Guest guest Posted February 11, 2004 Report Share Posted February 11, 2004 Thank you for posting this information. I have read all the articles you linked for us. I have been told by all the gyns I have seen that a C-section is highly recommended for when I get pg soon. I was a little disappointed to hear this, but after my research and then reading your articles, I will take no chances with having my precious baby suffer brain damage. So I miss the opportunity to deliver naturally, so what! I am visually impaired, can't drive, can't read a book the normal way, etc, I've learned to do things differently all my life. So if it's a matter of a healthy baby or one with the risk of possible brain damage, I am taking no chances. We live in a time when we have choices like these. We don't have to face it on our own anymore. So why take the risk? I do not agree with some of the responses to your post. Yes, life is a risk every day, but if my baby's health is at risk because of a prior myomectomy, I will choose the C-section. Every baby is a miracle and there is no way I'm putting my issues ahead of the best interest of my baby. I have had two ab surgeries in the past, so I'm sure recovering from a C-section will be similar. My parents had a foster son with Cerebral Palsy, I would not wish that disability on any child if I could help it. So even if there's a 1% chance of a problem, I won't take it. I don't want to spend the rest of my life regretting that I didn't choose the C-section, what a simple choice it seems in hind sight. For someone who was told they would never carry a full term baby, and has now had a new hope from a new doctor who found out why my uterus was in such bad shape (submucosal fibs) I have now been told there is not any reason why I couldn't have a healthy baby. So I am not going to jeopardize my chances. thanks again for posting those studies and stories. I feel so strongly about this issue, I had to respond. :)Take care, Sonja Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 11, 2004 Report Share Posted February 11, 2004 > I do not agree with some of the responses to your post. Yes, life is a risk > every day, but if my baby's health is at risk because of a prior myomectomy, > I will choose the C-section. Every baby is a miracle and there is no way > I'm putting my issues ahead of the best interest of my baby. I have had two > ab surgeries in the past, so I'm sure recovering from a C-section will be > similar. My parents had a foster son with Cerebral Palsy, I would not wish > that disability on any child if I could help it. My response was not meant to imply don't have a c-section. It was made very clear to me there was no other option after an ab myo. If physicians are not communicating that - that is unfortunate. I just think there has been a lot of negative postings about all the bad things that can go wrong with all the various procedures available for fibroids. Not to say that this not important to know, but there are good things as well. To focus on the negative consquences all the time takes away from the good. At some point an invidual has to make choice based on knowing BOTH the good and the bad. I belonged to a UAE post for a short time and unsubscribed because of all the negative focus and doomsday e-mails about myos. Again, didn't mean to imply not to have a c-section. I think it goes with out saying that the interst of the baby comes first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2004 Report Share Posted February 12, 2004 The decision about whether to have a Cesarean section would be easier for me if there were fewer risks to C sections. Unfortunately, C sections pose risks not only for the mother, but for the baby as well. One of the risks that concerns me the most is the possibility of having a premature baby because the C section was done too soon. Estimated due dates are only estimates, and sometimes they are quite unreliable, even if the mother knows when her last menstrual cycle started. My first baby, who was born vaginally, was born 16 days late, and she came out only we because used Cervidil to ripen my cervix and get contractions going. When babies stay inside past the estimated due date, it's usually because they need the time to develop more. If I had had a C section in my 37th week, as some ob/gyns recommend in order to avoid uterine rupture after a myo, Holly would have been born about 5 weeks before she was ready, and could have had complications as a result of that. I'm all for C sections when they're necessary; I was a C section baby myself. My mother made a difficult decision 40 years ago. She lost several babies because of placenta abruptio. When she was 33 weeks pregnant with me, her doctor recommended having a C section before the placenta abruptio advanced too far. Back then, being born 7 weeks early was very risky. I had Respiratory Distress Syndrome (which can cause brain problems but fortunately didn't) and stopped breathing several times because I just " forgot. " One day, my mother came down to see me in the hospital nursery and found a priest leaning over me giving me Last Rites. In her journal for that period, my mother avoided using my name for the first week and instead referred to me as " the baby " because she wasn't sure if I was going to make it. So I have mixed feelings about C sections. Of course, medical procedures and technology are much more advanced these days, and babies are able to survive at much more premature stages than before, often without long-term disabilities. We must carefully weigh the risks of uterine rupture against the risks of a C section. The uterine rupture risks are not the same for everyone; they can vary depending on the location and number of fibroids and how deeply the doctor needs to cut into your uterus. Each of us must make our own decision based on our individual medical situations, beliefs, and experiences. Cheryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2004 Report Share Posted February 12, 2004 For what it is worth, I am sharing how I am proceeding with my c-section. Unfortuantely, I don't have the option of whether or not to have a c section b/c the ab myo I had involved a lot of cutting into my uterus and they felt a vaginal birth would be too traumatic for my uterus and that it may not sustain contractions during labor thus causing rupture. My doctor is very conservative, however, regarding when the baby should be delivered. So we are doing an amnio on February 26th (my 27th week) to be sure the baby's lungs are mature. If they are not, then I will be waiting until my 38th week. They are concerned about the uterine rupture as I am but we are all concerned about the baby's health as well. Although I was nervous about an amnio, I did a lot of research and spoke with my doctor about the dangers of an amnio and I am very comfortable with what I know. So we are crossing our fingers that the baby is ready to come on the 27th! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2004 Report Share Posted February 12, 2004 I'm glad to hear that your doctor is doing everything possible to try to make sure that the baby is ready for delivery. I wish you all the best. Cheryl At 08:22 AM 2/12/2004 -0800, you wrote: >For what it is worth, I am sharing how I am proceeding >with my c-section. Unfortuantely, I don't have the >option of whether or not to have a c section b/c the >ab myo I had involved a lot of cutting into my uterus >and they felt a vaginal birth would be too traumatic >for my uterus and that it may not sustain contractions >during labor thus causing rupture. My doctor is very >conservative, however, regarding when the baby should >be delivered. So we are doing an amnio on February >26th (my 27th week) to be sure the baby's lungs are >mature. If they are not, then I will be waiting until >my 38th week. They are concerned about the uterine >rupture as I am but we are all concerned about the >baby's health as well. Although I was nervous about >an amnio, I did a lot of research and spoke with my >doctor about the dangers of an amnio and I am very >comfortable with what I know. So we are crossing our >fingers that the baby is ready to come on the 27th! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2004 Report Share Posted February 12, 2004 I'm glad to hear that your doctor is doing everything possible to try to make sure that the baby is ready for delivery. I wish you all the best. Cheryl At 08:22 AM 2/12/2004 -0800, you wrote: >For what it is worth, I am sharing how I am proceeding >with my c-section. Unfortuantely, I don't have the >option of whether or not to have a c section b/c the >ab myo I had involved a lot of cutting into my uterus >and they felt a vaginal birth would be too traumatic >for my uterus and that it may not sustain contractions >during labor thus causing rupture. My doctor is very >conservative, however, regarding when the baby should >be delivered. So we are doing an amnio on February >26th (my 27th week) to be sure the baby's lungs are >mature. If they are not, then I will be waiting until >my 38th week. They are concerned about the uterine >rupture as I am but we are all concerned about the >baby's health as well. Although I was nervous about >an amnio, I did a lot of research and spoke with my >doctor about the dangers of an amnio and I am very >comfortable with what I know. So we are crossing our >fingers that the baby is ready to come on the 27th! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2004 Report Share Posted February 12, 2004 I'm glad to hear that your doctor is doing everything possible to try to make sure that the baby is ready for delivery. I wish you all the best. Cheryl At 08:22 AM 2/12/2004 -0800, you wrote: >For what it is worth, I am sharing how I am proceeding >with my c-section. Unfortuantely, I don't have the >option of whether or not to have a c section b/c the >ab myo I had involved a lot of cutting into my uterus >and they felt a vaginal birth would be too traumatic >for my uterus and that it may not sustain contractions >during labor thus causing rupture. My doctor is very >conservative, however, regarding when the baby should >be delivered. So we are doing an amnio on February >26th (my 27th week) to be sure the baby's lungs are >mature. If they are not, then I will be waiting until >my 38th week. They are concerned about the uterine >rupture as I am but we are all concerned about the >baby's health as well. Although I was nervous about >an amnio, I did a lot of research and spoke with my >doctor about the dangers of an amnio and I am very >comfortable with what I know. So we are crossing our >fingers that the baby is ready to come on the 27th! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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