Guest guest Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 Landa, What have you been told in terms of difficulty in getting pregnant by having the ab/cerc put in place prior to becoming pregnant? This is what I would want done before I got pregnant. Let me know what your dr. has told you. It is hard to get support from the husband. My husband keeps wondering what all this will cost if I pursue it. I need to get all the details before I move forward with a plan. I so desperately want another child. I don’t want to be alone. How did you fair after the ab/cerc? Did you need a lot of recovery time? I’m so glad that I found abbyloopers. Yeah! Ida anyone who wants to read Hello I have been tempted to go to a perinatologist, but my hd says he wants to wait before we try agin, but all I ever do is think about my babies whenever I see preg women or children. He says that after this third loss since we have been trying for the past two years we need a break ,and I do not want a break I want to keep trying. I didn't even start the birth control pills yet like I was suppose to. I know my hd means well he says to lets get out ans have some fun, but I tried that and eventually that fun is interrupted with wanting my baby.It seems like there is nothing elsa i want to do after ever loss knowing i would jump right up helped ease the pain that this next time will work but him wanting to wait a year and a half seems like a lifetime away. Yahoo! Groups Links · To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Abbyloopers/ · Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2003 Report Share Posted December 17, 2003 Ida, Welcome to our group. I hope here you can find all the info you need. I had my ab cerclage pre pregnancy last November, 29th. For me, the surgery was better than I expected. I think I was so afraid of it and at the end my recovery was kind of easy. I had the surgery on a Saturday morning, and exaclty 9 days after I was back to work full time. So, I just took one week medical leave from work, which was fine. About the difficult to conceive with the ab, my doc said we should´t have any problems on that as the two times I got pregnant it was quite easy (on the first or second month trying). I think if you have no fertility issues, the ab is not a problem. Leigh, a member of our group who just gave brith to Grant, had her ab pre pregnancy and got pregnant on the first or second month of ttc. Try to talk with your husband. With time, he´ll understand you. I whish you all the best. Ask anything you want. Ianda ----Original Message-----From: Craig and Ida Adkins Sent: terça-feira, 16 de dezembro de 2003 19:49To: Abbyloopers Subject: RE: Landa Landa, What have you been told in terms of difficulty in getting pregnant by having the ab/cerc put in place prior to becoming pregnant? This is what I would want done before I got pregnant. Let me know what your dr. has told you. It is hard to get support from the husband. My husband keeps wondering what all this will cost if I pursue it. I need to get all the details before I move forward with a plan. I so desperately want another child. I don’t want to be alone. How did you fair after the ab/cerc? Did you need a lot of recovery time? I’m so glad that I found abbyloopers. Yeah! Ida -----Original Message-----From: ianda.lopes.silva@... Sent: Tuesday, December 16, 2003 4:26 PMTo: Abbyloopers Subject: RE: anyone who wants to read , I understand how you fell. I was also like this, I wanted desperatly to try again and my hd wanted to wait. You both should try to talk and make an agreement good for both of you. Maybe one year and a half is too much, but, waiting at least 4 or 5 months will be good for you. With more time, your body will be able to heal - three subsequent pregnancies are difficult to anyone´s body. With time, you are going to be more relaxed as well (of course the fear never goes away). I know how hard it is to change the focus. I was so desperate to ttc after my second loss, and my husband would say to wait 1 year, at least. We agreed on changing the focus for a moment, but not stop working on our goal, so we moved house, did other things, travel, PLUS I had the ad done pre pregnancy. Now, four months after my loss, here we are, ttc again . My hb feels more confident now with the ab. I whish you all the best Ianda -----Original Message-----From: dailysummary@... Sent: terça-feira, 16 de dezembro de 2003 17:39To: Abbyloopers Subject: anyone who wants to read HelloI have been tempted to go to a perinatologist, but my hd says he wants to wait before we try agin, but all I ever do is think about my babies whenever I see preg women or children. He says that after this third loss since we have been trying for the past two years we need a break ,and I do not want a break I want to keep trying. I didn't even start the birth control pills yet like I was suppose to. I know my hd means well he says to lets get out ans have some fun, but I tried that and eventually that fun is interrupted with wanting my baby.It seems like there is nothing elsa i want to do after ever loss knowing i would jump right up helped ease the pain that this next time will work but him wanting to wait a year and a half seems like a lifetime away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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