Guest guest Posted December 18, 2003 Report Share Posted December 18, 2003 Elaine, To be honest I don’t know how they cope with the accidental loss of a 1 year old. I know that they will never move from Houston because his gravesite is there and her family lives there. She’s got 3 sisters for support. I sure hope that she’s going to some counseling. She’s actually expecting again and they will do a c-section on Jan. 2nd. I’m sure that it would be hard to live with that guilt and to think that she probably visits the same Ob office where it all happened. They are very strong people, or at least they appear that way. I know I couldn’t handle it all. Thanks for your responses. I’m learning so much. It is great!!!! Love, Ida A poem I wrote for our girls ... > > > > Christmas this year > > Its Christmas time, a time to care > But this years Christmas, our pain we'll have to bare. > > For this years Christmas, should have been > Our first with our girls, for this we were so keen. > > On Christmas day, amongst all the cheer > We'll be thinking of our babies, and wishing they were near. > > We'll celebrate Christmas, for our little boy > He keeps us strong; he is our hearts pure joy. > > On Christmas morning, we'll wake from our sleep > We'll go to the cemetery, and for both of you we'll weep. > > For Christmas this year, we'll imagine if you'd stayed > How wonderful our lives would be, then the thoughts will just fade. > > Christmas in heaven, we know will be great > We send you our love; a love that'll never abate. > > For now on at Christmas, two new stars will shine bright > They'll be our two little angels, twinkling throughout the night. > > Each and every Christmas, we'll think of you up above > We'll send you sweet and loving thoughts, and lots and lots of love. > > To Paige and Amy > With love always > Your Mummy - Christmas 2003 > > Elaine > > Abdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 - now to TTC. > > Matt 20 mths - emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11 weeks bed rest then > delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse. > > Paige and Amy - preventative vag/cerl 14 wks, delivered alive 20 wks, > passed away short time later wrapped in my arms. > Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome > (TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection caused contractions, > which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to fail. > > http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/ > > http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/ > > > > > > > > > > > > > > _____ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2003 Report Share Posted December 18, 2003 My heart goes out to your sister in law and her family. I cannot imagine how she feels. I feel so bad that she had to go through that. I have tears forming just thinking of the pain and how hard it must have been. I pray God will help her during this month. God bless, Taryn A poem I wrote for our girls ... > > > > Christmas this year > > Its Christmas time, a time to care > But this years Christmas, our pain we'll have to bare. > > For this years Christmas, should have been > Our first with our girls, for this we were so keen. > > On Christmas day, amongst all the cheer > We'll be thinking of our babies, and wishing they were near. > > We'll celebrate Christmas, for our little boy > He keeps us strong; he is our hearts pure joy. > > On Christmas morning, we'll wake from our sleep > We'll go to the cemetery, and for both of you we'll weep. > > For Christmas this year, we'll imagine if you'd stayed > How wonderful our lives would be, then the thoughts will just fade. > > Christmas in heaven, we know will be great > We send you our love; a love that'll never abate. > > For now on at Christmas, two new stars will shine bright > They'll be our two little angels, twinkling throughout the night. > > Each and every Christmas, we'll think of you up above > We'll send you sweet and loving thoughts, and lots and lots of love. > > To Paige and Amy > With love always > Your Mummy - Christmas 2003 > > Elaine > > Abdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 - now to TTC. > > Matt 20 mths - emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11 weeks bed rest then > delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse. > > Paige and Amy - preventative vag/cerl 14 wks, delivered alive 20 wks, > passed away short time later wrapped in my arms. > Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome > (TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection caused contractions, > which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to fail. > > http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/ > > http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/ > > > > > > > > > > > > > > _____ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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