Guest guest Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Laurie, I am so upset and sorry to read of your very depressing week. How very sad that lives have been lost. And that children have lost their father, their life-line. It is so sad to think that these children now only have their mother who most likely can't care for them or take care of them b/c of her own mental disease. And the cafeteria worker who lost her life on the way home. Your whole community is feeling the pain and loss of these wonderful people. I am so sorry for your loss. The lady who does your grief counseling at the school, where her twin boys hit at the intersection that killed the cafeteria worker at the same time? Were both the boys and her involved in the same accident? This is truely so sad. And I am so sorry for you. Your community is small and like you said everyone is either related to each other or knows each other, so the impact and loss of these people have touched everyone. I pray that you will be able to handle the stress, and loss of the people that you knew and had a bond with. I would imagine that it will take a long time for the chidlren at school to emotionally get through this loss. Praying for you and your whole community. Ann-Marie rough week-NMR Hi friends This week at school has been one of those you don't want to repeat. I've been quiet as a result. Sunday evening, the father of 3 students in the school district was killed in an auto accident. The middle child is one of our emotionally impaired students and dad was her life line. The mom is mentally ill. This is a very small community with only around 900 students in the entire school district. It is a community where everyone is either related to or knows everyone else. Then yesterday one of our cafeteria workers was killed on her way home from the school. I really feel for our counselor. She has been doing grief counseling all day, every day this week. Her twin sons were both hit at the same intersection that the cafeteria worker was killed at. Both of their accidents caused minor injuries, but it has got to be in the back of her mind. Just needed to let you know what has been up. laurie Medical advice, information, opinions, data and statements contained herein are not necessarily those of the list moderators. The author of this e mail is entirely responsible for its content. List members are reminded of their responsibility to evaluate the content of the postings and consult with their physicians regarding changes in their own treatment. Personal attacks are not permitted on the list and anyone who sends one is automatically moderated or removed depending on the severity of the attack. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Laurie, I am so upset and sorry to read of your very depressing week. How very sad that lives have been lost. And that children have lost their father, their life-line. It is so sad to think that these children now only have their mother who most likely can't care for them or take care of them b/c of her own mental disease. And the cafeteria worker who lost her life on the way home. Your whole community is feeling the pain and loss of these wonderful people. I am so sorry for your loss. The lady who does your grief counseling at the school, where her twin boys hit at the intersection that killed the cafeteria worker at the same time? Were both the boys and her involved in the same accident? This is truely so sad. And I am so sorry for you. Your community is small and like you said everyone is either related to each other or knows each other, so the impact and loss of these people have touched everyone. I pray that you will be able to handle the stress, and loss of the people that you knew and had a bond with. I would imagine that it will take a long time for the chidlren at school to emotionally get through this loss. Praying for you and your whole community. Ann-Marie rough week-NMR Hi friends This week at school has been one of those you don't want to repeat. I've been quiet as a result. Sunday evening, the father of 3 students in the school district was killed in an auto accident. The middle child is one of our emotionally impaired students and dad was her life line. The mom is mentally ill. This is a very small community with only around 900 students in the entire school district. It is a community where everyone is either related to or knows everyone else. Then yesterday one of our cafeteria workers was killed on her way home from the school. I really feel for our counselor. She has been doing grief counseling all day, every day this week. Her twin sons were both hit at the same intersection that the cafeteria worker was killed at. Both of their accidents caused minor injuries, but it has got to be in the back of her mind. Just needed to let you know what has been up. laurie Medical advice, information, opinions, data and statements contained herein are not necessarily those of the list moderators. The author of this e mail is entirely responsible for its content. List members are reminded of their responsibility to evaluate the content of the postings and consult with their physicians regarding changes in their own treatment. Personal attacks are not permitted on the list and anyone who sends one is automatically moderated or removed depending on the severity of the attack. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Laurie, so sorry to hear of such a rough week, blessings go out to all. Seems to be a terrible time right now. At my daughters middle school last week a boy in her school went into surgery for a minor operation and suffered heart failure on the operating table, he didnt make it through, then this week another boy 13 woke in the morning with terrible pain and called for his mom and when she got to his bedroom he died from a anyurism ( sp ) in her arms. such terrible tragedies..my heart goes out to everyone suffering such terrible loses.. hugs Laurie... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Ann-Marie Thanks for your lovely post. I don't live in this small community, but have been part of the schools for 6 years, so I feel a connection. The counselor's twin sons were hit at two different times - one last year and one the year before. It is a bad intersection out in the country with a stop sign in one direction and not the other and hills to boot. Thanks for your caring, laurie > > Reply-To: > Date: Wed, 13 Oct 2004 17:39:41 -0400 > To: > > Subject: Re: rough week-NMR > > Laurie, > > I am so upset and sorry to read of your very depressing week. How very sad > that lives have been lost. And that children have lost their father, their > life-line. It is so sad to think that these children now only have their > mother who most likely can't care for them or take care of them b/c of her own > mental disease. > > And the cafeteria worker who lost her life on the way home. Your whole > community is feeling the pain and loss of these wonderful people. I am so > sorry for your loss. > > The lady who does your grief counseling at the school, where her twin boys hit > at the intersection that killed the cafeteria worker at the same time? Were > both the boys and her involved in the same accident? This is truely so sad. > > And I am so sorry for you. Your community is small and like you said everyone > is either related to each other or knows each other, so the impact and loss of > these people have touched everyone. I pray that you will be able to handle the > stress, and loss of the people that you knew and had a bond with. > > I would imagine that it will take a long time for the chidlren at school to > emotionally get through this loss. > Praying for you and your whole community. > > Ann-Marie > rough week-NMR > > > Hi friends > > This week at school has been one of those you don't want to repeat. I've > been quiet as a result. Sunday evening, the father of 3 students in the > school district was killed in an auto accident. The middle child is one of > our emotionally impaired students and dad was her life line. The mom is > mentally ill. This is a very small community with only around 900 students > in the entire school district. It is a community where everyone is either > related to or knows everyone else. Then yesterday one of our cafeteria > workers was killed on her way home from the school. I really feel for our > counselor. She has been doing grief counseling all day, every day this week. > Her twin sons were both hit at the same intersection that the cafeteria > worker was killed at. Both of their accidents caused minor injuries, but it > has got to be in the back of her mind. Just needed to let you know what has > been up. > > laurie > > > > Medical advice, information, opinions, data and statements contained herein > are not necessarily those of the list moderators. The author of this e mail is > entirely responsible for its content. List members are reminded of their > responsibility to evaluate the content of the postings and consult with their > physicians regarding changes in their own treatment. > > Personal attacks are not permitted on the list and anyone who sends one is > automatically moderated or removed depending on the severity of the attack. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Ann-Marie Thanks for your lovely post. I don't live in this small community, but have been part of the schools for 6 years, so I feel a connection. The counselor's twin sons were hit at two different times - one last year and one the year before. It is a bad intersection out in the country with a stop sign in one direction and not the other and hills to boot. Thanks for your caring, laurie > > Reply-To: > Date: Wed, 13 Oct 2004 17:39:41 -0400 > To: > > Subject: Re: rough week-NMR > > Laurie, > > I am so upset and sorry to read of your very depressing week. How very sad > that lives have been lost. And that children have lost their father, their > life-line. It is so sad to think that these children now only have their > mother who most likely can't care for them or take care of them b/c of her own > mental disease. > > And the cafeteria worker who lost her life on the way home. Your whole > community is feeling the pain and loss of these wonderful people. I am so > sorry for your loss. > > The lady who does your grief counseling at the school, where her twin boys hit > at the intersection that killed the cafeteria worker at the same time? Were > both the boys and her involved in the same accident? This is truely so sad. > > And I am so sorry for you. Your community is small and like you said everyone > is either related to each other or knows each other, so the impact and loss of > these people have touched everyone. I pray that you will be able to handle the > stress, and loss of the people that you knew and had a bond with. > > I would imagine that it will take a long time for the chidlren at school to > emotionally get through this loss. > Praying for you and your whole community. > > Ann-Marie > rough week-NMR > > > Hi friends > > This week at school has been one of those you don't want to repeat. I've > been quiet as a result. Sunday evening, the father of 3 students in the > school district was killed in an auto accident. The middle child is one of > our emotionally impaired students and dad was her life line. The mom is > mentally ill. This is a very small community with only around 900 students > in the entire school district. It is a community where everyone is either > related to or knows everyone else. Then yesterday one of our cafeteria > workers was killed on her way home from the school. I really feel for our > counselor. She has been doing grief counseling all day, every day this week. > Her twin sons were both hit at the same intersection that the cafeteria > worker was killed at. Both of their accidents caused minor injuries, but it > has got to be in the back of her mind. Just needed to let you know what has > been up. > > laurie > > > > Medical advice, information, opinions, data and statements contained herein > are not necessarily those of the list moderators. The author of this e mail is > entirely responsible for its content. List members are reminded of their > responsibility to evaluate the content of the postings and consult with their > physicians regarding changes in their own treatment. > > Personal attacks are not permitted on the list and anyone who sends one is > automatically moderated or removed depending on the severity of the attack. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Laurie, I am sorry that you have had such a hard time. All those tragedies at once. Know that you and all affected by these deaths are in my thoughts. Hugs, a On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 17:32:37 -0400 Laureta Fitzgerald lfitzger@...> writes: Hi friends This week at school has been one of those you don't want to repeat. I've been quiet as a result. Sunday evening, the father of 3 students in the school district was killed in an auto accident. The middle child is one of our emotionally impaired students and dad was her life line. The mom is mentally ill. This is a very small community with only around 900 students in the entire school district. It is a community where everyone is either related to or knows everyone else. Then yesterday one of our cafeteria workers was killed on her way home from the school. I really feel for our counselor. She has been doing grief counseling all day, every day this week. Her twin sons were both hit at the same intersection that the cafeteria worker was killed at. Both of their accidents caused minor injuries, but it has got to be in the back of her mind. Just needed to let you know what has been up. laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Thanks for your caring. I hope your daughter and all her classmates are having some grief counseling at school, for the loss of these boys. It must be really hard for students to loose a classmate, much less two. I will keep this school (students and staff) in my thoughts. laurie > From: MitomomX3@... > Reply-To: > Date: Wed, 13 Oct 2004 23:07:54 EDT > To: > Subject: Re: rough week-NMR > > Laurie, > so sorry to hear of such a rough week, blessings go out to all. > Seems to be a terrible time right now. At my daughters middle school last > week a boy in her school went into surgery for a minor operation and suffered > heart failure on the operating table, he didnt make it through, then this > week another boy 13 woke in the morning with terrible pain and called for > his > mom and when she got to his bedroom he died from a anyurism ( sp ) in her > arms. > such terrible tragedies..my heart goes out to everyone suffering such > terrible loses.. > hugs Laurie... > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Thanks for your caring. I hope your daughter and all her classmates are having some grief counseling at school, for the loss of these boys. It must be really hard for students to loose a classmate, much less two. I will keep this school (students and staff) in my thoughts. laurie > From: MitomomX3@... > Reply-To: > Date: Wed, 13 Oct 2004 23:07:54 EDT > To: > Subject: Re: rough week-NMR > > Laurie, > so sorry to hear of such a rough week, blessings go out to all. > Seems to be a terrible time right now. At my daughters middle school last > week a boy in her school went into surgery for a minor operation and suffered > heart failure on the operating table, he didnt make it through, then this > week another boy 13 woke in the morning with terrible pain and called for > his > mom and when she got to his bedroom he died from a anyurism ( sp ) in her > arms. > such terrible tragedies..my heart goes out to everyone suffering such > terrible loses.. > hugs Laurie... > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 My thoughts go out to their families, how tragic. I don't know if it's possible, but could someone invite some local officials (state Representatives or Senators) to memorial services (maybe at the school, not private ones) so maybe the intersection could get fixed? I'm sure it's been tried before though, if it's like around here Our town of 2600 has a interstate through it, and the exit is one of the worst in NJ. They finally changed it to increase the visibility and width of the roadway - now there is a separate lane for a good ways, and many warning signs and reflectors. The number of fatalities has decreased tremendously (in fact, I haven't heard of one in two years, when they fixed it, and there used to be 10 or more fatalities (and many accidents) per year). I think they only fixed it when like 6 people died in one multi-vehicle crash on the exit. Take care, RH > > > Thanks for your caring. > > I hope your daughter and all her classmates are having some grief counseling > at school, for the loss of these boys. It must be really hard for students > to loose a classmate, much less two. I will keep this school (students and > staff) in my thoughts. > > laurie > > > From: MitomomX3@a... > > Reply-To: > > Date: Wed, 13 Oct 2004 23:07:54 EDT > > To: > > Subject: Re: rough week-NMR > > > > Laurie, > > so sorry to hear of such a rough week, blessings go out to all. > > Seems to be a terrible time right now. At my daughters middle school last > > week a boy in her school went into surgery for a minor operation and suffered > > heart failure on the operating table, he didnt make it through, then this > > week another boy 13 woke in the morning with terrible pain and called for > > his > > mom and when she got to his bedroom he died from a anyurism ( sp ) in her > > arms. > > such terrible tragedies..my heart goes out to everyone suffering such > > terrible loses.. > > hugs Laurie... > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Me too . Middle school is a very difficult time for kids anyway with all the changes physically and emotionally that they are going though. I hope your daughter is able to talk to you about it. Laureta Fitzgerald wrote: > > >Thanks for your caring. > >I hope your daughter and all her classmates are having some grief counseling >at school, for the loss of these boys. It must be really hard for students >to loose a classmate, much less two. I will keep this school (students and >staff) in my thoughts. > >laurie > > > >>From: MitomomX3@... >>Reply-To: >>Date: Wed, 13 Oct 2004 23:07:54 EDT >>To: >>Subject: Re: rough week-NMR >> >>Laurie, >>so sorry to hear of such a rough week, blessings go out to all. >>Seems to be a terrible time right now. At my daughters middle school last >>week a boy in her school went into surgery for a minor operation and suffered >>heart failure on the operating table, he didnt make it through, then this >>week another boy 13 woke in the morning with terrible pain and called for >>his >>mom and when she got to his bedroom he died from a anyurism ( sp ) in her >>arms. >>such terrible tragedies..my heart goes out to everyone suffering such >>terrible loses.. >>hugs Laurie... >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 RH I hope that this intersection will get some attention. I'm glad they fixed your interstate. They did something similar about 3 miles from me and it hasn't stopped all the accidents, but it certainly has helped. laurie > > Reply-To: > Date: Thu, 14 Oct 2004 22:15:18 -0000 > To: > Subject: Re: rough week-NMR > > > My thoughts go out to their families, how tragic. > > I don't know if it's possible, but could someone invite some local > officials (state Representatives or Senators) to memorial services > (maybe at the school, not private ones) so maybe the intersection > could get fixed? I'm sure it's been tried before though, if it's > like around here > > Our town of 2600 has a interstate through it, and the exit is one of > the worst in NJ. They finally changed it to increase the visibility > and width of the roadway - now there is a separate lane for a good > ways, and many warning signs and reflectors. The number of > fatalities has decreased tremendously (in fact, I haven't heard of > one in two years, when they fixed it, and there used to be 10 or more > fatalities (and many accidents) per year). I think they only fixed > it when like 6 people died in one multi-vehicle crash on the exit. > > Take care, > RH > > > >> >> >> Thanks for your caring. >> >> I hope your daughter and all her classmates are having some grief > counseling >> at school, for the loss of these boys. It must be really hard for > students >> to loose a classmate, much less two. I will keep this school > (students and >> staff) in my thoughts. >> >> laurie >> >>> From: MitomomX3@a... >>> Reply-To: >>> Date: Wed, 13 Oct 2004 23:07:54 EDT >>> To: >>> Subject: Re: rough week-NMR >>> >>> Laurie, >>> so sorry to hear of such a rough week, blessings go out to all. >>> Seems to be a terrible time right now. At my daughters middle > school last >>> week a boy in her school went into surgery for a minor operation > and suffered >>> heart failure on the operating table, he didnt make it through, > then this >>> week another boy 13 woke in the morning with terrible pain and > called for >>> his >>> mom and when she got to his bedroom he died from a anyurism ( > sp ) in her >>> arms. >>> such terrible tragedies..my heart goes out to everyone suffering > such >>> terrible loses.. >>> hugs Laurie... >>> >>> >>> >>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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