Something strange is happening

January 26, 2003

In a message dated 1/26/03 2:16:23 PM Central Standard Time,

vickiang@... writes:

<< He is being kind and supportive >>

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It happened with mine too. But he didn't go on a trip or have any kind of

" event " that I can think of that triggered the change. Maybe it was a

realization that came upon him one nite at 2am when he'd diarrhea-ed his way

across the bedroom to the john, and he sat on the bed afterwards watching me

cry while cleaning up the blood and other drippings (sorry, all) trying to

scrub it all out of the sunshine yellow carpeting....

At least, that's about the only thing I can think of that it might date back

to. Enjoy the new-found relationship. It probably won't be easy to rebuild,

but at least it's a start. There were reasons you loved him in the beginning;

try to focus on those as you work towards reconciliation.

Good luck,

Carol A

January 26, 2003

My hasbeen got back from his corporate sponsored Eco-challenge in

Australia last week. It seems to have been a really life changing

experience for him. He seems so much more into life and our

marriage. He is being kind and supportive. He's spending time

together with me and the family. He has even done a couple of

chores! I wonder if this will last...sure hope it does!! Maybe this

was the major mid-life event that he needed to reassess his

priorities and redefine his life direction, as my wls was for me.

Well, time will tell. It should be an interesting journey.

Vicki A.

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