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I don't know your situation but is it at all possible to change your pcp?

When I was first diagnosed with diabetes I switched doctors a couple of times

until I got what I felt I needed, someone who understood me and my illness. My

first doctor at the time just seemed like he didn't know what he is talking

about. (something he confirmed when he accidentally gave me 50 units of regular

when he meant to give me 5units. He misunderstood the syringe) It wasn't an

easy thing to do either. My husband had to take a day off work just to sit on

the phone and fight with the HMO. But I am so grateful that he did it.

It is true that it sometimes takes a little while to get your numbers down so

try not to be completely discouraged. Being diabetic is very frustrating at

times so try not to beat your self up for your feelings. Try to relax and get

a second opinion if possible.

All the Best,

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Mara,

I know exactly how you are feeling. Being shoved around the bush all

the time. I'm still dealing with it myself. If you don't like your

PCP's opinion, go to that endocrinologist. That, or go to a center

that specializes in Diabetes. I'm doing that on the 16th.

As for trying to feel better, I wish you luck with it. If you feel

tired, try orange juice, keep some chocolate near by, or even keep a

Frappicino around. That really wakes me up. That, or there's a

drink called Y2Stinger. It's an energy drink, and that helps as well.

Good luck!!

Jo

> I'm so discouraged. I saw my pcp today and I had a total meltdown.

So

> many health issues and this diabetes thing is something that she

says

> I'm trying to tackle too fast. She said it could take as much as 6

mo

> to a year to get the BG down. She won't go by daily numbers

regarding

> meds, she says she needs to go by the A1C and I have to wait longer

> to find out if that's changed or not.

> the diabetes nurse told me the next step is adding in another med

or

> going to insulin 1x daily. My pcp says that is rushing it and that

> being in a hurry to medicate or use insulin to get my numbers down

is

> very hard and dangerous on the pancreas and it's better to take it

> very slowly and just be patient.

>

> I'm hearing so many conflicting messages... and in the meantime I'm

> dealing with so much frustration of not feeling well, not being

able

> to do anything... i think I am just going nuts. My pcp says i'm not

> being fair to the physicians and i'm over reacting.

>

> so.. here I sit... feeling isolated and feeling very discouraged.

> Feeling like I'm just a stupid person and shouldn't get upset or

> angry.

>

> tomorrow I have an appt to see the diabetes nurse again and I'm

> wondering if I should even go. she is going to tell me everything

> different from what my pcp tells me.. and she's going to make me

feel

> somewhat human again... and I'll be back in the same boat.

> I've made an appt with the endocrin. for Aug 19, but my pcp said

they

> won't do anything different from her.

>

> blah blah blah

> i just want to be able to stay awake and think. apparently I'm

asking

> way too much!

> Mara

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Hi Mara,

Can you take things one day at a time? I really do understand your desire to

get things under control but it takes the time it takes. Are you exercising?

That really helps me to lower my numbers. You did the right thing by reaching

out to others in the same boat as you are in. We understand your frustration.

You are not alone in this battle. We are here with you. Seeing a specialist is a

good idea. Let us know what you find out from him/her. Hang in there, it does

get easier.

Vicki

From: Mara

I'm so discouraged. I saw my pcp today and I had a total meltdown. So

many health issues and this diabetes thing is something that she says

I'm trying to tackle too fast. She said it could take as much as 6 mo

to a year to get the BG down.

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Vicki wrote:

Are you exercising? That really helps me to lower my numbers.

Thanks for the reply Vicki. I do what I can with exercise and it is

not enough. At this point any exercise is raising my levels. But I'm

still working at it.

I also have a neurological condition and am unable to walk more than

a couple of steps. so have been doing a pedal exerciser with arms and

legs, but not cardiac at all! I'm also doing the sit and be fit

programs. But it's just not enough. I'm hoping to be able to get to

start swimming, but need to find an aid first who can assist me with

dressing, etc.

I'm working on all of this. Thanks again for all the support!

Mara

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Vicki wrote:

Are you exercising? That really helps me to lower my numbers.

Thanks for the reply Vicki. I do what I can with exercise and it is

not enough. At this point any exercise is raising my levels. But I'm

still working at it.

I also have a neurological condition and am unable to walk more than

a couple of steps. so have been doing a pedal exerciser with arms and

legs, but not cardiac at all! I'm also doing the sit and be fit

programs. But it's just not enough. I'm hoping to be able to get to

start swimming, but need to find an aid first who can assist me with

dressing, etc.

I'm working on all of this. Thanks again for all the support!

Mara

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> (something he confirmed when he accidentally gave me 50 units of regular

> when he meant to give me 5units.  He misunderstood the syringe)

>

Oh my god, that is terrifying!

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> . and I'll be back in the same boat.

> I've made an appt with the endocrin. for Aug 19, but my pcp said they

> won't do anything different from her.

>

>

I would talk to the nurse. It sounds like she is taking your feelings a

little more serioulsy. Also I would say getting a second opinion with the endo

is a

must. In the mean time, I would suggest trying to exercise (walking ) twice a

day and really watching the diet so you can feel the best you can since your

having trouble with meds. Hope things get better for you!!

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> I would talk to the nurse. It sounds like she is taking your

feelings a

> little more serioulsy. Also I would say getting a second opinion

with the endo is a

> must. In the mean time, I would suggest trying to exercise

(walking ) twice a

> day and really watching the diet so you can feel the best you can

since your

> having trouble with meds. Hope things get better for you!!

Yes, I have talked witht the nurse and she is very supportive. I only

WISH I could walk! I have cerebellar ataxia, so my legs do not

cooperate. Will get the other opinion in about 2 weeks.

Best part is that i have found a pool at one of the local hospitals

and they are trying to find an aid to assist me with dresesing. It

would be GREAT to get in the pool! This is my best hope at exercise

which I so desperately need!

Mara

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