Re: update on Jackie-Tricia

[Guest guest]

Tricia,

They are not sure why I lost them. The sacs formed but nothing else did. They

couldn't explain why I conceived triplets either as I was unable to conceive

since the birth of my daughter almost 10 years ago due to PCOS. I wasn't on any

fertility medication nor were we trying to get pregnant since I was only 9

months out. The only thing they could say just like everyone else is that there

must have been something wrong and it was for the best. At first, I hated

everyone that told me that since it seemed so cold but when I came to terms with

it then I understood that it was GODs way of taking care of me. I know that

doesn't work for everyone and I am not a religious person but I had to believe

that it was for a good reason because why else would they have been brought here

and made my daughter so excited to finally have a sibling after all those years

alone and then have them taken away just like that and break her heart. I am now

14 weeks and everything seems to be going well so I have to believe that things

happen for a reason. Best wishes to you!!

DE

RNY 10/16/02

Katelyn 6/94

Miscarriage w/triplets 9/03

EDD#2 8/2/04

" Tricia " eeyore48192@...> wrote:

>Can I ask if you know why you lost triplets? That is very sad. I had a

miscarriage in July of this year. The baby just was not growing at the rate

that she should have been. That is a great loss in me.

>Tricia

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[Guest guest]

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That is how I look at my miscarriage. The baby just was not growing and the

numbers were not doubling like they were supposed to. So God knew what he was

doing when I lost her. I was really wondering when do I tell about this

pg because the last one really upset her when one day I am telling her that she

is going to be a big sister and then next day she was not.

Everyone told me to not tell her. But I did and she saw the ultrasound with me.

I am glad that I did. she is part of the family too.

Good luck!

Tricia

[Guest guest]

Tricia,

My daughter(she is 9 1/2) was with me the day I went in for my ultrasound that

first indicated that there was a problem so she knew from the start that there

was a problem. After the appointment I had to go over to the hospital for some

bloodwork to confirm everything. When I got to my car,I broke down and she

looked at me and asked me if I was okay and then I lost it. She gave me a big

hug and told me that everything would be okay. I told her that we lost the

babies and she looked at me at first in confusion and then started crying. It

took her awhile to recover from that and I found out that she even had some

problems in school as a result of it. She was acting out towards her friends and

didn't realixe it until the teacher askes her why she was doing it. She asked

all the questions that we all do like why and how come. I think it affected her

so much because she has been alone for almost 10 years and has wanted a sibling

for so long. We waitede to tell her this time until I was almost 3 months. It

was hard but we knew we had to as sure as we could that she wouldn't get hurt

again. Best wishes to you!! "

DE

RNY 10/16/02 -105lbs.

Katelyn 6/94

Miscarriage w/triplets 9/03

EDD#2 8/2/04

Tricia " eeyore48192@...> wrote:

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>That is how I look at my miscarriage.  The baby just was not growing and the

numbers were not doubling like they were supposed to.  So God knew what he was

doing when I lost her.  I was really wondering when do I tell about this

pg because the last one really upset her when one day I am telling her that she

is going to be a big sister and then next day she was not.

>Everyone told me to not tell her.  But I did and she saw the ultrasound with

me.  I am glad that I did.  she is part of the family too.

>Good luck!

>Tricia

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[Guest guest]

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I am so glad for you guys that everything is great this time! I know it has to

be hard for the kids, when us adults don't even know the answers!

Tricia