Guest guest Posted November 22, 2003 Report Share Posted November 22, 2003 Sorry about your sad news. I was on one Doctors waiting list for almost a year then they called saying they had a new doctor joining them but he had no experience. I refused the new Doctor and found another one and was in and out in about two months. This can be a frustrating process, hang in there. Try calling your docotrs office weekly to check on you status and the progress of things. Sometimes the " squeeky wheel get the oil " so to speak. Everyone is different but I would not marry someone without first living with them. Being in my 40's I have learned that all the truth's come to light once we share space. This is not for everyone but just my perspective. I believe living with someone is an equal committment to marriage and the only difference is the piece of paper. The truth for me is in how one behaves not in a piece of paper. Also made careful consideration if your insurance covers the surgery and his does not and you get married you might lose your coverage if you are legally obligaed to accept his as his spouse. Sometimes there are reasons for things that are not clear in the moment. Good luck with all, this too shall pass and brighter das are ahead. B. in Miami Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 23, 2003 Report Share Posted November 23, 2003 thank you so much stephanie.. i was at my witts in with this doctor.. and its not been long enough for me to be so sad but i am just soooooooooooo tired of being fat.. i wish i had self control and could just diet.. my boy friend we talked and we are just goingto wait and see how things go. we talked and that is ok for now.. it is hard he is 20 years older and he has had what i want.. marriage.. so we will just relax in that category.. thanks for the kind words.. starlet > >Reply-To: Gastric_Bypass_Family >To: Gastric_Bypass_Family >Subject: Starlett >Date: Sat, 22 Nov 2003 23:14:49 -0000 > >Sorry about your sad news. I was on one Doctors waiting list for >almost a year then they called saying they had a new doctor joining >them but he had no experience. I refused the new Doctor and found >another one and was in and out in about two months. This can be a >frustrating process, hang in there. Try calling your docotrs office >weekly to check on you status and the progress of things. Sometimes >the " squeeky wheel get the oil " so to speak. >Everyone is different but I would not marry someone without first >living with them. Being in my 40's I have learned that all the >truth's come to light once we share space. This is not for everyone >but just my perspective. I believe living with someone is an equal >committment to marriage and the only difference is the piece of >paper. The truth for me is in how one behaves not in a piece of paper. >Also made careful consideration if your insurance covers the surgery >and his does not and you get married you might lose your coverage if >you are legally obligaed to accept his as his spouse. Sometimes there >are reasons for things that are not clear in the moment. Good luck >with all, this too shall pass and brighter das are ahead. B. >in Miami > _________________________________________________________________ Need a shot of Hank or Patsy Cline? The classic country stars are always singing on MSN Radio Plus. Try one month free! http://join.msn.com/?page=offers/premiumradio Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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