Guest guest Posted December 17, 2003 Report Share Posted December 17, 2003 and I feel like I am keeping him back cause of my problem, but he says I am not!He tells me it is not my fault nore is it anyone's ; I guess this is an interal battle I have to deal with myself. I understand what your saying. I explained to my husband the same view and he was adamant with me that he loved me for me not the ability to produce children. It is an internal battle that is foresure. I had a hysterscopy too and the went through my belly button it wasnt painful it was the gas that was the worst though. Your husband sounds like a good man who is standing behind you no matter what. that is so important. It hurts to battle to have a child and words cannot explain. Just try to keep your head up (easier said than done) and stay informed about your health and proactive in your medical care. When are u having this done? thinking of you ((hugs)) Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2003 Report Share Posted December 17, 2003 hi, I got the results and the ultrasoud showed there were no fibroids but the doc wants to do something called a hystercomy I am not sure I spelled it right but it is where the scope examines the uterus to check for fiborids I really do not thnk I have them, becuse he is an ob with no hisk experience ; but this is just an update cause I spoke with a maternal fetal specialist which is the SAME THING as a perinatoliogitst here in houston and I thought it was so hard to find one but once I mentioned maternal fetal it's the same and I got like more than enough high risk docotors numbers here in houston and from this sight. I wish I was not so quick to jump on docts who did not not know much about this condition .my hd says he will go with any decsion I chose for the sake of his feelings I will wait, because he has dealt with my struggle this far sometimes I tell him this is my problem and he can go off to have children without me and he hates that so I know he really loves me,, and I feel like I am keeping him back cause of my problem, but he says I am not!He tells me it is not my fault nore is it anyone's ; I guess this is an interal battle I have to deal with myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2003 Report Share Posted December 17, 2003 not sure who sent this. no name at the bottom. I've had some of the same feelings about holding my dh back since it is a problem with my body. He sees this as rediculus. I think we all can be oversentitive at times and blame ourselves too much when there really is nothing we could have done. I often have to talk sense back to myself. -- In Abbyloopers , dailysummary@y... wrote: > hi, > I got the results and the ultrasoud showed there were no fibroids but > the doc wants to do something called a hystercomy I am not sure I > spelled it right but it is where the scope examines the uterus to > check for fiborids I really do not thnk I have them, becuse he is an > ob with no hisk experience ; but this is just an update cause I spoke > with a maternal fetal specialist which is the SAME THING as a > perinatoliogitst here in houston and I thought it was so hard to find > one but once I mentioned maternal fetal it's the same and I got like > more than enough high risk docotors numbers here in houston and from > this sight. I wish I was not so quick to jump on docts who did not > not know much about this condition .my hd says he will go with any > decsion I chose for the sake of his feelings I will wait, because he > has dealt with my struggle this far sometimes I tell him this is my > problem and he can go off to have children without me and he hates > that so I know he really loves me,, and I feel like I am keeping him > back cause of my problem, but he says I am not!He tells me it is not > my fault nore is it anyone's ; I guess this is an interal battle I > have to deal with myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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