to going. > >I don't think a parent could ask for more. > >Jodi Z. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2003 Report Share Posted October 11, 2003 Hi When I was at school I was treated the same as everyone else.My best friend was and still is a giant compared to me and I tried to do all the things they did.If I couldn't manage something they did I found a different way to do it.Three years ago my school friend got married and I was Maid of honour and although the photos look comical{me with a groups of " normal height people " I felt special and priveleged to be asked to be part of her special day.Friends made at school can be friends for life and love us for who we are even though we're " special " Jodi Zwain magicrss@...> wrote: Hi, everyone. I have been observing Max and his day to day dealings with high school and have made a very interesting note.... The older/bigger kids, girls mostly, are very protective of Max and think " he is so cute!!! " Max eats it up, of course. They have helped him with his locker, gotten his books, bought him bagels, bought him candy, and just remarked about how cute he is as he has walked by. This is even to the point of telling their parents at night about Max! The reason I have found this interesting is because it is sort of like preschool all over again! Remember how we have commented on kids in school wanting to " baby " our RSS kids because at that age they are so small. Whenever they play house, the RSS child is the baby due to size. Well, now it is happening in the same way in high school. What a funny way to come full circle, huh? Here we were afraid that Max would get teased, but they are actually protective of him and look out for that " cute kid " walking down the hall or going to study hall, or whatever. I am not sure if this is good or bad. We want Max to be independent, but, then again, he is not asking for this. People are just reacting this way to him. My husband and I figure that if he is happy, that is all that matters right now. And Max is VERY happy at school. His teachers cannot say enough good things about him, he has all A's now and he looks forward to going. I don't think a parent could ask for more. Jodi Z. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2003 Report Share Posted October 11, 2003 I have to chime in that my daughter, who is the smallest in her first grade class, is best friends with the tallest kid in the class. They have been best friends since last year. I get such a kick out of it. The friend wrote the following poem for (and of course has no idea that has a 'syndrome'): You are short And I am tall But we're best friends and that is all How do you like that?! Irene > Hi, everyone. I have been observing Max and his day to day dealings > with high school and have made a very interesting note.... > > The older/bigger kids, girls mostly, are very protective of Max and > think " he is so cute!!! " Max eats it up, of course. They have > helped him with his locker, gotten his books, bought him bagels, > bought him candy, and just remarked about how cute he is as he has > walked by. This is even to the point of telling their parents at > night about Max! > > The reason I have found this interesting is because it is sort of > like preschool all over again! Remember how we have commented on > kids in school wanting to " baby " our RSS kids because at that age > they are so small. Whenever they play house, the RSS child is the > baby due to size. Well, now it is happening in the same way in high > school. What a funny way to come full circle, huh? Here we were > afraid that Max would get teased, but they are actually protective > of him and look out for that " cute kid " walking down the hall or > going to study hall, or whatever. > > I am not sure if this is good or bad. We want Max to be > independent, but, then again, he is not asking for this. People > are just reacting this way to him. My husband and I figure that if > he is happy, that is all that matters right now. And Max is VERY > happy at school. His teachers cannot say enough good things about > him, he has all A's now and he looks forward to going. > > I don't think a parent could ask for more. > > Jodi Z. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2003 Report Share Posted October 12, 2003 I LOVE it! Jodi Z. > I have to chime in that my daughter, who is the smallest in her first > grade class, is best friends with the tallest kid in the class. > They have been best friends since last year. I get such a kick out > of it. The friend wrote the following poem for (and of course > has no idea that has a 'syndrome'): > You are short > And I am tall > But we're best friends > and that is all > > How do you like that?! > Irene > > >> > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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