Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 Granted, a lot of the problems are my fault in that when I was faced with them I chose to go up to my room and try to eat myself to death. But when I have such negative experiences ( facilitated by me but still I don't deserve it) how do I start anew? I think for a lot of us, we just want to break from the past and start anew. But what happens when the spouse shows renewed interest and you are not totally beyond being receptive? I am so tired. Do I have an obligation? Smiles, Vicki A. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 I think it boils down to willingness really... you can do anything as a couple if you are willing. If you aren't willing, and it's not what you really want.. then you are making the right decision for yourself and your family by walking away. Tough choice, but... Hang in there.. How to rebuild? I am so tired. Do I have an obligation? Smiles, Vicki A. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 <> Plain and simple. No you don't. YOU own your body and YOU decide what you will or won't do with it. Jac mailto:jholdaway@... http://www.pictureitdigitaldesigns.com/ http://members.cox.net/xxxfarmpaints Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 Yep, what Judy said. Jac mailto:jholdaway@... http://www.pictureitdigitaldesigns.com/ http://members.cox.net/xxxfarmpaints Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 Sorry...but I don't think this is exactly right when " children " are involved.......there definitly is obligation and rights there too (not by any means saying you are obligated to stay).....just saying that I think you are on the right path with the " soul " searching. Unfortunately I know of WAY to many marraiges that ended. I can tell you personally that the majority of them that didn't necessarily have serious moral/ethical issues and were just looking for greener grass, or just plain relief from the tiring daily issues didn't get what they were looking for. If it is release from moral/ethical issues than seperation might very well be in hand. My suggestion coming from someone with 4 kids and a sometimes VERY rocky marraige (like at the present).....whatever you do take it slow.....things like anger, resentment and bitterness can be " healed " ......but it certainly takes a LOT of time. P. RE: How to rebuild? > <> > Plain and simple. No you don't. YOU own your body and YOU decide what you > will or won't do with it. > > Jac > mailto:jholdaway@... > http://www.pictureitdigitaldesigns.com/ > http://members.cox.net/xxxfarmpaints > > > > > Homepage: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Graduate-OSSG > > Unsubscribe: mailto:Graduate-OSSG-unsubscribe > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2003 Report Share Posted January 8, 2003 I understand your statement but I stand by mine. You own your body, and the choices you make about it are your right. Jac mailto:jholdaway@... http://www.pictureitdigitaldesigns.com/ http://members.cox.net/xxxfarmpaints Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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