Guest guest Posted September 30, 2003 Report Share Posted September 30, 2003 Melody, Melody I know this is a hard decision to make between him and surgery, just remember you come first. You are not a door mat! Let me tell you I was heavy my whole life boy life it so different today. I had my surgery Jan. 17, 2001, I was 325 pounds the day of surgery. I never knew what it would be like being skinny. Today I am 146 pounds and really we could take nine pounds off of that since I had implants done a year ago. Let me tell you girlfriend he won't be the only guy. When that weight comes off my goodness you will see all kinds of men watching you. It is so weird, I walk thru the grocery store and have men stop just to say hello now. My point is do this for you and you only. Life is truly lovely on the other side. Best of luck to you and keep us posted. Sicoli 1/17/01 RNY-Lap 325/146 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2003 Report Share Posted October 1, 2003 Hi Melody and Deb, Yes, ABSOLUTELY Deb! And to add to this, Melody, believe it or not, there ARE guys out there who will love you for you no matter whether you are fat, thin, or whatever. I was also in a really bad relationship awhile back ago. I also thought I would take what I could get in a sense. I look back and wish I could have been stronger and had given him the boot. We did eventually break up and later, I met my husband who is the sweetest guy I could ever meet. He TRULY loves me and cares about me, and he's taught me that it IS ok to love myself regardless of how fat or thin I am. Caroline Lap RNY 5/2/03 367/276/150 My WLS Journey (new photos!) http://tinyurl.com/bkld I'll be walking in the Children's Hospital of OC's Walk in the Park at Disneyland this Sunday! I am looking for people to sponsor me If you are interested, thank you for visiting http://tinyurl.com/p9ah > I'll pray and wish you all the best.I always thought I would never > have anyone if I left a guy 23 years ago.I've been heavy all my life > the man I was with beat me and tell me when or where or what I could > do & ect he keep tabs on everything.I don't know everything thats > going on in the relationship.But please be careful If he saying that > now I would really think hard whats best for you.I've now been > married 20 years last May and had three children and happier life.I > think you both need to sit down and talk if that don't work then > Please leave him.Like many said here there many men out here whom > would love you and treat ya like a queen.I know this surgery was the > best thing I've ever done for myself and if I had to do it again I > would.I'm just a new loser but I'm down 49 lbs sence Aug 18,2003.God > Bless and look and please think of what YOU need and WANT.a friend > debkroll of Iowa. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2003 Report Share Posted October 1, 2003 Hi Melody and Deb, Yes, ABSOLUTELY Deb! And to add to this, Melody, believe it or not, there ARE guys out there who will love you for you no matter whether you are fat, thin, or whatever. I was also in a really bad relationship awhile back ago. I also thought I would take what I could get in a sense. I look back and wish I could have been stronger and had given him the boot. We did eventually break up and later, I met my husband who is the sweetest guy I could ever meet. He TRULY loves me and cares about me, and he's taught me that it IS ok to love myself regardless of how fat or thin I am. Caroline Lap RNY 5/2/03 367/276/150 My WLS Journey (new photos!) http://tinyurl.com/bkld I'll be walking in the Children's Hospital of OC's Walk in the Park at Disneyland this Sunday! I am looking for people to sponsor me If you are interested, thank you for visiting http://tinyurl.com/p9ah > I'll pray and wish you all the best.I always thought I would never > have anyone if I left a guy 23 years ago.I've been heavy all my life > the man I was with beat me and tell me when or where or what I could > do & ect he keep tabs on everything.I don't know everything thats > going on in the relationship.But please be careful If he saying that > now I would really think hard whats best for you.I've now been > married 20 years last May and had three children and happier life.I > think you both need to sit down and talk if that don't work then > Please leave him.Like many said here there many men out here whom > would love you and treat ya like a queen.I know this surgery was the > best thing I've ever done for myself and if I had to do it again I > would.I'm just a new loser but I'm down 49 lbs sence Aug 18,2003.God > Bless and look and please think of what YOU need and WANT.a friend > debkroll of Iowa. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2003 Report Share Posted October 1, 2003 Hi Melody and Deb, Yes, ABSOLUTELY Deb! And to add to this, Melody, believe it or not, there ARE guys out there who will love you for you no matter whether you are fat, thin, or whatever. I was also in a really bad relationship awhile back ago. I also thought I would take what I could get in a sense. I look back and wish I could have been stronger and had given him the boot. We did eventually break up and later, I met my husband who is the sweetest guy I could ever meet. He TRULY loves me and cares about me, and he's taught me that it IS ok to love myself regardless of how fat or thin I am. Caroline Lap RNY 5/2/03 367/276/150 My WLS Journey (new photos!) http://tinyurl.com/bkld I'll be walking in the Children's Hospital of OC's Walk in the Park at Disneyland this Sunday! I am looking for people to sponsor me If you are interested, thank you for visiting http://tinyurl.com/p9ah > I'll pray and wish you all the best.I always thought I would never > have anyone if I left a guy 23 years ago.I've been heavy all my life > the man I was with beat me and tell me when or where or what I could > do & ect he keep tabs on everything.I don't know everything thats > going on in the relationship.But please be careful If he saying that > now I would really think hard whats best for you.I've now been > married 20 years last May and had three children and happier life.I > think you both need to sit down and talk if that don't work then > Please leave him.Like many said here there many men out here whom > would love you and treat ya like a queen.I know this surgery was the > best thing I've ever done for myself and if I had to do it again I > would.I'm just a new loser but I'm down 49 lbs sence Aug 18,2003.God > Bless and look and please think of what YOU need and WANT.a friend > debkroll of Iowa. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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