Guest guest Posted December 20, 2003 Report Share Posted December 20, 2003 Hi You poor thing, this sounds like an awful situation. I don't think you are being to hard at all, especially since your sister should know how it feels to lose a baby. In my opinion if she really cared about you and your feelings and she really wanted you at her shower she would have called you and discussed it with you. Maybe you can be the 'grown' up one and call her and tell her that you are very happy for her and wish her and her baby well, but emotionally it would be too difficult for you to attend. If she truly cares about you she will understand. I really hope this helps... Take care Elaine Abdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 – now to TTC. Matt 20 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11 weeks bed rest then delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse. Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14 wks, delivered alive 20 wks, passed away short time later wrapped in my arms. Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection caused contractions, which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to fail. http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/ http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/ > Hi > It's : > I just recieved a baby shower invitation from my sister in the mail, > she, my aunt, and I all got preg one after another and of course > they still are preg. In any event after I lost my son 11-23 this year > she did not even call me to see how I was doing she has never said > anything to me, and she is suppose to have a boy like I was, and I > believe she is inconsiderate as so her husband since we have not > spoke to each other in months due to lots of issues. I really believe > they are just trying to get me to there new home since I have never > been there to see it just to show off. I really do not know what they > are thinking seeing she knows how I feel, because she lost twins > during her first preg due to prom at 23weeks;but she has 2 kids now, > yet I cried like her for them like they were my own. I just feel so > bad that she did not even see me after my loss, nore spoken to me, > and wants me to come to her baby shower. Do you think I am being to > hard, I don't know what to do Do you think I am being selfish for not > going. > thanks alicia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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