Re: We will probaby TTC straight away...

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Elaine,

Me and DH are in the same point as you. He wanted to wait more time to ttc, but now, after the ab, he is more confident and agrees to ttc now. I want it very much, but I´m scared to death, as you may be too. Sometimes I wonder if I am corageous or crazy. Don´t know. But, I feel I have to do this, and waiting more time won´t really make much difference. So, here we go... I´m glad I´ll have you and all the group to support me during the difficult journey my next pregnancy is going to be.

I´m sorry to ask, I don´t remember, how long ago did you lose your twins? I´ve had my last loss (at 11weeks) last August, 5th.

About wanting a girl, I´ve read that there are ways to improve your chances to have a boy or a girl, by doing the bd on a certain date of your cicle. They say if you do it one or two days before your ovulation date, you improve your chances to have a girl. I don´t know if this works, but, as you want so much a girl, maybe you should give a try.

Take care

Ianda

-----Original Message-----From: Elaine Sent: quarta-feira, 10 de dezembro de 2003 02:11To: Abbyloopers Subject: We will probaby TTC straight away...As scary as it will be, my DH and I don't want to take any precautions against getting pg. We were both in two minds before the surgery, but for some reason we feel differently now. I'm just glad we feel the same way.My slightest concern is that since having our daughters my DH and I are both now keen for a girl. We really wanted a boy when we had our son, and then really didn't care what came next.Now that we both know how excitied we were to be having daughters we are both a little partial to experiencing a little girl. Utmost in our hearts though is to have a healthy baby, but this is now in the back of our minds. I know I will be happy no matter what, but feel a little bad that we feel this way.I'm so glad I'm going to have this board here for the emotional times ahead.ElaineAbdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 – still working up the courage to TTC.Matt 20 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11 weeks bed rest then delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse.Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14 wks, delivered alive 20 wks, passed away short time later wrapped in my arms. Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection caused contractions, which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to fail.http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/

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Elaine,

Me and DH are in the same point as you. He wanted to wait more time to ttc, but now, after the ab, he is more confident and agrees to ttc now. I want it very much, but I´m scared to death, as you may be too. Sometimes I wonder if I am corageous or crazy. Don´t know. But, I feel I have to do this, and waiting more time won´t really make much difference. So, here we go... I´m glad I´ll have you and all the group to support me during the difficult journey my next pregnancy is going to be.

I´m sorry to ask, I don´t remember, how long ago did you lose your twins? I´ve had my last loss (at 11weeks) last August, 5th.

About wanting a girl, I´ve read that there are ways to improve your chances to have a boy or a girl, by doing the bd on a certain date of your cicle. They say if you do it one or two days before your ovulation date, you improve your chances to have a girl. I don´t know if this works, but, as you want so much a girl, maybe you should give a try.

Take care

Ianda

-----Original Message-----From: Elaine Sent: quarta-feira, 10 de dezembro de 2003 02:11To: Abbyloopers Subject: We will probaby TTC straight away...As scary as it will be, my DH and I don't want to take any precautions against getting pg. We were both in two minds before the surgery, but for some reason we feel differently now. I'm just glad we feel the same way.My slightest concern is that since having our daughters my DH and I are both now keen for a girl. We really wanted a boy when we had our son, and then really didn't care what came next.Now that we both know how excitied we were to be having daughters we are both a little partial to experiencing a little girl. Utmost in our hearts though is to have a healthy baby, but this is now in the back of our minds. I know I will be happy no matter what, but feel a little bad that we feel this way.I'm so glad I'm going to have this board here for the emotional times ahead.ElaineAbdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 – still working up the courage to TTC.Matt 20 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11 weeks bed rest then delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse.Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14 wks, delivered alive 20 wks, passed away short time later wrapped in my arms. Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection caused contractions, which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to fail.http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/

[Guest guest]

Elaine,

Me and DH are in the same point as you. He wanted to wait more time to ttc, but now, after the ab, he is more confident and agrees to ttc now. I want it very much, but I´m scared to death, as you may be too. Sometimes I wonder if I am corageous or crazy. Don´t know. But, I feel I have to do this, and waiting more time won´t really make much difference. So, here we go... I´m glad I´ll have you and all the group to support me during the difficult journey my next pregnancy is going to be.

I´m sorry to ask, I don´t remember, how long ago did you lose your twins? I´ve had my last loss (at 11weeks) last August, 5th.

About wanting a girl, I´ve read that there are ways to improve your chances to have a boy or a girl, by doing the bd on a certain date of your cicle. They say if you do it one or two days before your ovulation date, you improve your chances to have a girl. I don´t know if this works, but, as you want so much a girl, maybe you should give a try.

Take care

Ianda

-----Original Message-----From: Elaine Sent: quarta-feira, 10 de dezembro de 2003 02:11To: Abbyloopers Subject: We will probaby TTC straight away...As scary as it will be, my DH and I don't want to take any precautions against getting pg. We were both in two minds before the surgery, but for some reason we feel differently now. I'm just glad we feel the same way.My slightest concern is that since having our daughters my DH and I are both now keen for a girl. We really wanted a boy when we had our son, and then really didn't care what came next.Now that we both know how excitied we were to be having daughters we are both a little partial to experiencing a little girl. Utmost in our hearts though is to have a healthy baby, but this is now in the back of our minds. I know I will be happy no matter what, but feel a little bad that we feel this way.I'm so glad I'm going to have this board here for the emotional times ahead.ElaineAbdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 – still working up the courage to TTC.Matt 20 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11 weeks bed rest then delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse.Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14 wks, delivered alive 20 wks, passed away short time later wrapped in my arms. Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection caused contractions, which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to fail.http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/

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Don’t feel bad. I wanted

a boy and I knew from the start we

wee having one. this pg I want of course a healthy baby but a girl would

be nice. I saw how great my dad is with us girls (my sister and I) and I want a

girl so my hd can experience that bond. Even know I am

very close to my dad. I understand how you feel. It is nature to think these

things. You are not being pushing with your wishes. I feel also since my sons

death that if we have a girl our son will be the only boy and if we have

another one I don’t want to think we forgot about him.

God bless,

Taryn

We will

probaby TTC straight away...

As scary as it will be, my DH and I don't want to take

any

precautions against getting pg. We were both

in two minds before the

surgery, but for some reason we feel differently

now.

I'm just glad we feel the same way.

My slightest concern is that since having our

daughters my DH and I

are both now keen for a girl. We really

wanted a boy when we had our

son, and then really didn't care what came next.

Now that we both know how excitied we were to be

having daughters we

are both a little partial to experiencing a little

girl. Utmost in

our hearts though is to have a healthy baby, but

this is now in the

back of our minds. I know I will be happy no

matter what, but feel a

little bad that we feel this way.

I'm so glad I'm going to have this board here for

the emotional times

ahead.

Elaine

Abdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 – still

working up the courage

to TTC.

Matt 20 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11

weeks bed rest then

delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse.

Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14

wks, delivered alive 20 wks,

passed away short time later wrapped in my arms.

Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin

Transfusion Syndrome

(TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection

caused contractions,

which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to

fail.

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/

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I have heard hat if you

get pg in a fast amount of time you will most likely have a boy. They say b/c

the boy sperm is a faster swimmer but the girl sperm lives longer. If you do

not have that much of a cervix I have heard that the sperms get there faster

b/c there is shorter distance. Who knows if this is right.

Taryn

We will

probaby TTC straight away...

As scary as it will be, my DH and I don't want to take

any

precautions against getting pg. We were both

in two minds before the

surgery, but for some reason we feel differently

now.

I'm just glad we feel the same way.

My slightest concern is that since having our

daughters my DH and I

are both now keen for a girl. We really

wanted a boy when we had our

son, and then really didn't care what came next.

Now that we both know how excitied we were to be

having daughters we

are both a little partial to experiencing a little

girl. Utmost in

our hearts though is to have a healthy baby, but

this is now in the

back of our minds. I know I will be happy no

matter what, but feel a

little bad that we feel this way.

I'm so glad I'm going to have this board here for

the emotional times

ahead.

Elaine

Abdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 – still

working up the courage

to TTC.

Matt 20 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11

weeks bed rest then

delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse.

Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14

wks, delivered alive 20 wks,

passed away short time later wrapped in my arms.

Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin

Transfusion Syndrome

(TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection

caused contractions,

which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to

fail.

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/

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I have heard hat if you

get pg in a fast amount of time you will most likely have a boy. They say b/c

the boy sperm is a faster swimmer but the girl sperm lives longer. If you do

not have that much of a cervix I have heard that the sperms get there faster

b/c there is shorter distance. Who knows if this is right.

Taryn

We will

probaby TTC straight away...

As scary as it will be, my DH and I don't want to take

any

precautions against getting pg. We were both

in two minds before the

surgery, but for some reason we feel differently

now.

I'm just glad we feel the same way.

My slightest concern is that since having our

daughters my DH and I

are both now keen for a girl. We really

wanted a boy when we had our

son, and then really didn't care what came next.

Now that we both know how excitied we were to be

having daughters we

are both a little partial to experiencing a little

girl. Utmost in

our hearts though is to have a healthy baby, but

this is now in the

back of our minds. I know I will be happy no

matter what, but feel a

little bad that we feel this way.

I'm so glad I'm going to have this board here for

the emotional times

ahead.

Elaine

Abdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 – still

working up the courage

to TTC.

Matt 20 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11

weeks bed rest then

delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse.

Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14

wks, delivered alive 20 wks,

passed away short time later wrapped in my arms.

Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin

Transfusion Syndrome

(TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection

caused contractions,

which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to

fail.

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/

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I have heard hat if you

get pg in a fast amount of time you will most likely have a boy. They say b/c

the boy sperm is a faster swimmer but the girl sperm lives longer. If you do

not have that much of a cervix I have heard that the sperms get there faster

b/c there is shorter distance. Who knows if this is right.

Taryn

We will

probaby TTC straight away...

As scary as it will be, my DH and I don't want to take

any

precautions against getting pg. We were both

in two minds before the

surgery, but for some reason we feel differently

now.

I'm just glad we feel the same way.

My slightest concern is that since having our

daughters my DH and I

are both now keen for a girl. We really

wanted a boy when we had our

son, and then really didn't care what came next.

Now that we both know how excitied we were to be

having daughters we

are both a little partial to experiencing a little

girl. Utmost in

our hearts though is to have a healthy baby, but

this is now in the

back of our minds. I know I will be happy no

matter what, but feel a

little bad that we feel this way.

I'm so glad I'm going to have this board here for

the emotional times

ahead.

Elaine

Abdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 – still

working up the courage

to TTC.

Matt 20 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11

weeks bed rest then

delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse.

Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14

wks, delivered alive 20 wks,

passed away short time later wrapped in my arms.

Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin

Transfusion Syndrome

(TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection

caused contractions,

which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to

fail.

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/

http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/

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Yes I've read also that boy sperm swim faster than the girl sperm

but the girl sperm live longer. They say if you want a boy then

have intercourse when you ovulate but if you want a girl then have

intercourse a few days before hand and then obstain until after you

ovulate. It is subposed to work but I know someone who tried for a

girl and got a boy so you can never really tell for sure.

> I have heard hat if you get pg in a fast amount of time you will

most

> likely have a boy. They say b/c the boy sperm is a faster swimmer

but

> the girl sperm lives longer. If you do not have that much of a

cervix I

> have heard that the sperms get there faster b/c there is shorter

> distance. Who knows if this is right.

>

> Taryn

>

> We will probaby TTC straight away...

> As scary as it will be, my DH and I don't want to take any

> precautions against getting pg. We were both in two minds before

the

> surgery, but for some reason we feel differently now.

>

> I'm just glad we feel the same way.

>

> My slightest concern is that since having our daughters my DH and

I

> are both now keen for a girl. We really wanted a boy when we had

our

> son, and then really didn't care what came next.

>

> Now that we both know how excitied we were to be having daughters

we

> are both a little partial to experiencing a little girl. Utmost

in

> our hearts though is to have a healthy baby, but this is now in

the

> back of our minds. I know I will be happy no matter what, but

feel a

> little bad that we feel this way.

>

> I'm so glad I'm going to have this board here for the emotional

times

> ahead.

>

> Elaine

>

> Abdominal Cerclage placed 2 Dec 2003 – still working up the

courage

> to TTC.

>

> Matt 20 mths – emergency vag/cerl 24 wks, 11 weeks bed rest then

> delivered 35 wks PROM and cord prolapse.

>

> Paige and Amy – preventative vag/cerl 14 wks, delivered alive 20

wks,

> passed away short time later wrapped in my arms.

> Babies were suffering from chronic Twin-to-Twin Transfusion

Syndrome

> (TTTS). Unsure whether I/C, TTTS or infection caused contractions,

> which resulted in cervix dilating and stitch to fail.

>

> http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matty2002/

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> http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/p/paigeandamy/

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