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I agree with ...think long and hard about this. I am in my 40s and yes

heal not as good as when i would be 16 .I have complications such as numbness

and lack of taste -- had surgery in oct 2003... cant kiss or taste as good..i

did it for functional reason and find the bite very difficult that it changed.

My opinion..dont do this surgery unless you really really need to...!!!

Laurie

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I agree with ...think long and hard about this. I am in my 40s and yes

heal not as good as when i would be 16 .I have complications such as numbness

and lack of taste -- had surgery in oct 2003... cant kiss or taste as good..i

did it for functional reason and find the bite very difficult that it changed.

My opinion..dont do this surgery unless you really really need to...!!!

Laurie

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I agree with ...think long and hard about this. I am in my 40s and yes

heal not as good as when i would be 16 .I have complications such as numbness

and lack of taste -- had surgery in oct 2003... cant kiss or taste as good..i

did it for functional reason and find the bite very difficult that it changed.

My opinion..dont do this surgery unless you really really need to...!!!

Laurie

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Hiya,

First of all I am sorry to hear you too are having to face

this very important decision. I am now 1 week post op after having

upper and lower surgery to correct an underbite. I am 19 years old. I

too was about 16 when I first heard the mention of surgery. I had had

removable braces since I was about 9 until the time I was about 15 to

correct this. Things seemed to be going well until one day I woke up

and I knew something in my mouth was wrong. I immediately made an

appointment to see my dentist who thought I had dislocated my jaw. It

turned out I had just had a growth spurt and the bottom jaw had again

shifted the teeth forward. I was told that surgery was the only way

of ever having " the perfect bite " .

I ummed and ahhed over my decision and eventually decided too go for

surgery. I was told my my orthodontist and a surgeon that there was a

risk that if I didn't have the surgery my jaw could continue advacing

forward and make the bite worse. They couldn't gurantee this but it

was a risk I didn't really wanna take. I had my braces put on three

days before my 18th birthday. Now at 19 and a half I have got the

surery done. It is a long process but I do believe it will be worth

it. I know of three people who have had it done all of who have no

regrets and say there confidence is ten times higher.

I definetly did not have the surgery done for cosmetic reasons. I was

quite happy with my face the way it was and people said they would

not have known I had a problem with my jaw if I hadn't have told

them.

The best advice I can give you is thing long and hard about your

decision. Your young now and quite honestly your body will heal

better now if you decide to go ahead. I had the support of my family

and friends and this was a major factor for me. If you have any more

questions you wanna ask feel free.

All the best in making your decision

Stacey (uk)

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Hiya,

First of all I am sorry to hear you too are having to face

this very important decision. I am now 1 week post op after having

upper and lower surgery to correct an underbite. I am 19 years old. I

too was about 16 when I first heard the mention of surgery. I had had

removable braces since I was about 9 until the time I was about 15 to

correct this. Things seemed to be going well until one day I woke up

and I knew something in my mouth was wrong. I immediately made an

appointment to see my dentist who thought I had dislocated my jaw. It

turned out I had just had a growth spurt and the bottom jaw had again

shifted the teeth forward. I was told that surgery was the only way

of ever having " the perfect bite " .

I ummed and ahhed over my decision and eventually decided too go for

surgery. I was told my my orthodontist and a surgeon that there was a

risk that if I didn't have the surgery my jaw could continue advacing

forward and make the bite worse. They couldn't gurantee this but it

was a risk I didn't really wanna take. I had my braces put on three

days before my 18th birthday. Now at 19 and a half I have got the

surery done. It is a long process but I do believe it will be worth

it. I know of three people who have had it done all of who have no

regrets and say there confidence is ten times higher.

I definetly did not have the surgery done for cosmetic reasons. I was

quite happy with my face the way it was and people said they would

not have known I had a problem with my jaw if I hadn't have told

them.

The best advice I can give you is thing long and hard about your

decision. Your young now and quite honestly your body will heal

better now if you decide to go ahead. I had the support of my family

and friends and this was a major factor for me. If you have any more

questions you wanna ask feel free.

All the best in making your decision

Stacey (uk)

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Hiya,

First of all I am sorry to hear you too are having to face

this very important decision. I am now 1 week post op after having

upper and lower surgery to correct an underbite. I am 19 years old. I

too was about 16 when I first heard the mention of surgery. I had had

removable braces since I was about 9 until the time I was about 15 to

correct this. Things seemed to be going well until one day I woke up

and I knew something in my mouth was wrong. I immediately made an

appointment to see my dentist who thought I had dislocated my jaw. It

turned out I had just had a growth spurt and the bottom jaw had again

shifted the teeth forward. I was told that surgery was the only way

of ever having " the perfect bite " .

I ummed and ahhed over my decision and eventually decided too go for

surgery. I was told my my orthodontist and a surgeon that there was a

risk that if I didn't have the surgery my jaw could continue advacing

forward and make the bite worse. They couldn't gurantee this but it

was a risk I didn't really wanna take. I had my braces put on three

days before my 18th birthday. Now at 19 and a half I have got the

surery done. It is a long process but I do believe it will be worth

it. I know of three people who have had it done all of who have no

regrets and say there confidence is ten times higher.

I definetly did not have the surgery done for cosmetic reasons. I was

quite happy with my face the way it was and people said they would

not have known I had a problem with my jaw if I hadn't have told

them.

The best advice I can give you is thing long and hard about your

decision. Your young now and quite honestly your body will heal

better now if you decide to go ahead. I had the support of my family

and friends and this was a major factor for me. If you have any more

questions you wanna ask feel free.

All the best in making your decision

Stacey (uk)

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Hi Laurie,

Sorry to hear you still don't have your taste back! That must be

awful. I had initial problems, presumably from the anaesthesia, but

my taste did eventually come back completely.

I had my surgery in Aug 2002, braces came off in April 2003

(anniversary coming up soon!), and I found that my bite didn't settle

in completely for some months after that. Of course, I had to have a

bridge/crown combo replaced after the braces came off, but I can

definitely relate to the bite settling in and taking a long time. The

muscles don't really seem to come back right away either, I found it

took a long time before I could really bite into some hard foods like

carrots (and today I still only bite them raw when they are sliced).

I don't think I healed any slower being in my 40s, I had a really

quick recovery from the surgery itself. But some things like nerve

recovery really do take a long time, regardless of age, I think.

Whereas in the early days things improved measureably in days, then

weeks, after a while it starts to be difficult to measure change, it

occurs much more slowly. But it does change.

Hope things get better for you!

> I agree with ...think long and hard about this. I am in my 40s

and yes heal not as good as when i would be 16. I have complications

such as numbness and lack of taste -- had surgery in oct 2003...

can't kiss or taste as good.. I did it for functional reason and find

the bite very difficult that it changed. My opinion..don't do this

surgery unless you really really need to...!!!

Laurie

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Hi Laurie,

Sorry to hear you still don't have your taste back! That must be

awful. I had initial problems, presumably from the anaesthesia, but

my taste did eventually come back completely.

I had my surgery in Aug 2002, braces came off in April 2003

(anniversary coming up soon!), and I found that my bite didn't settle

in completely for some months after that. Of course, I had to have a

bridge/crown combo replaced after the braces came off, but I can

definitely relate to the bite settling in and taking a long time. The

muscles don't really seem to come back right away either, I found it

took a long time before I could really bite into some hard foods like

carrots (and today I still only bite them raw when they are sliced).

I don't think I healed any slower being in my 40s, I had a really

quick recovery from the surgery itself. But some things like nerve

recovery really do take a long time, regardless of age, I think.

Whereas in the early days things improved measureably in days, then

weeks, after a while it starts to be difficult to measure change, it

occurs much more slowly. But it does change.

Hope things get better for you!

> I agree with ...think long and hard about this. I am in my 40s

and yes heal not as good as when i would be 16. I have complications

such as numbness and lack of taste -- had surgery in oct 2003...

can't kiss or taste as good.. I did it for functional reason and find

the bite very difficult that it changed. My opinion..don't do this

surgery unless you really really need to...!!!

Laurie

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wow you're going to go through all this just to give you a perfect

smile? Hey, if you got it flaunt it but I wouldn't care if my smile

was slightly imperfect (sounds like yours is). If it doesn't affect

your chewing and speech and if it isn't gonna give you TMJ I say

don't do it. I don't have TMJ problems...yet. I'm thankful I

haven't but I can't chew well with my front teeth, actually not at

all, and my underbite affects my speech-not major or anything but I

would like it corrected. I'm only 17 I guess that's why I responded

your post but whatever works for you would be fine I'm sure. I just

don't think I would do all this to give me a " perfect smile " . As far

as being nervous about surgery, it's really not a big deal. They

just get a big hammer and smack you on the forehead when you aren't

looking. No really, surgery itself is not that bad. The recovery,

(from what I've heard) now that's a different story.

> > Hey all,

> > I've been reading the messages posted on here for some time now,

> and

> > figure you're the right people to answer a few of my questions.

> >

> > It looks like in order to get that perfect smile, I'll need to

> have

> > lower jaw surgery. I've already had consultations with two

> different

> > orthodontists, both of which believe this is the right path to

> take.

> > I have one last consultation next week, with a lady who is also a

> > surgeon - (how conveinant!)

> >

> > I'm terrified of this. I'm only 16, and nobody will give me any

> real

> > answers about how long this process will take. I can breathe,

> chew,

> > and talk properly, and my lips close when I smile. It's strictly

> > cosmetic, but my problem is too severe for cosmetic surgery.

> >

> > I don't want to be wired shut for my graduation next year. I

don't

> > want to start university away from home with dental worries. I

> don't

> > want to lose the feeling in my face. I've never had surgery

before

> > and I'm incredibly scared, and not knowing what to expect.

> >

> > Is this really worth it?

> > Thanks for any words of wisdom you might have :)

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here is my opinion, but dont take my word for it make sure u listen

to your ortho and surgeon and what they think. If they think 16 is

fine then it is ok. I am only 14 and i am having surgery so age is

not that big of a deal. They kno that u are done growing by your

xrays. My face doesnt show any deformity at all. i just have an

underbite and i cant really chew with my front teeth. If there is

no physical reason then if i were in your position i would not do it

b/c it sounds like a lot of pain and recovery to go threw just for

a " perfect " smile. but if its what u want to do then go ahead and

do it. do what u and your os and ortho have decided is best. dont

second guess to much either b/c u will end up like me hahahahahahaha

good luck

tori

> > > Hey all,

> > > I've been reading the messages posted on here for some time

now,

> > and

> > > figure you're the right people to answer a few of my questions.

> > >

> > > It looks like in order to get that perfect smile, I'll need to

> > have

> > > lower jaw surgery. I've already had consultations with two

> > different

> > > orthodontists, both of which believe this is the right path to

> > take.

> > > I have one last consultation next week, with a lady who is

also a

> > > surgeon - (how conveinant!)

> > >

> > > I'm terrified of this. I'm only 16, and nobody will give me

any

> > real

> > > answers about how long this process will take. I can breathe,

> > chew,

> > > and talk properly, and my lips close when I smile. It's

strictly

> > > cosmetic, but my problem is too severe for cosmetic surgery.

> > >

> > > I don't want to be wired shut for my graduation next year. I

> don't

> > > want to start university away from home with dental worries. I

> > don't

> > > want to lose the feeling in my face. I've never had surgery

> before

> > > and I'm incredibly scared, and not knowing what to expect.

> > >

> > > Is this really worth it?

> > > Thanks for any words of wisdom you might have :)

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> As far

> as being nervous about surgery, it's really not a big deal. They

> just get a big hammer and smack you on the forehead when you aren't

> looking. No really, surgery itself is not that bad. The recovery,

> (from what I've heard) now that's a different story.

And after they smack you with the hammer, they stretch your lips

around at least two city blocks : )

Surgery is easy, your only job is to go to sleep. Recovery is the

ultimate test of your patience - if you haven't got any, you'll

surely develop it.

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Hello!

Surgery is a scary thing, no doubt about it. This is a decision that

you will seriously need to think about - I started thinking about the

surgery when I was 16 and I knew then that I wasn't ready at that

time. I always kept it in the back of my mind though. When I was 20

I finally decided that it was the right thing to do. So, after tons

of consultations and a year of pre-op braces I finally had my surgery

3 weeks ago at age 22 (upper/lower/genio).

Yes, the young heal faster, but I think 22 is still young:) It might

be worth it, if you're not doing it for medical reasons, to put it off

for a few years. Focus on the end of high school, go off to college

and focus on your studies. By that time you may be mentally ready to

handle the surgery. All the worries and fears that you have now will

be put to rest when you feel the decision is right.

I had never had surgery before either. Everything that I expected

after surgery was amplified by 50 times. There is no way I could have

prepared myself for the uncomfortable feelings. Actually, the worst

thing for me was the congestion and nose bleeds, but if you are having

lower jaw surgery only, then those should not be a major problem if at

all. Yes, the first week is hell, no going around it, but after

things started picking up pretty quickly, at least for me.

I hope that when you do finally make a decision, which ever path you

take, that you are happy with your decision. You have so much time,

don't be worried that now is the only chance you have. I wish you all

the luck in the future!

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Thank you so much to everyone who responded :)!

You've definetly given me a number of things to consider, as well as

some interesting viewpoints.

Maybe bad teeth aren't such a horrible thing - I guess I'll just wait

and see what the ortho/surgeon I'm seeing next week has to say!

Thanks again, you've all helped clear up some of my questions and

given me a deeper piece of mind regarding the surgery...

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