Guest guest Posted January 24, 2003 Report Share Posted January 24, 2003 Funny this topic should come up. My husband and I got married in traffic court 32 years ago. Ive always wanted a church wedding, with the gown and cake. My twin sis and I are now in the process of planning it. DH and I will be repeating them dec 18th 2004. Im so excited about it. None of my family was present at the first one. Didnt know I was a twin then Long story LOL Debby R (wa) >From: tuesdynite@... >To: suebarr@..., datwell@..., >Graduate-OSSG , divequeen2002@... >Subject: Re: laxy & childhood... >Date: Fri, 24 Jan 2003 02:24:29 EST > >In a message dated 1/22/03 10:35:11 AM Central Standard Time, >suebarr@... writes: > ><< But DH just doesn't understand why I need NOT to be a fat bride. >Maybe, >just maybe this will erase that tape. >> >------------------------------- > >I'd like to get married all over again, for a different reason. I had NO >friends or family at my wedding. We eloped, got married by a j.p. For 41 >years I have pined over the fact that I never had the long white froofy >dress. Guess at 61, I'd look pretty silly in one. So that's just one more >dream that will never happen. > >Carol A > >Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG > >Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2003 Report Share Posted January 25, 2003 at the first one. Didnt know I was a twin then Long story LOL Debby R (wa) Now Debby......you know you can't say that and NOT tell the story......long or not inquiring minds (OK mine anyways) want to know.....DO TELL!!!!!! P. Re: second wedding > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2003 Report Share Posted January 25, 2003 Debby R: I am so glad you were asked about your story. If I were a producer or writer, I would surely do your story. I would call it " survivor, " or " strong woman, " or " beautiful Soul Survivor. " Just by these titles you can tell I am not a writer, but, you are a strong, amazing, wonderful, successful woman. I am so happy you found your sister. I can forgive your mom almost anything but lying to you and your sister was just evil. And with so many relatives, it was so unnecessary to put you into foster care. All I know is I have good feelings and much respect for you. Fay Bayuk 300/175 10/23/01 Dr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2003 Report Share Posted January 25, 2003 Ok lol You asked for it P I have a very abusive weird child hood. I grew up in orphanages and foster homes mostly. Lots of physical as well as sexual abuse from step father. MY twin sis and I grew up to think we were cousins. She lived with our grandmother who I thought was my aunt. I dont ever remember her not being there untill we were eight years old at that time I was shipped off to another foster home and they moved to mo. I always felt this weird void. I missed her so much. I had a picture of her that I carried everywere, still have it. I never could figure out why I missed her so and why I had like this hole in my heart. It just didnt make since. But I did. I never heard from Melody untill I was in my mid fourtys. At this time we had old relatives dying and informed us that Melody my twin , Patty our older mean and I do mean mean sister and Billy were all brother and sisters. Billy grew up with melody. I was really upset to find aout we were sister and to have been kept from each other all these years. A year later another Aunt died and told us not only were Mel and I sisters we were twins, Which explained alot of things. Mel was asked by her doc if she was a twin because she has some medical something that only happens with mult. births. At the time She said nope. It also explained pains we had felt when docs couldnt find anything wrong with us. It was due to the net that we have been able to keep intouch. We vacation every year together now. One year we go out there the next they come here. When I was told Mel and I were twins I was so mad at our mother, I also found out that our mother and grandmother were hookers at the same time. I was thrilled to be a twin to mel but so much anger about being seperated and not to mention the hooker thing, dont know why that upset me so, but it did. I was the brave one I went out to Bevier Mo. to meet my long lost sis. I was scared to death, but it has been like we were never seperated. When she came out here the folowing year we confronted our mother. The only answer we got was well things were diff back then. So both of us has helped each other heal from the past. Yes in case you are wondering she is obease. She was scared to death for me to have my GBS untill she came to visit and saw what my life was like not to mention she was the one pushing my wheelchair. Now P arnt you glad you asked LOL Debby R (wa) > >To: graduate-ossg >, " Debby Rose " rosebod@...> >Subject: Re: second wedding >Date: Sat, 25 Jan 2003 10:47:41 -0500 > >at the first one. >Didnt know I was a twin then Long story LOL >Debby R (wa) > >Now Debby......you know you can't say that and NOT tell the story......long >or not inquiring minds (OK mine anyways) want to know.....DO TELL!!!!!! > P. > Re: second wedding > > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ Add photos to your e-mail with MSN 8. Get 2 months FREE*. http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2003 Report Share Posted January 26, 2003 Debbie, what a story! You should write a book! And what a beautiful ending after finding your twin, you out of the wheelchair. Of course, I have to ask, is your sister considering WLS now that she's seen your success? in NJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2003 Report Share Posted January 26, 2003 Hi Im so happy with the ending also. As for my sis and getting WLS im hopeful. She will be here in june so Hopefully she will at least start considering it. As of now she fights the idea. We have talked about it but I dont push it. Even though I feel it would be right for her to do. I just try to encourage her. She has joined TOPs and we talk about our Toos group meetings. My DH and I in wa she oes in Mo. Debby R (wa) >From: watnext@... >To: Graduate-OSSG >Subject: Re: second wedding >Date: Sun, 26 Jan 2003 12:29:00 EST > >Debbie, what a story! You should write a book! And what a beautiful >ending >after finding your twin, you out of the wheelchair. > >Of course, I have to ask, is your sister considering WLS now that she's >seen >your success? > > in NJ > >Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG > >Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2003 Report Share Posted January 26, 2003 Thank you Fay Funny I never think of my self as a strong woman. I was just determeined to survive. And to stop the chain of abuse. I contribute that survival to my faith in GOD. But to this day I hate conflict, im the piecemaker LOl. Im kinda quiet, never feel I have the right thing to say for support, very serious, but do have a since of humor. So I mostly lurk. Being hearing impaird I kinda stand back, Im not always sure whats really being said, and when you hear somehing wrong or have to ask people to repeat something they have a tendeny to get mean. I read lips, wear hearing aids and I do very well. But the one thing you want do is avoid talking to me on the phone LOl. I love being apart of this list. The one thing about me though is I Never give up. I always see the cup half full. Debby R (wa) >From: fbayuk@... >To: graduate-ossg >Subject: Re: second wedding >Date: Sun, 26 Jan 2003 04:43:48 EST > >Debby R: I am so glad you were asked about your story. If I were a >producer >or writer, I would surely do your story. I would call it " survivor, " or > " strong woman, " or " beautiful Soul Survivor. " Just by these titles you can >tell I am not a writer, but, you are a strong, amazing, wonderful, >successful >woman. I am so happy you found your sister. I can forgive your mom almost >anything but lying to you and your sister was just evil. And with so many >relatives, it was so unnecessary to put you into foster care. All I know >is >I have good feelings and much respect for you. > > > >Fay Bayuk >300/175 >10/23/01 >Dr > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2003 Report Share Posted January 26, 2003 Now P arnt you glad you asked LOL > Debby R (wa) YOU BET I AM!!!!!! I absolutely love true stories of perseverance.........I believe we all get our strength and wisdom from those that " have gone on before us " ....not necessarily in death (obviously).....but in life experiences!! Funny, this is also what this mornings sermon was on!! What great timing for you with your sister......I know you two will make up for lost time.....it is always great to have someone to relate to and help you get through the healing with!! I have 4 sisters and I would be lost without them!!!!! Thanks for quenching my curiosity!!! P. Re: second wedding > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ > Add photos to your e-mail with MSN 8. Get 2 months FREE*. > http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2003 Report Share Posted January 26, 2003 Thank You > >To: " Debby Rose " rosebod@...>,graduate-ossg > >Subject: Re: second wedding >Date: Sun, 26 Jan 2003 21:44:09 -0500 > >Now P arnt you glad you asked LOL > > Debby R (wa) >YOU BET I AM!!!!!! I absolutely love true stories of >perseverance.........I >believe we all get our strength and wisdom from those that " have gone on >before us " ....not necessarily in death (obviously).....but in life >experiences!! Funny, this is also what this mornings sermon was on!! What >great timing for you with your sister......I know you two will make up for >lost time.....it is always great to have someone to relate to and help you >get through the healing with!! I have 4 sisters and I would be lost >without >them!!!!! Thanks for quenching my curiosity!!! P. > Re: second wedding > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________ > > Add photos to your e-mail with MSN 8. Get 2 months FREE*. > > http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail > > _________________________________________________________________ Add photos to your messages with MSN 8. Get 2 months FREE*. http://join.msn.com/?page=features/featuredemail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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