Guest guest Posted October 17, 2002 Report Share Posted October 17, 2002 hi all, for those of you that dont know, my wieght has been an issue with my family for the longest time. well last night mom and i exchanged words over the phone, what she basically said was that she does not think that i can lose this weight and that i will be fat and miserable the rest of my life. Well after crying a flood and realizing that my health is at risk, i have decided to do what i need to do. last night i was upset and wanted pizza, but i di dnot give into my craving which was good. along with her saying that she thinks i will be fat nd happy she has lost faith in me to do something about it. talk about being hurt and emotional so today, i am forging ahead erin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2002 Report Share Posted October 17, 2002 , Big hugs from me , I know what it is like all my life my mom's love to me has been conditional on how I am doing with my weight. She is aproving and loving if I am doing something about it and not aproving and loving if I am not. A couple of years ago I told her I love her uncondtionaly but my weight is not a topic for us to discuss as it definitley does not help me . I know that she will not change and her behavior is very hurtful but it is me that has to love her uncondtionaly. Take care of yourself. Anytime you need an ear I am here. Zephyr families (ot) hi all, for those of you that dont know, my wieght has been an issue with my family for the longest time. well last night mom and i exchanged words over the phone, what she basically said was that she does not think that i can lose this weight and that i will be fat and miserable the rest of my life. Well after crying a flood and realizing that my health is at risk, i have decided to do what i need to do. last night i was upset and wanted pizza, but i di dnot give into my craving which was good. along with her saying that she thinks i will be fat nd happy she has lost faith in me to do something about it. talk about being hurt and emotional so today, i am forging ahead erin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2002 Report Share Posted October 17, 2002 Way to go in not getting the pizza! You can do this but you have to do it for ERIN. Do it because it will make you healthy and you will feel better. That was a terrible thing for your mom to say. I don't understand how a mother can be so hateful , insensitive, and uncaring to her own child! As a mom and your friend, my heart goes out to you. Hang in there and remember we are here for support and encouragement when you need us. Hugs, |--------+-----------------------> | | " Henry " | | | | | | | | | 10/17/2002 | | | 09:15 AM | | | Please | | | respond to | | | wwliterside | | | | |--------+-----------------------> >-----------------------------------------------------------| | | | To: wwliterside | | cc: (bcc: -C /BRE/AGFA/US/BAYER) | | Subject: families (ot) | >-----------------------------------------------------------| hi all, for those of you that dont know, my wieght has been an issue with my family for the longest time. well last night mom and i exchanged words over the phone, what she basically said was that she does not think that i can lose this weight and that i will be fat and miserable the rest of my life. Well after crying a flood and realizing that my health is at risk, i have decided to do what i need to do. last night i was upset and wanted pizza, but i di dnot give into my craving which was good. along with her saying that she thinks i will be fat nd happy she has lost faith in me to do something about it. talk about being hurt and emotional so today, i am forging ahead erin ~There are no strangers here... Only friends that haven't met yet~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2002 Report Share Posted October 17, 2002 Way to go in not getting the pizza! You can do this but you have to do it for ERIN. Do it because it will make you healthy and you will feel better. That was a terrible thing for your mom to say. I don't understand how a mother can be so hateful , insensitive, and uncaring to her own child! As a mom and your friend, my heart goes out to you. Hang in there and remember we are here for support and encouragement when you need us. Hugs, |--------+-----------------------> | | " Henry " | | | | | | | | | 10/17/2002 | | | 09:15 AM | | | Please | | | respond to | | | wwliterside | | | | |--------+-----------------------> >-----------------------------------------------------------| | | | To: wwliterside | | cc: (bcc: -C /BRE/AGFA/US/BAYER) | | Subject: families (ot) | >-----------------------------------------------------------| hi all, for those of you that dont know, my wieght has been an issue with my family for the longest time. well last night mom and i exchanged words over the phone, what she basically said was that she does not think that i can lose this weight and that i will be fat and miserable the rest of my life. Well after crying a flood and realizing that my health is at risk, i have decided to do what i need to do. last night i was upset and wanted pizza, but i di dnot give into my craving which was good. along with her saying that she thinks i will be fat nd happy she has lost faith in me to do something about it. talk about being hurt and emotional so today, i am forging ahead erin ~There are no strangers here... Only friends that haven't met yet~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2002 Report Share Posted October 17, 2002 Sorry your having problems with your mother. I'm glad you were able to take control and not go for the pizza! See you DO have it in you to lose this weight! families (ot) hi all, for those of you that dont know, my wieght has been an issue with my family for the longest time. well last night mom and i exchanged words over the phone, what she basically said was that she does not think that i can lose this weight and that i will be fat and miserable the rest of my life. Well after crying a flood and realizing that my health is at risk, i have decided to do what i need to do. last night i was upset and wanted pizza, but i di dnot give into my craving which was good. along with her saying that she thinks i will be fat nd happy she has lost faith in me to do something about it. talk about being hurt and emotional so today, i am forging ahead erin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2002 Report Share Posted October 17, 2002 {{{{{ERIN}}}}}, What a terrible thing for anyone to say expecially your mom! I am so sorry that some people can be so hurtful!!!!! You have made the right choice to do something about your weight for your health! You are the only one that can do it and YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!!! We are here to support you!!! Hang in there! Maureen families (ot) hi all, for those of you that dont know, my wieght has been an issue with my family for the longest time. well last night mom and i exchanged words over the phone, what she basically said was that she does not think that i can lose this weight and that i will be fat and miserable the rest of my life. Well after crying a flood and realizing that my health is at risk, i have decided to do what i need to do. last night i was upset and wanted pizza, but i di dnot give into my craving which was good. along with her saying that she thinks i will be fat nd happy she has lost faith in me to do something about it. talk about being hurt and emotional so today, i am forging ahead erin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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