Guest guest Posted June 22, 2006 Report Share Posted June 22, 2006 Debbie and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps to vent your feelings whether by venting, journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person you can trust. I haven't been able to take antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find that I feel better mentally and physically when I take them both together. I constantly write letters to God in my journal but I am sure you could write letters to whomever it would help you to write them to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting things done. Or think I have to help everybody with their problems. I don't have to and most of the time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an overwhelming day or week but then you need to take a step back and remember that even perfectly normal people have their overwhelming days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and ask for help. Let others know all that you need help with and ask what they think they'd like to help you with. You're no the worse off even if they say no. My prayers go out to all of those who suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and opening up to each other. It really does help. hugs S.Debbie wrote: Matt, Sorry you are still having the same medical problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You said you were getting depressed about it. I get depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of depression here. I am on several drugs for depression and anxiety and was never on them until I became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like the doctors weren't even helping me. But then I learned especially from tuning into this group every day that there is support out there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. Think of the positive influences in your life. Try to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little something. I know that's what helped me. I hope this helps you feel better and I hope your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, Debbie Cohen wrote: i Ron- got your message- i am still having lots ofmedical problems right now so have been taking iteasy-still have kidney stones and need to have anothereye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzyspells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it all-keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon MATT--- " J. Blanchett" wrote:> Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I do> not see many post > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often,> but I have not seen > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in> Seattle, he's been > quietly also.> > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will> all the men in the > group send a shout out so we know that all is well?> > I look forward to your response.> > Brother > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS> THE PANTS IN THIS > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put> them pants on!> > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 22, 2006 Report Share Posted June 22, 2006 Debbie and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps to vent your feelings whether by venting, journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person you can trust. I haven't been able to take antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find that I feel better mentally and physically when I take them both together. I constantly write letters to God in my journal but I am sure you could write letters to whomever it would help you to write them to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting things done. Or think I have to help everybody with their problems. I don't have to and most of the time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an overwhelming day or week but then you need to take a step back and remember that even perfectly normal people have their overwhelming days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and ask for help. Let others know all that you need help with and ask what they think they'd like to help you with. You're no the worse off even if they say no. My prayers go out to all of those who suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and opening up to each other. It really does help. hugs S.Debbie wrote: Matt, Sorry you are still having the same medical problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You said you were getting depressed about it. I get depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of depression here. I am on several drugs for depression and anxiety and was never on them until I became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like the doctors weren't even helping me. But then I learned especially from tuning into this group every day that there is support out there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. Think of the positive influences in your life. Try to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little something. I know that's what helped me. I hope this helps you feel better and I hope your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, Debbie Cohen wrote: i Ron- got your message- i am still having lots ofmedical problems right now so have been taking iteasy-still have kidney stones and need to have anothereye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzyspells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it all-keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon MATT--- " J. Blanchett" wrote:> Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I do> not see many post > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often,> but I have not seen > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in> Seattle, he's been > quietly also.> > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will> all the men in the > group send a shout out so we know that all is well?> > I look forward to your response.> > Brother > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS> THE PANTS IN THIS > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put> them pants on!> > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 22, 2006 Report Share Posted June 22, 2006 Debbie and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps to vent your feelings whether by venting, journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person you can trust. I haven't been able to take antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find that I feel better mentally and physically when I take them both together. I constantly write letters to God in my journal but I am sure you could write letters to whomever it would help you to write them to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting things done. Or think I have to help everybody with their problems. I don't have to and most of the time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an overwhelming day or week but then you need to take a step back and remember that even perfectly normal people have their overwhelming days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and ask for help. Let others know all that you need help with and ask what they think they'd like to help you with. You're no the worse off even if they say no. My prayers go out to all of those who suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and opening up to each other. It really does help. hugs S.Debbie wrote: Matt, Sorry you are still having the same medical problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You said you were getting depressed about it. I get depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of depression here. I am on several drugs for depression and anxiety and was never on them until I became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like the doctors weren't even helping me. But then I learned especially from tuning into this group every day that there is support out there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. Think of the positive influences in your life. Try to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little something. I know that's what helped me. I hope this helps you feel better and I hope your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, Debbie Cohen wrote: i Ron- got your message- i am still having lots ofmedical problems right now so have been taking iteasy-still have kidney stones and need to have anothereye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzyspells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it all-keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon MATT--- " J. Blanchett" wrote:> Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I do> not see many post > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often,> but I have not seen > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in> Seattle, he's been > quietly also.> > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will> all the men in the > group send a shout out so we know that all is well?> > I look forward to your response.> > Brother > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS> THE PANTS IN THIS > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put> them pants on!> > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 22, 2006 Report Share Posted June 22, 2006 Hey Guys, I am sorry I was not at faith based chat last night. We had small group last night which is our Bible Study. It is hit and miss during the summer due to vacations, but if I don't sign in on Wednesday you will know where I am. Have a good day. Terri G. > > > Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I do > > not see many post > > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often, > > but I have not seen > > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in > > Seattle, he's been > > quietly also. > > > > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will > > all the men in the > > group send a shout out so we know that all is well? > > > > I look forward to your response. > > > > Brother > > > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS > > THE PANTS IN THIS > > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put > > them pants on! > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2006 Report Share Posted June 23, 2006 Dear , I admire you for being able to vent your feelings through these methods. Being able to write is a gift. I used to be able to write but ever since I have been sick, my brain has been mush and I can't transfer my thoughts from my head onto paper. I also have trouble opening up to people. I have trouble getting my feelings out into words as well. Take it easy when you get those dizzy spells. You are right, your body is telling you to slow down and let people take care of you for a change. I hope you feel well emotionally and physically. Hugs, Debbie Solberg wrote: Debbie and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps to vent your feelings whether by venting, journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person you can trust. I haven't been able to take antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find that I feel better mentally and physically when I take them both together. I constantly write letters to God in my journal but I am sure you could write letters to whomever it would help you to write them to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting things done. Or think I have to help everybody with their problems. I don't have to and most of the time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an overwhelming day or week but then you need to take a step back and remember that even perfectly normal people have their overwhelming days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and ask for help. Let others know all that you need help with and ask what they think they'd like to help you with. You're no the worse off even if they say no. My prayers go out to all of those who suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and opening up to each other. It really does help. hugs S.Debbie wrote: Matt, Sorry you are still having the same medical problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You said you were getting depressed about it. I get depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of depression here. I am on several drugs for depression and anxiety and was never on them until I became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like the doctors weren't even helping me. But then I learned especially from tuning into this group every day that there is support out there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. Think of the positive influences in your life. Try to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little something. I know that's what helped me. I hope this helps you feel better and I hope your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, Debbie Cohen wrote: i Ron- got your message- i am still having lots ofmedical problems right now so have been taking iteasy-still have kidney stones and need to have anothereye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzyspells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it all-keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon MATT--- " J. Blanchett" wrote:> Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I do> not see many post > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often,> but I have not seen > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in> Seattle, he's been > quietly also.> > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will> all the men in the > group send a shout out so we know that all is well?> > I look forward to your response.> > Brother > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS> THE PANTS IN THIS > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put> them pants on!> > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2006 Report Share Posted June 23, 2006 Dear , I admire you for being able to vent your feelings through these methods. Being able to write is a gift. I used to be able to write but ever since I have been sick, my brain has been mush and I can't transfer my thoughts from my head onto paper. I also have trouble opening up to people. I have trouble getting my feelings out into words as well. Take it easy when you get those dizzy spells. You are right, your body is telling you to slow down and let people take care of you for a change. I hope you feel well emotionally and physically. Hugs, Debbie Solberg wrote: Debbie and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps to vent your feelings whether by venting, journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person you can trust. I haven't been able to take antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find that I feel better mentally and physically when I take them both together. I constantly write letters to God in my journal but I am sure you could write letters to whomever it would help you to write them to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting things done. Or think I have to help everybody with their problems. I don't have to and most of the time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an overwhelming day or week but then you need to take a step back and remember that even perfectly normal people have their overwhelming days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and ask for help. Let others know all that you need help with and ask what they think they'd like to help you with. You're no the worse off even if they say no. My prayers go out to all of those who suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and opening up to each other. It really does help. hugs S.Debbie wrote: Matt, Sorry you are still having the same medical problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You said you were getting depressed about it. I get depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of depression here. I am on several drugs for depression and anxiety and was never on them until I became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like the doctors weren't even helping me. But then I learned especially from tuning into this group every day that there is support out there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. Think of the positive influences in your life. Try to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little something. I know that's what helped me. I hope this helps you feel better and I hope your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, Debbie Cohen wrote: i Ron- got your message- i am still having lots ofmedical problems right now so have been taking iteasy-still have kidney stones and need to have anothereye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzyspells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it all-keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon MATT--- " J. Blanchett" wrote:> Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I do> not see many post > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often,> but I have not seen > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in> Seattle, he's been > quietly also.> > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will> all the men in the > group send a shout out so we know that all is well?> > I look forward to your response.> > Brother > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS> THE PANTS IN THIS > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put> them pants on!> > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 2006 Report Share Posted June 23, 2006 Dear , I admire you for being able to vent your feelings through these methods. Being able to write is a gift. I used to be able to write but ever since I have been sick, my brain has been mush and I can't transfer my thoughts from my head onto paper. I also have trouble opening up to people. I have trouble getting my feelings out into words as well. Take it easy when you get those dizzy spells. You are right, your body is telling you to slow down and let people take care of you for a change. I hope you feel well emotionally and physically. Hugs, Debbie Solberg wrote: Debbie and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps to vent your feelings whether by venting, journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person you can trust. I haven't been able to take antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find that I feel better mentally and physically when I take them both together. I constantly write letters to God in my journal but I am sure you could write letters to whomever it would help you to write them to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting things done. Or think I have to help everybody with their problems. I don't have to and most of the time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an overwhelming day or week but then you need to take a step back and remember that even perfectly normal people have their overwhelming days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and ask for help. Let others know all that you need help with and ask what they think they'd like to help you with. You're no the worse off even if they say no. My prayers go out to all of those who suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and opening up to each other. It really does help. hugs S.Debbie wrote: Matt, Sorry you are still having the same medical problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You said you were getting depressed about it. I get depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of depression here. I am on several drugs for depression and anxiety and was never on them until I became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like the doctors weren't even helping me. But then I learned especially from tuning into this group every day that there is support out there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. Think of the positive influences in your life. Try to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little something. I know that's what helped me. I hope this helps you feel better and I hope your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, Debbie Cohen wrote: i Ron- got your message- i am still having lots ofmedical problems right now so have been taking iteasy-still have kidney stones and need to have anothereye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzyspells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it all-keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon MATT--- " J. Blanchett" wrote:> Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I do> not see many post > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often,> but I have not seen > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in> Seattle, he's been > quietly also.> > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will> all the men in the > group send a shout out so we know that all is well?> > I look forward to your response.> > Brother > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS> THE PANTS IN THIS > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put> them pants on!> > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2006 Report Share Posted June 24, 2006 , I'm sorry you've had such a difficult time lately. I've thought of you often. I keep one of your rock phots where I'll see it & remind me of you. Rock on, lady! Ramblin' Rose Moderator Reply-To: Neurosarcoidosis To: Neurosarcoidosis Subject: Re: Debbie and MattDate: Thu, 22 Jun 2006 05:22:30 -0700 (PDT) Debbie and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps to vent your feelings whether by venting, journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person you can trust. I haven't been able to take antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find that I feel better mentally and physically when I take them both together. I constantly write letters to God in my journal but I am sure you could write letters to whomever it would help you to write them to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting things done. Or think I have to help everybody with their problems. I don't have to and most of the time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an overwhelming day or week but then you need to take a step back and remember that even perfectly normal people have their overwhelming days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and ask for help. Let others know all that you need help with and ask what they think they'd like to help you with. You're no the worse off even if they say no. My prayers go out to all of those who suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and opening up to each other. It really does help. hugs S.Debbie wrote: Matt, Sorry you are still having the same medical problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You said you were getting depressed about it. I get depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of depression here. I am on several drugs for depression and anxiety and was never on them until I became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like the doctors weren't even helping me. But then I learned especially from tuning into this group every day that there is support out there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. Think of the positive influences in your life. Try to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little something. I know that's what helped me. I hope this helps you feel better and I hope your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, Debbie Cohen wrote: i Ron- got your message- i am still having lots ofmedical problems right now so have been taking iteasy-still have kidney stones and need to have anothereye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzyspells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it all-keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon MATT--- " J. Blanchett" wrote:> Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I do> not see many post > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often,> but I have not seen > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in> Seattle, he's been > quietly also.> > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will> all the men in the > group send a shout out so we know that all is well?> > I look forward to your response.> > Brother > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS> THE PANTS IN THIS > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put> them pants on!> > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2006 Report Share Posted June 24, 2006 , I'm sorry you've had such a difficult time lately. I've thought of you often. I keep one of your rock phots where I'll see it & remind me of you. Rock on, lady! Ramblin' Rose Moderator Reply-To: Neurosarcoidosis To: Neurosarcoidosis Subject: Re: Debbie and MattDate: Thu, 22 Jun 2006 05:22:30 -0700 (PDT) Debbie and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps to vent your feelings whether by venting, journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person you can trust. I haven't been able to take antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find that I feel better mentally and physically when I take them both together. I constantly write letters to God in my journal but I am sure you could write letters to whomever it would help you to write them to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting things done. Or think I have to help everybody with their problems. I don't have to and most of the time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an overwhelming day or week but then you need to take a step back and remember that even perfectly normal people have their overwhelming days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and ask for help. Let others know all that you need help with and ask what they think they'd like to help you with. You're no the worse off even if they say no. My prayers go out to all of those who suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and opening up to each other. It really does help. hugs S.Debbie wrote: Matt, Sorry you are still having the same medical problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You said you were getting depressed about it. I get depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of depression here. I am on several drugs for depression and anxiety and was never on them until I became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like the doctors weren't even helping me. But then I learned especially from tuning into this group every day that there is support out there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. Think of the positive influences in your life. Try to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little something. I know that's what helped me. I hope this helps you feel better and I hope your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, Debbie Cohen wrote: i Ron- got your message- i am still having lots ofmedical problems right now so have been taking iteasy-still have kidney stones and need to have anothereye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzyspells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it all-keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon MATT--- " J. Blanchett" wrote:> Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I do> not see many post > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often,> but I have not seen > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in> Seattle, he's been > quietly also.> > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will> all the men in the > group send a shout out so we know that all is well?> > I look forward to your response.> > Brother > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS> THE PANTS IN THIS > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put> them pants on!> > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2006 Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 Hi Debbie-I really appreciate the encouraging words- right now it ishard to feel confident about anything when my health seems to get worse by the day- i seem to get one thing after another- there are times all i want is to go into the hospital hoping they will figure out why i am having so my problems all at once- I do tell myself that i am going to get over this and it really helps that the people on this line are so helpfull- so again thanks for the support- MATT --- Debbie rozebudz36@...> wrote: > Dear , > I admire you for being able to > vent your feelings through these methods. Being able > to write is a gift. I used to be able to write > but ever since I have been sick, my brain has been > mush and I can't transfer my thoughts from my head > onto paper. > I also have trouble opening up to people. I have > trouble getting my feelings out into words as well. > > Take it easy when you get those dizzy spells. > You are right, your body is telling you to slow down > and let people take care of you for a change. I > hope you feel well emotionally and physically. > Hugs, Debbie > > Solberg mary_s777@...> wrote: Debbie > and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of > depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps > to vent your feelings whether by venting, > journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person > you can trust. I haven't been able to take > antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead > i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find > that I feel better mentally and physically when I > take them both together. I constantly write letters > to God in my journal but I am sure you could write > letters to whomever it would help you to write them > to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting > things done. Or think I have to help everybody with > their problems. I don't have to and most of the > time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my > life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple > and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an > overwhelming day or week but then you need to take > a step back and remember that even > perfectly normal people have their overwhelming > days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole > world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly > normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong > and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and > ask for help. Let others know all that you need > help with and ask what they think they'd like to > help you with. You're no the worse off even if they > say no. My prayers go out to all of those who > suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and > opening up to each other. It really does help. > hugs S. > > Debbie rozebudz36@...> wrote: > Matt, > Sorry you are still having the same medical > problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You > said you were getting depressed about it. I get > depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of > depression here. I am on several drugs for > depression and anxiety and was never on them until I > became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have > the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel > like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the > same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like > the doctors weren't even helping me. > But then I learned especially from tuning into > this group every day that there is support out > there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not > to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. > Think of the positive influences in your life. Try > to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little > something. I know that's what helped me. > I hope this helps you feel better and I hope > your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then > maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, > Debbie > > > Cohen belltown_mac@...> wrote: i > Ron- got your message- i am still having lots of > medical problems right now so have been taking it > easy-still have kidney stones and need to have > another > eye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzy > spells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it > all > -keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon > MATT > > --- " J. Blanchett " wrote: > > > Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I > do > > not see many post > > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often, > > but I have not seen > > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in > > Seattle, he's been > > quietly also. > > > > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will > > all the men in the > > group send a shout out so we know that all is > well? > > > > I look forward to your response. > > > > Brother > > > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS > > THE PANTS IN THIS > > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put > > them pants on! > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2006 Report Share Posted June 25, 2006 Hi Debbie-I really appreciate the encouraging words- right now it ishard to feel confident about anything when my health seems to get worse by the day- i seem to get one thing after another- there are times all i want is to go into the hospital hoping they will figure out why i am having so my problems all at once- I do tell myself that i am going to get over this and it really helps that the people on this line are so helpfull- so again thanks for the support- MATT --- Debbie rozebudz36@...> wrote: > Dear , > I admire you for being able to > vent your feelings through these methods. Being able > to write is a gift. I used to be able to write > but ever since I have been sick, my brain has been > mush and I can't transfer my thoughts from my head > onto paper. > I also have trouble opening up to people. I have > trouble getting my feelings out into words as well. > > Take it easy when you get those dizzy spells. > You are right, your body is telling you to slow down > and let people take care of you for a change. I > hope you feel well emotionally and physically. > Hugs, Debbie > > Solberg mary_s777@...> wrote: Debbie > and Matt, I also suffer from bouts of > depression....some pretty severe. I find it helps > to vent your feelings whether by venting, > journaling, writing poetry or talking to a person > you can trust. I haven't been able to take > antidepressants but if they help why not... Instead > i take St. 's Wort and Milk Thistle. I find > that I feel better mentally and physically when I > take them both together. I constantly write letters > to God in my journal but I am sure you could write > letters to whomever it would help you to write them > to. I am often too hard on myself for not getting > things done. Or think I have to help everybody with > their problems. I don't have to and most of the > time shouldn't cuz it just adds more stress to my > life. I have to keep trying to keep my life simple > and get the needed rest. It's hard when you have an > overwhelming day or week but then you need to take > a step back and remember that even > perfectly normal people have their overwhelming > days, too. When I have those dizzy spells my whole > world comes to a stop. ...which is perfectly > normal. Your body is telling you something is wrong > and must be looked into. Do what you can, rest and > ask for help. Let others know all that you need > help with and ask what they think they'd like to > help you with. You're no the worse off even if they > say no. My prayers go out to all of those who > suffer from depression. Let's keep sharing and > opening up to each other. It really does help. > hugs S. > > Debbie rozebudz36@...> wrote: > Matt, > Sorry you are still having the same medical > problems with the kidney stones and your eyes. You > said you were getting depressed about it. I get > depressed a lot myself . I think I am the queen of > depression here. I am on several drugs for > depression and anxiety and was never on them until I > became ill with sarc. I know how hard it is to have > the feeling of hopelessness every day. You feel > like nothing is helping and you are stuck in the > same old rut. You isolate yourself and I felt like > the doctors weren't even helping me. > But then I learned especially from tuning into > this group every day that there is support out > there. Try to take life one day at a time. Try not > to overwhelm yourself with the whole picture. > Think of the positive influences in your life. Try > to keep yourself busy each day, even if its a little > something. I know that's what helped me. > I hope this helps you feel better and I hope > your physical needs are taken care of soon. Then > maybe you can do some more traveling! Hugs, > Debbie > > > Cohen belltown_mac@...> wrote: i > Ron- got your message- i am still having lots of > medical problems right now so have been taking it > easy-still have kidney stones and need to have > another > eye surgery-also now have been getting these dizzy > spells a lot, feeling somewhat depressed about it > all > -keep hoping i will start feeling better again soon > MATT > > --- " J. Blanchett " wrote: > > > Recently, I saw a post by , other than that I > do > > not see many post > > by the men of the group. Quint used to post often, > > but I have not seen > > any thing from him lately. And what about Matt in > > Seattle, he's been > > quietly also. > > > > I hope everyone is alright. But to make sure, will > > all the men in the > > group send a shout out so we know that all is > well? > > > > I look forward to your response. > > > > Brother > > > > PS And don't forget this, IT IS THE MEN THAT WEARS > > THE PANTS IN THIS > > HERE GROUP! Right? RIGHT! So buckle up and put > > them pants on! > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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