Re: What do you think? (long)

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HUGS!!! Sorry you have been through so much.

Well I did not get pg again until after 6 months after mt loss.

However I can imagine how you feel. I would say go & get a test.

The sooner your dr knows you are pg the more time he will have to

help you. I am currently 18 wks with an abdominal & mcdonald

cerclage. I stl worry a lot that I want make it, but you have to

put that out of your mind.

I hope all goes well with you please keeps us posted.

> Hi Girls

>

> I joined this group one month ago, after loosing my second baby at

11w. I

> was scheduled a vaginal cerclage to be placed at 12w, but it never

> happened. I started to dilate earlier than what is the " standard " -

at 9 w

> - and ended up having a miscarriage because of an infection, due to

the

> cervix opened. My doc told me that the next time I would need an

earlier

> cerclage and prophylactic antibiotics.

>

> I was devasted. 2003 is being a very difficult year to me. I lost

my son

> at 23 weeks last February and in August, when I thought

everything

> would be fine, this miscarriage. I joined this group, got a lot of

> information and was decided to ask for a pre pregnancy ab cerclage

and of

> course the antibiotics on the next pregnancy. But, I was only

planning

> another pregnancy for next year. My husband and I need some recover

> (mentally and physically) from this two losses.

>

> Now, it´s been 50 days since my miscarriage and my menses didn´t

show up.

> My hb and I only had sex once since them, but it was unprotected

sex. I´m

> starting to feel pregnancy symptoms and I don´t know if I´m just

becoming

> crazy or if there is a real possibility that I´m pregnant again.

I´m so

> afraid, that I don´t have the courage even to do a HPT or to call

my doctor

> . I want a baby very hard, but I´m still so sad, and scared...

Also, I

> don´t think it is good to get pregnant without any normal period

after a

> miscarriage?

>

> I simply don´t know what to think, to do, and I´m afraid to talk

about it

> with everyone, except from you. What do you think??? Any advice on

what to

> do???

>

> Love,

>

> Ianda

>

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HUGS!!! Sorry you have been through so much.

Well I did not get pg again until after 6 months after mt loss.

However I can imagine how you feel. I would say go & get a test.

The sooner your dr knows you are pg the more time he will have to

help you. I am currently 18 wks with an abdominal & mcdonald

cerclage. I stl worry a lot that I want make it, but you have to

put that out of your mind.

I hope all goes well with you please keeps us posted.

> Hi Girls

>

> I joined this group one month ago, after loosing my second baby at

11w. I

> was scheduled a vaginal cerclage to be placed at 12w, but it never

> happened. I started to dilate earlier than what is the " standard " -

at 9 w

> - and ended up having a miscarriage because of an infection, due to

the

> cervix opened. My doc told me that the next time I would need an

earlier

> cerclage and prophylactic antibiotics.

>

> I was devasted. 2003 is being a very difficult year to me. I lost

my son

> at 23 weeks last February and in August, when I thought

everything

> would be fine, this miscarriage. I joined this group, got a lot of

> information and was decided to ask for a pre pregnancy ab cerclage

and of

> course the antibiotics on the next pregnancy. But, I was only

planning

> another pregnancy for next year. My husband and I need some recover

> (mentally and physically) from this two losses.

>

> Now, it´s been 50 days since my miscarriage and my menses didn´t

show up.

> My hb and I only had sex once since them, but it was unprotected

sex. I´m

> starting to feel pregnancy symptoms and I don´t know if I´m just

becoming

> crazy or if there is a real possibility that I´m pregnant again.

I´m so

> afraid, that I don´t have the courage even to do a HPT or to call

my doctor

> . I want a baby very hard, but I´m still so sad, and scared...

Also, I

> don´t think it is good to get pregnant without any normal period

after a

> miscarriage?

>

> I simply don´t know what to think, to do, and I´m afraid to talk

about it

> with everyone, except from you. What do you think??? Any advice on

what to

> do???

>

> Love,

>

> Ianda

>

>

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Ianda

Sorry your going through this at the moment.

First things first you need to do the test. You may not be pg and if

not you can stop worrying.

If you are pg you need to see your DR to see what can be done to

help.

Please go and get the test. We can't help in any medical way here

but we can help you cope emotionally.

Come back and tell us the result.

Hugs

Elaine

Matt 17 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, delivered 35 wks PROM

Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14 wks, delivered alive 20 wks,

passed away short time later wrapped in my arms.

Babies were suffering from chronic Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome

(TTTS). Unsure whether I/C or TTTS caused cervix to dilate and stitch

to fail.

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/

> Hi Girls

>

> I joined this group one month ago, after loosing my second baby at

11w. I

> was scheduled a vaginal cerclage to be placed at 12w, but it never

> happened. I started to dilate earlier than what is the " standard " -

at 9 w

> - and ended up having a miscarriage because of an infection, due to

the

> cervix opened. My doc told me that the next time I would need an

earlier

> cerclage and prophylactic antibiotics.

>

> I was devasted. 2003 is being a very difficult year to me. I lost

my son

> at 23 weeks last February and in August, when I thought

everything

> would be fine, this miscarriage. I joined this group, got a lot of

> information and was decided to ask for a pre pregnancy ab cerclage

and of

> course the antibiotics on the next pregnancy. But, I was only

planning

> another pregnancy for next year. My husband and I need some recover

> (mentally and physically) from this two losses.

>

> Now, it´s been 50 days since my miscarriage and my menses didn´t

show up.

> My hb and I only had sex once since them, but it was unprotected

sex. I´m

> starting to feel pregnancy symptoms and I don´t know if I´m just

becoming

> crazy or if there is a real possibility that I´m pregnant again.

I´m so

> afraid, that I don´t have the courage even to do a HPT or to call

my doctor

> . I want a baby very hard, but I´m still so sad, and scared...

Also, I

> don´t think it is good to get pregnant without any normal period

after a

> miscarriage?

>

> I simply don´t know what to think, to do, and I´m afraid to talk

about it

> with everyone, except from you. What do you think??? Any advice on

what to

> do???

>

> Love,

>

> Ianda

>

>

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I simply don´t know what to think, to do, and I´m afraid to talk about it

with everyone, except from you. What do you think??? Any advice on what to

do???

Ianda,

I know that you're scared to death, but you need to find out if you're pg or not. I'd go out and get a pg test and just do it. If you are pg, you need to get that abdominal cerclage placed ASAP and there would be no time to waste.

HUGS! Know that we're all here, holding your hand for you.

Kateri

graduate

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Ianda,

I know you decided a pre-pregnancy cerclage was right for you but

having one when you're prego isn't that bad....ask the grads who

have had it done. Don't think about when the Dr's say is OK to

conceive, your body is telling you now is the right time!

Everything will be OK...and just think, this time you have us!

Big Hugs,

Kara

Graduate

> Hi Girls

>

> I joined this group one month ago, after loosing my second baby at

11w. I

> was scheduled a vaginal cerclage to be placed at 12w, but it never

> happened. I started to dilate earlier than what is

the " standard " - at 9 w

> - and ended up having a miscarriage because of an infection, due

to the

> cervix opened. My doc told me that the next time I would need an

earlier

> cerclage and prophylactic antibiotics.

>

> I was devasted. 2003 is being a very difficult year to me. I lost

my son

> at 23 weeks last February and in August, when I thought

everything

> would be fine, this miscarriage. I joined this group, got a lot of

> information and was decided to ask for a pre pregnancy ab cerclage

and of

> course the antibiotics on the next pregnancy. But, I was only

planning

> another pregnancy for next year. My husband and I need some recover

> (mentally and physically) from this two losses.

>

> Now, it´s been 50 days since my miscarriage and my menses didn´t

show up.

> My hb and I only had sex once since them, but it was unprotected

sex. I´m

> starting to feel pregnancy symptoms and I don´t know if I´m just

becoming

> crazy or if there is a real possibility that I´m pregnant again.

I´m so

> afraid, that I don´t have the courage even to do a HPT or to call

my doctor

> . I want a baby very hard, but I´m still so sad, and scared...

Also, I

> don´t think it is good to get pregnant without any normal period

after a

> miscarriage?

>

> I simply don´t know what to think, to do, and I´m afraid to talk

about it

> with everyone, except from you. What do you think??? Any advice on

what to

> do???

>

> Love,

>

> Ianda

>

>

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((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))) Ianda I'm sorry to hear you

are going through all of this. I have to agree with the others though, you

need to do an HPT just in case. If you are pg you need to get to a doc asap

and discuss the ab cerc. I think it was Kateri that had hers done at 9w

pg so if you are I would find a doc and insist that it is done earlier because

of your history.

Blessings and please let us know what happens

Shona

ianda.lopes.silva@... wrote:

Hi

Girls

I joined this group one month ago, after loosing my second baby at 11w.

I

was scheduled a vaginal cerclage to be placed at 12w, but it never

happened. I started to dilate earlier than what is the "standard" - at

9 w

- and ended up having a miscarriage because of an infection, due to the

cervix opened. My doc told me that the next time I would need an earlier

cerclage and prophylactic antibiotics.

I was devasted. 2003 is being a very difficult year to me. I lost my son

at 23 weeks last February and in August, when I thought everything

would be fine, this miscarriage. I joined this group, got a lot of

information and was decided to ask for a pre pregnancy ab cerclage and of

course the antibiotics on the next pregnancy. But, I was only planning

another pregnancy for next year. My husband and I need some recover

(mentally and physically) from this two losses.

Now, it´s been 50 days since my miscarriage and my menses didn´t show up.

My hb and I only had sex once since them, but it was unprotected sex. I´m

starting to feel pregnancy symptoms and I don´t know if I´m just becoming

crazy or if there is a real possibility that I´m pregnant again. I´m so

afraid, that I don´t have the courage even to do a HPT or to call my doctor

.. I want a baby very hard, but I´m still so sad, and scared... Also, I

don´t think it is good to get pregnant without any normal period after a

miscarriage?

I simply don´t know what to think, to do, and I´m afraid to talk about it

with everyone, except from you. What do you think??? Any advice on what

to

do???

Love,

Ianda

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Hi Landa

I am so sorry for your losses. You sound like you are still very emotional and being scared is part of the whole process. I am still very scared since my last loss of 20 weeks in March. Just take some time and pray about it. Take a pg test and if you are pg - then go to your doc so you may start taking preventive meds and planning for the cerclage. Do not get too worried until you know for sure you are pg. If you are not, then you know that you want to take some time to heal all wounds. From my experience, it has gotten a bit harder as the months pass. The saying that time heals all wounds is probably true to some extent. I know that as months passed, I hurt more than the few months after my angels passed on.

Maybe the symptoms are that your period will soon arrive. Just take the test and if you are not pg your mind will relax and your period will follow soon after. Lots of love to you both.

rosie

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Hi Ianda

Sorry for ur losses.

Please do the test as per everybodys adivce. I think you should have

a blood test to be sure though. Since you haven't got your periods

yet, your hormones might not be in place. Any HPT's with 20/25miu

might turn up positive. Please let us know...

Good luck

Meena

[Guest guest]

Please do a pregnancy test right away. You just never know when you might

have ovulated. If negative have them start your period. I did not get a

period on my own after our last m/c and had to take Provera after 10 weeks

of no period.

Love, P.

" Brayden Austin " 06/02/03

}}Angel {{ (14wks) 6/12/00

}}Angel Trustin{{ (18wks) 7/17/02

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>Date: Thu, 25 Sep 2003 20:04:57 -0200

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Hi Girls

I joined this group one month ago, after loosing my second baby at 11w. I

was scheduled a vaginal cerclage to be placed at 12w, but it never

happened. I started to dilate earlier than what is the " standard " - at 9 w

- and ended up having a miscarriage because of an infection, due to the

cervix opened. My doc told me that the next time I would need an earlier

cerclage and prophylactic antibiotics.

I was devasted. 2003 is being a very difficult year to me. I lost my son

at 23 weeks last February and in August, when I thought everything

would be fine, this miscarriage. I joined this group, got a lot of

information and was decided to ask for a pre pregnancy ab cerclage and of

course the antibiotics on the next pregnancy. But, I was only planning

another pregnancy for next year. My husband and I need some recover

(mentally and physically) from this two losses.

Now, it´s been 50 days since my miscarriage and my menses didn´t show up.

My hb and I only had sex once since them, but it was unprotected sex. I´m

starting to feel pregnancy symptoms and I don´t know if I´m just becoming

crazy or if there is a real possibility that I´m pregnant again. I´m so

afraid, that I don´t have the courage even to do a HPT or to call my doctor

.. I want a baby very hard, but I´m still so sad, and scared... Also, I

don´t think it is good to get pregnant without any normal period after a

miscarriage?

I simply don´t know what to think, to do, and I´m afraid to talk about it

with everyone, except from you. What do you think??? Any advice on what to

do???

Love,

Ianda

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Hi Girls,

Thanks so much for your help. I´m really happy that I have found you and

that I feel you are with me this time. Rosie, , Meena, Shona, Kateri,

Kara, Elaine... you are really wonderful and I´m lucky to know you all.

I´ve called my doc and he told me to wait until monday morning to do a

blood HCG. He thinks if I´m preg. and do a HPT today I can have a false

negative, so it´s better to wait until monday (and at the end of the day

it´s just the weekend...) and do a blood exam, which is more precise.

I´ll do it monday morning (of course if my period does not show up on the

weekend) and will let you know as soon as I have the results.

Love and have a good weekend you all

Ianda

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Take a OTC pregnancy test or go in for a beta hCG to know for sure. It is possible that all the stress and worry about possibly being pregnant is preventing you from cycling.

Good luck,

Chele :-)