Guest guest Posted January 4, 2004 Report Share Posted January 4, 2004 Lia, I'm not a smoker (never have been), but I do want to address the statement you made about being in pain. I had upper and lower surgery and had very little - almost no - pain at all. There are/were a couple of people on here (don't recall who they were) who smoked and although they didn't/couldn't smoke during their recovery (they were both wired shut), they actually planned on having a cigarette once they were unwired. They didn't say it was hard not to smoke, but neither had any intentions of quitting smoking. I would think that if you really want to quit, this will be a good time since you won't be able to. Try not to worry about the pain or the smoking - if anything, it's more discomfort than anything else. The pain, if any, is not really bad either...at least is wasn't for me and that seems to be the general concensus around here. Good luck. Smooches quitting smoking for surgery I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm constantly thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after the other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that my surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to have one after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm hoping i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to smoke right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. Hopefully another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit forever,,,i hope. Anybody else been through this?? lia ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2004 Report Share Posted January 4, 2004 Even though I am only 16, I smoke. I smoked untill the day of my surgury and don't have any intentions on quiting. If you WANT to quit yes I think this would be ideal time. I tried smoking yesterday... day 5 post op and it was really difficult. I managed a drag... but that was about it. I'm just going to wait now till I can feel my lips and am more healed. I kind of want a cigarrete, but I don't because I really want to get better, so im fine not having one. > Lia, > > I'm not a smoker (never have been), but I do want to address the statement you made about being in pain. I had upper and lower surgery and had very little - almost no - pain at all. There are/were a couple of people on here (don't recall who they were) who smoked and although they didn't/couldn't smoke during their recovery (they were both wired shut), they actually planned on having a cigarette once they were unwired. They didn't say it was hard not to smoke, but neither had any intentions of quitting smoking. > > I would think that if you really want to quit, this will be a good time since you won't be able to. Try not to worry about the pain or the smoking - if anything, it's more discomfort than anything else. The pain, if any, is not really bad either...at least is wasn't for me and that seems to be the general concensus around here. > > Good luck. > > Smooches > > quitting smoking for surgery > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm constantly > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after the > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that my > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to have one > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm hoping > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to smoke > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. Hopefully > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit forever,,,i > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > lia > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------------- -------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 4, 2004 Report Share Posted January 4, 2004 Posted on site 2 too: I'm an ex-smoker who weaned off cigarettes in the early 90s. Cold turkey is hard, I know. Quitting is the best thing you can do for yourself. Think of the 40,000 chemicals that are in cigarettes that you ingest directly into your bloodstream. Think of the health risks you are imposing on others in your household (second hand smoke kills too). Here's a link that explains more if you're interested http://airspace.bc.ca/DSRunsafe.html Don't rely on pain post-op, I had major work done and no pain - you'll be numb. Have you spoken to your doctor or pharmacist about something to help quit the habit? Good luck, > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm constantly > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after the > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that my > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to have one > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm hoping > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to smoke > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. Hopefully > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit forever,,,i > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > lia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 5, 2004 Report Share Posted January 5, 2004 It makes sense. I wish my mother and step-father would quit smoking. I've only been smoking a few months but I might as well have been for the past 16 (17 in 2 days!) years or so because of the second hand smoke. I really can't avoid it living with them and all and it used to really bother me untill I picked up the terrible habit. I don't smoke were other people are the don't smoke, I don't want them to feel like I do. I know this doesn't help much, just my thoughts. > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm constantly > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after the > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that my > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to have > one > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm hoping > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to smoke > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. Hopefully > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > forever,,,i > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > lia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 6, 2004 Report Share Posted January 6, 2004 Dan, Have you voiced this to your mother and step-father? Such a terrible thing that you took up smoking just because of them. I know that second hand smoke is bad, but it doesn't make it better by getting the smoke " first hand " as well. As a matter of fact, it just makes matters that much worse. Please, if there is anyway possible, kick the habit before it's too late. Smooches Re: quitting smoking for surgery It makes sense. I wish my mother and step-father would quit smoking. I've only been smoking a few months but I might as well have been for the past 16 (17 in 2 days!) years or so because of the second hand smoke. I really can't avoid it living with them and all and it used to really bother me untill I picked up the terrible habit. I don't smoke were other people are the don't smoke, I don't want them to feel like I do. I know this doesn't help much, just my thoughts. > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm constantly > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after the > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that my > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to have > one > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm hoping > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to smoke > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. Hopefully > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > forever,,,i > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > lia ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 Lia I was a 40+ a day smoker and gave up overnight without regret. My late mother was a 60+ a day smoker for 50 years and gave up overnight when her surgeon told he she had stopped. No choice there! He added that if she didn't she would not survive the surgery and nearly didn't. She had major complications when a blood vessel to the liver burst because they were so friable from the smoking. She spent 14 days in ICU and suffered brain damage. Surgeons in Australia are advising smokers to stop at least 4 weeks prior to surgery and some are even refusing to operate due to unsatisfactory post surgery results - inreased healing time, inadequate healing and increased patient mortality. General anaesthsia is a problem with smokers and some are unable to have a general anaesthetic because of the severe risk they face. Smoking does place increased stress on the heart at a time when stress on the heart is increasing from the surgery. Blood vessels constrict and there is proof of this in a Scientific American article that demonstrated the temperature of fingers dropped 2-3 degrees celsius within minutes of smoking a cigarette. There are many documented cases of lower limb amputations from gangrene due to smoking. There are chemicals in tobacco byproducts that ordinarily you would avoid like the plague. Carbon monoxide (car exhaust gas) which combines strongly with the blood and reduces the efficiency of the blood at a time when you need it to be 100%. It also requires the heart to work harder. Then there is cyanide gas (guess where they use that!), formaldehyde, radon gas (radioactive), various pesticide residues to name a few, none of which are at all nice and each is found in tobacco smoke. Let us not forget that nicotine, a major component in cigarettes, is a very toxic chemical. There are some lovely conditions like emphysema which permanently wrecks your lungs and you can end up drowning in your own lung secretions. And there are those cancers - lung, mouth, larynx, ovarian, breast, bowel to name a few - all linked to smoking. Smoking actually adds to the problems off stress rather than solving problems as there is a natural depressant in tobacco and to my knowledge there are no chemicals in tobacco that actually reduce pain. Sorry for this strong message about smoking but if it prompts you or helps you (or others) give up then that is great for you. You have everything to gain - your health especially. And your purse will be fuller from not burning your money on this product. Good luck in giving up smoking, good luck with your surgery too. Rod > Lia, > > I'm not a smoker (never have been), but I do want to address the statement you made about being in pain. I had upper and lower surgery and had very little - almost no - pain at all. There are/were a couple of people on here (don't recall who they were) who smoked and although they didn't/couldn't smoke during their recovery (they were both wired shut), they actually planned on having a cigarette once they were unwired. They didn't say it was hard not to smoke, but neither had any intentions of quitting smoking. > > I would think that if you really want to quit, this will be a good time since you won't be able to. Try not to worry about the pain or the smoking - if anything, it's more discomfort than anything else. The pain, if any, is not really bad either...at least is wasn't for me and that seems to be the general concensus around here. > > Good luck. > > Smooches > > quitting smoking for surgery > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm constantly > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after the > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that my > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to have one > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm hoping > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to smoke > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. Hopefully > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit forever,,,i > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > lia > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------------- -------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 Wow! Rod, this is so powerful. I hope you don't mind, but I forwarded this to my sister in California. Thanx. Smooches quitting smoking for surgery > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm constantly > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after the > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that my > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to have one > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm hoping > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to smoke > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. Hopefully > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit forever,,,i > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > lia > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------------- -------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 Wow! Rod, this is so powerful. I hope you don't mind, but I forwarded this to my sister in California. Thanx. Smooches quitting smoking for surgery > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm constantly > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after the > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that my > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to have one > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm hoping > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to smoke > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. Hopefully > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit forever,,,i > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > lia > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------------- -------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 etta I am thrilled that you saw value in my response. I left some juicy bits out. My brother-in-law died from combined mouth and pancreatic cancers - smoking related. He had a multitude of metastased cancers too - kidney, heart, testicular and brain (the latter the size of an orange which grew from nothing in 6 weeks). The mouth cancer resulted in half his jaw and part of his tongue being removed and is quite common in smokers who drink alcohol. The post mortem showed he had emphysema as well. His brother died the same way 18 months later. Emphysema prevents the sufferer from clearing the lungs because the cilia hairs that sweep the lungs clean are totally destroyed and the carcinogens and other nasties stay there doing more damage. Hence the persistent hacking and unproductive coughing experienced by smokers. My mother died from the effects of emphysema and she drowned in a hospital bed. What is emphysema like? Imagine running 200 metres flat out especially if you are unfit. Emphysema hits you like that but it is forever and for just extremely mild exertion like walking 5-10 metres on level ground. Of course people will make all sorts of extravagant claims about the lack of proof of smoking causing this or that. I ask them to go to a pulmonery function ward at a hospital and ask the smokers to raise their hands - 90% will raise their hands. Tobacco companies are good at diluting the statistics into the wider population. Ask people what they think about playing russian roulette and they will recoil in horror (1 in 6 chance of " winning " ) but the risk of contracting a serious or life-threatening disease is higher for smokers. The trouble with smoking-caused diseases is they are like growing old. They creep up on you and before you know it it is too late and irreversible. Try telling young people they will one day be old. Life is forever when you are a teen. But smoking took ten years plus off my mother's life and the last seven years for her was one of constant breathless wheezing. I know this is a bit off-topic for this group but the message for those who are facing this surgery and who smoke is to give up while they can. To paraphrase lin on taxes and death is that all smokers eventually stop smoking. The lucky ones are still around to tell their friends. Rod > > Lia, > > > > I'm not a smoker (never have been), but I do want to address the > statement you made about being in pain. I had upper and lower > surgery and had very little - almost no - pain at all. There > are/were a couple of people on here (don't recall who they were) who > smoked and although they didn't/couldn't smoke during their recovery > (they were both wired shut), they actually planned on having a > cigarette once they were unwired. They didn't say it was hard not to > smoke, but neither had any intentions of quitting smoking. > > > > I would think that if you really want to quit, this will be a > good time since you won't be able to. Try not to worry about the > pain or the smoking - if anything, it's more discomfort than anything > else. The pain, if any, is not really bad either...at least is > wasn't for me and that seems to be the general concensus around here. > > > > Good luck. > > > > Smooches > > > > quitting smoking for > surgery > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > constantly > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after > the > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that > my > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to > have one > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm > hoping > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to > smoke > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > Hopefully > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > forever,,,i > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > lia > > > > > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------- ------ > -------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 etta I am thrilled that you saw value in my response. I left some juicy bits out. My brother-in-law died from combined mouth and pancreatic cancers - smoking related. He had a multitude of metastased cancers too - kidney, heart, testicular and brain (the latter the size of an orange which grew from nothing in 6 weeks). The mouth cancer resulted in half his jaw and part of his tongue being removed and is quite common in smokers who drink alcohol. The post mortem showed he had emphysema as well. His brother died the same way 18 months later. Emphysema prevents the sufferer from clearing the lungs because the cilia hairs that sweep the lungs clean are totally destroyed and the carcinogens and other nasties stay there doing more damage. Hence the persistent hacking and unproductive coughing experienced by smokers. My mother died from the effects of emphysema and she drowned in a hospital bed. What is emphysema like? Imagine running 200 metres flat out especially if you are unfit. Emphysema hits you like that but it is forever and for just extremely mild exertion like walking 5-10 metres on level ground. Of course people will make all sorts of extravagant claims about the lack of proof of smoking causing this or that. I ask them to go to a pulmonery function ward at a hospital and ask the smokers to raise their hands - 90% will raise their hands. Tobacco companies are good at diluting the statistics into the wider population. Ask people what they think about playing russian roulette and they will recoil in horror (1 in 6 chance of " winning " ) but the risk of contracting a serious or life-threatening disease is higher for smokers. The trouble with smoking-caused diseases is they are like growing old. They creep up on you and before you know it it is too late and irreversible. Try telling young people they will one day be old. Life is forever when you are a teen. But smoking took ten years plus off my mother's life and the last seven years for her was one of constant breathless wheezing. I know this is a bit off-topic for this group but the message for those who are facing this surgery and who smoke is to give up while they can. To paraphrase lin on taxes and death is that all smokers eventually stop smoking. The lucky ones are still around to tell their friends. Rod > > Lia, > > > > I'm not a smoker (never have been), but I do want to address the > statement you made about being in pain. I had upper and lower > surgery and had very little - almost no - pain at all. There > are/were a couple of people on here (don't recall who they were) who > smoked and although they didn't/couldn't smoke during their recovery > (they were both wired shut), they actually planned on having a > cigarette once they were unwired. They didn't say it was hard not to > smoke, but neither had any intentions of quitting smoking. > > > > I would think that if you really want to quit, this will be a > good time since you won't be able to. Try not to worry about the > pain or the smoking - if anything, it's more discomfort than anything > else. The pain, if any, is not really bad either...at least is > wasn't for me and that seems to be the general concensus around here. > > > > Good luck. > > > > Smooches > > > > quitting smoking for > surgery > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > constantly > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after > the > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that > my > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to > have one > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm > hoping > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to > smoke > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > Hopefully > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > forever,,,i > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > lia > > > > > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------- ------ > -------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 etta I am thrilled that you saw value in my response. I left some juicy bits out. My brother-in-law died from combined mouth and pancreatic cancers - smoking related. He had a multitude of metastased cancers too - kidney, heart, testicular and brain (the latter the size of an orange which grew from nothing in 6 weeks). The mouth cancer resulted in half his jaw and part of his tongue being removed and is quite common in smokers who drink alcohol. The post mortem showed he had emphysema as well. His brother died the same way 18 months later. Emphysema prevents the sufferer from clearing the lungs because the cilia hairs that sweep the lungs clean are totally destroyed and the carcinogens and other nasties stay there doing more damage. Hence the persistent hacking and unproductive coughing experienced by smokers. My mother died from the effects of emphysema and she drowned in a hospital bed. What is emphysema like? Imagine running 200 metres flat out especially if you are unfit. Emphysema hits you like that but it is forever and for just extremely mild exertion like walking 5-10 metres on level ground. Of course people will make all sorts of extravagant claims about the lack of proof of smoking causing this or that. I ask them to go to a pulmonery function ward at a hospital and ask the smokers to raise their hands - 90% will raise their hands. Tobacco companies are good at diluting the statistics into the wider population. Ask people what they think about playing russian roulette and they will recoil in horror (1 in 6 chance of " winning " ) but the risk of contracting a serious or life-threatening disease is higher for smokers. The trouble with smoking-caused diseases is they are like growing old. They creep up on you and before you know it it is too late and irreversible. Try telling young people they will one day be old. Life is forever when you are a teen. But smoking took ten years plus off my mother's life and the last seven years for her was one of constant breathless wheezing. I know this is a bit off-topic for this group but the message for those who are facing this surgery and who smoke is to give up while they can. To paraphrase lin on taxes and death is that all smokers eventually stop smoking. The lucky ones are still around to tell their friends. Rod > > Lia, > > > > I'm not a smoker (never have been), but I do want to address the > statement you made about being in pain. I had upper and lower > surgery and had very little - almost no - pain at all. There > are/were a couple of people on here (don't recall who they were) who > smoked and although they didn't/couldn't smoke during their recovery > (they were both wired shut), they actually planned on having a > cigarette once they were unwired. They didn't say it was hard not to > smoke, but neither had any intentions of quitting smoking. > > > > I would think that if you really want to quit, this will be a > good time since you won't be able to. Try not to worry about the > pain or the smoking - if anything, it's more discomfort than anything > else. The pain, if any, is not really bad either...at least is > wasn't for me and that seems to be the general concensus around here. > > > > Good luck. > > > > Smooches > > > > quitting smoking for > surgery > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > constantly > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after > the > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that > my > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to > have one > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm > hoping > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to > smoke > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > Hopefully > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > forever,,,i > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > lia > > > > > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------- ------ > -------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 Wow, Rod, It's amazing that one person can have so much wrong with them...forwarding this to my sister, too. Thank you so much. Smooches quitting smoking for > surgery > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > constantly > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after > the > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that > my > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to > have one > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm > hoping > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to > smoke > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > Hopefully > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > forever,,,i > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > lia > > > > > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------- ------ > -------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 Wow, Rod, It's amazing that one person can have so much wrong with them...forwarding this to my sister, too. Thank you so much. Smooches quitting smoking for > surgery > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > constantly > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after > the > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that > my > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to > have one > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm > hoping > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to > smoke > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > Hopefully > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > forever,,,i > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > lia > > > > > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------- ------ > -------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 Wow, Rod, It's amazing that one person can have so much wrong with them...forwarding this to my sister, too. Thank you so much. Smooches quitting smoking for > surgery > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > constantly > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one after > the > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and that > my > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want to > have one > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again i'm > hoping > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT to > smoke > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > Hopefully > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > forever,,,i > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > lia > > > > > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------- ------ > -------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 etta First of all don't blame yourself for what is locked in genes, for your daughter's diagnosis. How was any one to know 21 years ago, when I am sure she was lovingly conceived what might happen to her. Just be her mum now and give her all the love and support she is seeking. I get the feeling that your family is also touched by the damage that smoking does to people. My family certainly has been and it makes me both bitter and downright angry towards companies that profit out of people's (future) misery brought on by smoking. It is the biggest load of crap to say it is a person's choice to smoke or not - nicotine is a highly addictive chemical. Get 'em young and you've got 'em for life even if that life is substantailly shortened as a result. After I wrote my last response I did a quick check on Google and of course there is a huge increase in the risk of a stroke due to the reduced blood flow to the heart and a substantial increase in the risk of blindness. I cannot see how anyone would get pleasure using this despicable product with all the negative factors that are associated with tobacco. Some of these toxins are actually added to cigarettes to increase the desire to smoke!! Rod > > > Lia, > > > > > > I'm not a smoker (never have been), but I do want to > address the > > statement you made about being in pain. I had upper and lower > > surgery and had very little - almost no - pain at all. There > > are/were a couple of people on here (don't recall who they > were) who > > smoked and although they didn't/couldn't smoke during their > recovery > > (they were both wired shut), they actually planned on having a > > cigarette once they were unwired. They didn't say it was hard > not to > > smoke, but neither had any intentions of quitting smoking. > > > > > > I would think that if you really want to quit, this will be > a > > good time since you won't be able to. Try not to worry about > the > > pain or the smoking - if anything, it's more discomfort than > anything > > else. The pain, if any, is not really bad either...at least is > > wasn't for me and that seems to be the general concensus around > here. > > > > > > Good luck. > > > > > > Smooches > > > > > > quitting smoking > for > > surgery > > > > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > > constantly > > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one > after > > the > > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and > that > > my > > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want > to > > have one > > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again > i'm > > hoping > > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT > to > > smoke > > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > > Hopefully > > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > > forever,,,i > > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > > > lia > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------- ---- > ------ > > -------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2004 Report Share Posted January 7, 2004 etta First of all don't blame yourself for what is locked in genes, for your daughter's diagnosis. How was any one to know 21 years ago, when I am sure she was lovingly conceived what might happen to her. Just be her mum now and give her all the love and support she is seeking. I get the feeling that your family is also touched by the damage that smoking does to people. My family certainly has been and it makes me both bitter and downright angry towards companies that profit out of people's (future) misery brought on by smoking. It is the biggest load of crap to say it is a person's choice to smoke or not - nicotine is a highly addictive chemical. Get 'em young and you've got 'em for life even if that life is substantailly shortened as a result. After I wrote my last response I did a quick check on Google and of course there is a huge increase in the risk of a stroke due to the reduced blood flow to the heart and a substantial increase in the risk of blindness. I cannot see how anyone would get pleasure using this despicable product with all the negative factors that are associated with tobacco. Some of these toxins are actually added to cigarettes to increase the desire to smoke!! Rod > > > Lia, > > > > > > I'm not a smoker (never have been), but I do want to > address the > > statement you made about being in pain. I had upper and lower > > surgery and had very little - almost no - pain at all. There > > are/were a couple of people on here (don't recall who they > were) who > > smoked and although they didn't/couldn't smoke during their > recovery > > (they were both wired shut), they actually planned on having a > > cigarette once they were unwired. They didn't say it was hard > not to > > smoke, but neither had any intentions of quitting smoking. > > > > > > I would think that if you really want to quit, this will be > a > > good time since you won't be able to. Try not to worry about > the > > pain or the smoking - if anything, it's more discomfort than > anything > > else. The pain, if any, is not really bad either...at least is > > wasn't for me and that seems to be the general concensus around > here. > > > > > > Good luck. > > > > > > Smooches > > > > > > quitting smoking > for > > surgery > > > > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > > constantly > > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one > after > > the > > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and > that > > my > > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want > to > > have one > > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again > i'm > > hoping > > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT > to > > smoke > > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > > Hopefully > > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > > forever,,,i > > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > > > lia > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------- ---- > ------ > > -------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2004 Report Share Posted January 8, 2004 Thanx, Rod. I know I shouldn't blame myself, but that maternal instinct just won't quit. As for the smoking, my sister started in her teens (she's now 47), she's extremely overweight, and has high blood pressure...not to mention all the stomach problems she has that they can't figure out what's wrong. I am really afraid for her. My mom had a stroke in April 2002 (she's never been a smoker), has high blood pressure and is a diabetic. This makes me even more afraid for my sister. She keeps saying she's going to quit and has actually tried a couple of times, but I think her failure to do so is not because she couldn't quit, but more or less because she really doesn't want to yet. She keeps making excuses ( " I'll quit for my birthday " , " I quit starting next month " , " I'll quit on Valentine's day " - blah, blah, blah). She's even gone to a doctor several times and got stuff to help her quit, but never even opened the packages. You wouldn't believe the stuff she has to help her quit that all remain unopened. I'll just have to keep her in prayer. Thanx so much for your concern and all the information you've provided on this subject. Smooches quitting smoking > for > > surgery > > > > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > > constantly > > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one > after > > the > > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and > that > > my > > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want > to > > have one > > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again > i'm > > hoping > > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT > to > > smoke > > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > > Hopefully > > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > > forever,,,i > > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > > > lia > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------- ---- > ------ > > -------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2004 Report Share Posted January 8, 2004 Thanx, Rod. I know I shouldn't blame myself, but that maternal instinct just won't quit. As for the smoking, my sister started in her teens (she's now 47), she's extremely overweight, and has high blood pressure...not to mention all the stomach problems she has that they can't figure out what's wrong. I am really afraid for her. My mom had a stroke in April 2002 (she's never been a smoker), has high blood pressure and is a diabetic. This makes me even more afraid for my sister. She keeps saying she's going to quit and has actually tried a couple of times, but I think her failure to do so is not because she couldn't quit, but more or less because she really doesn't want to yet. She keeps making excuses ( " I'll quit for my birthday " , " I quit starting next month " , " I'll quit on Valentine's day " - blah, blah, blah). She's even gone to a doctor several times and got stuff to help her quit, but never even opened the packages. You wouldn't believe the stuff she has to help her quit that all remain unopened. I'll just have to keep her in prayer. Thanx so much for your concern and all the information you've provided on this subject. Smooches quitting smoking > for > > surgery > > > > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > > constantly > > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one > after > > the > > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and > that > > my > > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want > to > > have one > > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again > i'm > > hoping > > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT > to > > smoke > > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > > Hopefully > > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > > forever,,,i > > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > > > lia > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------- ---- > ------ > > -------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2004 Report Share Posted January 8, 2004 Thanx, Rod. I know I shouldn't blame myself, but that maternal instinct just won't quit. As for the smoking, my sister started in her teens (she's now 47), she's extremely overweight, and has high blood pressure...not to mention all the stomach problems she has that they can't figure out what's wrong. I am really afraid for her. My mom had a stroke in April 2002 (she's never been a smoker), has high blood pressure and is a diabetic. This makes me even more afraid for my sister. She keeps saying she's going to quit and has actually tried a couple of times, but I think her failure to do so is not because she couldn't quit, but more or less because she really doesn't want to yet. She keeps making excuses ( " I'll quit for my birthday " , " I quit starting next month " , " I'll quit on Valentine's day " - blah, blah, blah). She's even gone to a doctor several times and got stuff to help her quit, but never even opened the packages. You wouldn't believe the stuff she has to help her quit that all remain unopened. I'll just have to keep her in prayer. Thanx so much for your concern and all the information you've provided on this subject. Smooches quitting smoking > for > > surgery > > > > > > > > > I'm having a hard time quitting cold turkey because i'm > > constantly > > > thinking about the surgery and it's making me have one > after > > the > > > other. I know i should quit cause it doesn't help me and > that > > my > > > surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm just worried i'll want > to > > have one > > > after the surgery because of all the pain but then again > i'm > > hoping > > > i'll be in enough pain to not even want one. I know NOT > to > > smoke > > > right after the surgery because of the wounds healing. > > Hopefully > > > another plus that will come out of this is that i'll quit > > forever,,,i > > > hope. Anybody else been through this?? > > > > > > lia > > > > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------- ---- > ------ > > -------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.