Guest guest Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 Ohhh , My heart goes out to you and your hubby. I have had 2 previous miscarraiges and I know the pain in your heart. You went thru hell with this one, you definatley need time to heal but definately have faith that you will have a beautiful healthy baby yet. MY family told me after the 2nd Mc to stop trying because I was too old and I would just keep having problems but they were wrong and I know you will be with a new baby in your arms someday soon., God Bless you both and know we are here for you. HUGS, ROBIN, NY Age- 41 Due Date- #4 July 27th, 2004 OPEN RNY 10-18-02 378/246/170??? DR.EDWARD HIXSON SARANAC LAKE, NY Mom to: & 7 1/2 year twin boys and Madison age 5 Miscarraige August 2001 Miscarraige August 2003 Married to Pup: 15 years this Halloween : ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother and your babies. I will say some prayers for you and send you many many good thoughts and best wishes. Chrystal Check out my webpages: http://chrystallife.50megs.com http://members.ebay.com/aboutme/seeswensonauctions/ Could use some prayers. I must say this Christmas and New Year has been very difficult. As most of you know, I lost my mother in August of 2003. So I had to face the holidays for the first time without her. That was hard in itself. I found out right after Thanksgiving that I was pregnant. The best news I could have ever received. Then just a few weeks ago, I found out it was twins......a double blessing. Then a couple of days before Christmas, I was told there was a 50/50 chance I'd lose the twins. So my Christmas was spent with this burden of possibly losing my babies and not having my mother here with me. Then New Years Eve Day I lost both babies. I almost bled to death, had to have two blood transfusions, and almost had to have a hysterectomy to stop the bleeding. Thank God that didn't happen. They went through my belly button to see if I was bleeding internally, which I wasn't. The bleeding finally stopped, but now I am left feeling empty, weak, and depressed. I fully believe this was God's plan. I don't doubt that. But it's so hard. Believe it or not, I loved those babies. I loved being pregnant. Please just pray for my husband and me. This is a difficult time. A lady I work with and am close to is pregnant. She got pregnant the same time I did. It will be difficult seeing her go through this. Don't get me wrong, I pray she has a healthy pregnancy. My husband and I are going wait a until this fall and try again. My body needs time to heal. Thanks for listening. God Bless, -350 lbs Open RNY 11-30-01 Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 -you both are definitely in our prayers sweetheart! Could use some prayers. I must say this Christmas and New Year has been very difficult. As most of you know, I lost my mother in August of 2003. So I had to face the holidays for the first time without her. That was hard in itself. I found out right after Thanksgiving that I was pregnant. The best news I could have ever received. Then just a few weeks ago, I found out it was twins......a double blessing. Then a couple of days before Christmas, I was told there was a 50/50 chance I'd lose the twins. So my Christmas was spent with this burden of possibly losing my babies and not having my mother here with me. Then New Years Eve Day I lost both babies. I almost bled to death, had to have two blood transfusions, and almost had to have a hysterectomy to stop the bleeding. Thank God that didn't happen. They went through my belly button to see if I was bleeding internally, which I wasn't. The bleeding finally stopped, but now I am left feeling empty, weak, and depressed. I fully believe this was God's plan. I don't doubt that. But it's so hard. Believe it or not, I loved those babies. I loved being pregnant. Please just pray for my husband and me. This is a difficult time. A lady I work with and am close to is pregnant. She got pregnant the same time I did. It will be difficult seeing her go through this. Don't get me wrong, I pray she has a healthy pregnancy. My husband and I are going wait a until this fall and try again. My body needs time to heal. Thanks for listening. God Bless, -350 lbs Open RNY 11-30-01 Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- -- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 ,, I am so sorry and sending you all of my prayers. I know it's not easy, but just knowing that others understand does help. (((((Warm Hugs))))) Jackie in MI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 Wow , you definitely have major prayers going up for you from me. I'm so sorry for all your losses, hang in there. Axelrod Could use some prayers. I must say this Christmas and New Year has been very difficult. As most of you know, I lost my mother in August of 2003. So I had to face the holidays for the first time without her. That was hard in itself. I found out right after Thanksgiving that I was pregnant. The best news I could have ever received. Then just a few weeks ago, I found out it was twins......a double blessing. Then a couple of days before Christmas, I was told there was a 50/50 chance I'd lose the twins. So my Christmas was spent with this burden of possibly losing my babies and not having my mother here with me. Then New Years Eve Day I lost both babies. I almost bled to death, had to have two blood transfusions, and almost had to have a hysterectomy to stop the bleeding. Thank God that didn't happen. They went through my belly button to see if I was bleeding internally, which I wasn't. The bleeding finally stopped, but now I am left feeling empty, weak, and depressed. I fully believe this was God's plan. I don't doubt that. But it's so hard. Believe it or not, I loved those babies. I loved being pregnant. Please just pray for my husband and me. This is a difficult time. A lady I work with and am close to is pregnant. She got pregnant the same time I did. It will be difficult seeing her go through this. Don't get me wrong, I pray she has a healthy pregnancy. My husband and I are going wait a until this fall and try again. My body needs time to heal. Thanks for listening. God Bless, -350 lbs Open RNY 11-30-01 Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 Oh , I am so deeply sorry for your losses. I do hope and pray that life gets much easier to bear as quickly as possible. I can really understand your pain, for the most part. We lost my mother-in-law on Mother's Day 2003 and found out just six weeks later that we were pregnant. It would have made her life to know that her son was finally able to have a child. It just tears both of us up whenever we think about it. I so feel for you. Many hugs, prayers and well wishes going your way. Sharon > I must say this Christmas and New Year has been very difficult. As > most of you know, I lost my mother in August of 2003. So I had to > face the holidays for the first time without her. That was hard in > itself. I found out right after Thanksgiving that I was pregnant. The > best news I could have ever received. Then just a few weeks ago, I > found out it was twins......a double blessing. Then a couple of days > before Christmas, I was told there was a 50/50 chance I'd lose the > twins. So my Christmas was spent with this burden of possibly losing > my babies and not having my mother here with me. Then New Years Eve > Day I lost both babies. I almost bled to death, had to have two blood > transfusions, and almost had to have a hysterectomy to stop the > bleeding. Thank God that didn't happen. They went through my belly > button to see if I was bleeding internally, which I wasn't. The > bleeding finally stopped, but now I am left feeling empty, weak, and > depressed. I fully believe this was God's plan. I don't doubt that. > But it's so hard. Believe it or not, I loved those babies. I loved > being pregnant. Please just pray for my husband and me. This is a > difficult time. A lady I work with and am close to is pregnant. She > got pregnant the same time I did. It will be difficult seeing her go > through this. Don't get me wrong, I pray she has a healthy pregnancy. > My husband and I are going wait a until this fall and try again. My > body needs time to heal. Thanks for listening. > > God Bless, > > -350 lbs > Open RNY 11-30-01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 Nelissa I am so sorry for your loss, my heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your hubby and babys...its not hard to beleive that you fell in love with those baby the moment you found out about them..i beleive its a natural thing for a mother to do...i know how difficult it can be to miscarry i myself did and it was after my sister had given birth so when i miscarried i held her baby close to me, it was hard but i knew in some way shape or form it helped me alot too..try to rest and get well...deanna > I must say this Christmas and New Year has been very difficult. As > most of you know, I lost my mother in August of 2003. So I had to > face the holidays for the first time without her. That was hard in > itself. I found out right after Thanksgiving that I was pregnant. The > best news I could have ever received. Then just a few weeks ago, I > found out it was twins......a double blessing. Then a couple of days > before Christmas, I was told there was a 50/50 chance I'd lose the > twins. So my Christmas was spent with this burden of possibly losing > my babies and not having my mother here with me. Then New Years Eve > Day I lost both babies. I almost bled to death, had to have two blood > transfusions, and almost had to have a hysterectomy to stop the > bleeding. Thank God that didn't happen. They went through my belly > button to see if I was bleeding internally, which I wasn't. The > bleeding finally stopped, but now I am left feeling empty, weak, and > depressed. I fully believe this was God's plan. I don't doubt that. > But it's so hard. Believe it or not, I loved those babies. I loved > being pregnant. Please just pray for my husband and me. This is a > difficult time. A lady I work with and am close to is pregnant. She > got pregnant the same time I did. It will be difficult seeing her go > through this. Don't get me wrong, I pray she has a healthy pregnancy. > My husband and I are going wait a until this fall and try again. My > body needs time to heal. Thanks for listening. > > God Bless, > > -350 lbs > Open RNY 11-30-01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 My name is , I am 44 and single and looking into artificial insemination. After the last break up with a man I decided this wasnt worth it, I have no more time to meet a man, fall in love, get married and get pregnant so I am going to go it alone. I make enough money to have a baby and I have a 2 bedroom apartment . I have an appointment at the fertility clinic on jan 20th to run the tests to see if I can actually conceive with my own eggs. If I dont have my own eggs, I will be buying donor eggs as well as donor sperm....yikes what a process. SO if you 35 and 40 year olds are thinking you are too old.....well then, I must be ancient. But hey, I went to a high risk OBGYN to discuss it and she said she sees people my age all of the time, you just run a higher risk of miscarriage as you get older. All of my family except for one person is behind me on this. My mother wont talk with me about it because she says I am too old, so she wont be apart of this process until the baby comes and then she will give in once she sees it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2004 Report Share Posted January 6, 2004 , Welcome to our group! Axelrod Re: Re: Could use some prayers. My name is , I am 44 and single and looking into artificial insemination. After the last break up with a man I decided this wasnt worth it, I have no more time to meet a man, fall in love, get married and get pregnant so I am going to go it alone. I make enough money to have a baby and I have a 2 bedroom apartment . I have an appointment at the fertility clinic on jan 20th to run the tests to see if I can actually conceive with my own eggs. If I dont have my own eggs, I will be buying donor eggs as well as donor sperm....yikes what a process. SO if you 35 and 40 year olds are thinking you are too old.....well then, I must be ancient. But hey, I went to a high risk OBGYN to discuss it and she said she sees people my age all of the time, you just run a higher risk of miscarriage as you get older. All of my family except for one person is behind me on this. My mother wont talk with me about it because she says I am too old, so she wont be apart of this process until the baby comes and then she will give in once she sees it. Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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