need some input please(sorry long)

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hi, i hope some of you can help me. as i have told you my daughter brigitte is now 15 but in alot of ways has the mind of a 4 year old. she has met a boy her age through my cousins son and he came right out and told her she was very pretty. now she is asking things like can i have a boyfriend and if this boy wants her to go somewhere with him and his friends or parents she wants to go. she has said she will kiss him if he ask she even said the other kids dated when they where her age and we can't stop her.i know she is growing up and i want her to live as normal life as possible but can someone tell me how to explain the birds and bees to a child that wants to date but thinks you go to the vet to pick out a baby and he puts it in your bellyi know some of this might sound cute but its scary to know she wants this so bad and someone could take advantage of her bad cuz of the way she thinks. we told her she cant date cuz she has to be cathed and she says we can teach her boyfriend. can someone PLEASE HELP ME... it was so much easier with my other daughter and son. i guess nothing about this monster is really easy. my best to all and thanks for any input.

karen earlywine