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Macky,

Yes, I too have suffered from many of the great experiances that I have had

with the tubal. I would like to see the list if you could please share it.

I thought maybe I was going crazy but I know that because of the tubal it

has caused a lot of pain and suffering to me mentally and physically. I

said your cute because it is nice to know that I am not alone in this. That

woman all over the world feel just the way I do. Sometimes I may seem a

little off myself but I know why. Until I am fixed I hope you all can bare

what I am going through! Did that make any sense??

R. - Emotions!

I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some of

this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and I

really do feel for anyone who goes through it. I'm not sure if you

are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or reversals

but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered from

22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me and

I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it all

to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I finally

found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so good to

be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you read

a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really can

cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said I was

cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on this.???

Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

attitude!

Abundant Blessings,

Macky

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there is also a group on yahoo that a friend of mine started called

tubalproblems101 you might want to join.

-- R. - Emotions!

I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some of

this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and I

really do feel for anyone who goes through it. I'm not sure if you

are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or reversals

but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered from

22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me and

I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it all

to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I finally

found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so good to

be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you read

a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really can

cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said I was

cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on this.???

Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

attitude!

Abundant Blessings,

Macky

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, I will find it and forward it to you. Hang in there. It will

be worth it!

Abundant Blessings,

Macky

> Macky,

>

> Yes, I too have suffered from many of the great experiances that I

have had

> with the tubal. I would like to see the list if you could please

share it.

> I thought maybe I was going crazy but I know that because of the

tubal it

> has caused a lot of pain and suffering to me mentally and

physically. I

> said your cute because it is nice to know that I am not alone in

this. That

> woman all over the world feel just the way I do. Sometimes I may

seem a

> little off myself but I know why. Until I am fixed I hope you all

can bare

> what I am going through! Did that make any sense??

>

>

>

> R. - Emotions!

>

>

> I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some of

> this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

> trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

> really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and I

> really do feel for anyone who goes through it. I'm not sure if

you

> are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or

reversals

> but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

> effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered

from

> 22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me

and

> I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it all

> to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I

finally

> found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so good

to

> be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you

read

> a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really can

> cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said I

was

> cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on this.???

> Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

> attitude!

>

> Abundant Blessings,

>

> Macky

>

>

>

>

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Thank you so much!!! It will answer a lot of questions that for sure!!!

NANCY

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>

>

> I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some of

> this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

> trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

> really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and I

> really do feel for anyone who goes through it. I'm not sure if

you

> are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or

reversals

> but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

> effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered

from

> 22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me

and

> I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it all

> to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I

finally

> found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so good

to

> be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you

read

> a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really can

> cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said I

was

> cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on this.???

> Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

> attitude!

>

> Abundant Blessings,

>

> Macky

>

>

>

>

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I don't think I can handle anymore groups~!!!! I am already in five!

It was a great Idea though!

Thanks a lot!

nancy

R. - Emotions!

I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some of

this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and I

really do feel for anyone who goes through it. I'm not sure if you

are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or reversals

but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered from

22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me and

I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it all

to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I finally

found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so good to

be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you read

a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really can

cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said I was

cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on this.???

Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

attitude!

Abundant Blessings,

Macky

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I am baffled as to why so many doctors refuse to believe there is a

correlation between a tl and all of the symptoms women complain about.

My doctor basically says that the hormones and the basic functioning of

the reproductive system is exactly the same. that there are no change in

hormones whatsoever, that tying the tubes simply prevent the egg from

completing the journey. all other functions are the same and hormones

should rise and fall etc...based on ovulation and periods are

unaffected. that really does make sense logically. however, thousands of

women cannot be wrong. i am astounded that most of the women in this

group are intimately familiar with their bodies and can even pinpoint

implantation! that amazes me. most women who have had tl's have had

many, many years of experiences with their cycles prior to having the tl

and they've had babies...they've done it all and they know what is

normal for them and what is not.. when their bodies are completely out

of whack, it's pretty insulting for a doctor to discount what they are

trying say. for some reason, the doctors continue to bury their heads in

the sand about this issue and the insurance companies follow suit. the

female body is so much more complicated than the male body when it comes

to this stuff. i haven't really heard much about vasectomies. don't

know if there is a pvs??? doubt it. if there were, i am sure it would be

given more credibility!

in my case, i used to have really light periods, almost no pms

whatsoever, very few mood swings and a normal libido... now, i have what

they call " flooding " where I bleed almost uncontrollably for about two

days (where you can't really plan to do anything on those two days

without worrying that you are going to have a really embarrassing

moment!), plus lots of blood clotting (never had that before) i have a

solid week of PMS, really up and down emotions, and for about 3 out of 4

weeks every month, i have almost no sex drive. That's a bummer! These

symptoms are all listed under the PTS lists that you see

everywhere...there's lots more, but, I think i've managed to just be

effected by the major three or four : ) I've had tests to rule out

other possible causes for these symptoms and nothing comes up. clearly,

when you start experiencing these symptoms immediately after a TL, the

TL is most likely to blame.

So, for anyone else out there who is having any of these PTS symptoms,

my heart goes out to you...it is not in your head. i am really

interested in hearing from people who have had a tr many months or a

year or so ago and would like to hear if their symptoms have disappeared

or lessened.. anyone out there?

On Tuesday, September 30, 2003, at 06:22 PM, yippiyiyu wrote:

> , I will find it and forward it to you. Hang in there. It will

> be worth it!

>

>                                                Abundant Blessings,

>

>                                                      Macky

> > Macky,

> >

> > Yes, I too have suffered from many of the great experiances that I

> have had

> > with the tubal. I would like to see the list if you could please

> share it.

> > I thought maybe I was going crazy but I know that because of the

> tubal it

> > has caused a lot of pain and suffering to me mentally and

> physically.  I

> > said your cute because it is nice to know that I am not alone in

> this.  That

> > woman all over the world feel just the way I do.  Sometimes I may

> seem a

> > little off myself but I know why.  Until I am fixed I hope you all

> can bare

> > what I am going through!  Did that make any sense??

> >

> >

> >

> > R. - Emotions!

> >

> >

> > I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some of

> > this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

> > trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

> > really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and I

> > really do feel for anyone who goes through it.   I'm not sure if

> you

> > are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or

> reversals

> > but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

> > effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered

> from

> > 22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me

> and

> > I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it all

> > to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I

> finally

> > found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so good

> to

> > be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you

> read

> > a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really can

> > cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said I

> was

> > cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on this.???

> > Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

> > attitude!

> >

> >                                            Abundant Blessings,

> >

> >                                                 Macky

> >

> >

> >

> >

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Tina, I will have to check it out.

Thanks, MAcky

> there is also a group on yahoo that a friend of mine started

called

> tubalproblems101 you might want to join.

>

> -- R. - Emotions!

>

>

> I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some of

> this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

> trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

> really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and I

> really do feel for anyone who goes through it. I'm not sure if

you

> are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or

reversals

> but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

> effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered

from

> 22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me

and

> I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it all

> to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I

finally

> found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so good

to

> be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you

read

> a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really can

> cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said I

was

> cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on this.???

> Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

> attitude!

>

> Abundant Blessings,

>

> Macky

>

>

>

>

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;

I too go through some of these mental and physical changes do to my TL.

This was the main reason I started looking into reversals, who does them ,

how much, etc..... I mean my DH & I do want at least one between us but -

well at the risk of just plain out sounding nuts- I have been on Zoloft,

Paxil and now am taking Prozac. They seem to be working for now- but I NEVER

had to take ANY of the them b4 my TL. coincidence- I think NOT!!! I ldon't

believe in Coincidences. But for now the mental meds will help me to get to

my ultimate goal- To fix the mess I've made of my fertility. I mean we as

humans sometimes fail to realize the affects of what altering our natural

hormones does to us not only physically, but mentally. On the physical side

I have had way more painful cycles when AF comes to visit and I NEVER had

that - even B4 my TL. It all adds up to the same conclusion, I need this

surgery, if for nothing else but for peace of mind. Did that make sense? I

hope I didn't make an idiot of myself....... I just basically just wanted

you to know that you are NOT alone in this.

prayers to you-

shannon in Texas

-- R. - Emotions!

>

>

> I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some of

> this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

> trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

> really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and I

> really do feel for anyone who goes through it. I'm not sure if

you

> are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or

reversals

> but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

> effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered

from

> 22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me

and

> I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it all

> to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I

finally

> found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so good

to

> be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you

read

> a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really can

> cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said I

was

> cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on this.???

> Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

> attitude!

>

> Abundant Blessings,

>

> Macky

>

>

>

>

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You go girl!!! We should put our heads together to come up with a cause for

these symptoms and have our voices heard!! Anyone have some idea's?

R. - Emotions!

> >

> >

> > I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some of

> > this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

> > trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

> > really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and I

> > really do feel for anyone who goes through it.   I'm not sure if

> you

> > are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or

> reversals

> > but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

> > effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered

> from

> > 22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me

> and

> > I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it all

> > to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I

> finally

> > found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so good

> to

> > be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you

> read

> > a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really can

> > cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said I

> was

> > cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on this.???

> > Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

> > attitude!

> >

> >                                            Abundant Blessings,

> >

> >                                                 Macky

> >

> >

> >

> >

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, I have contacted some sites for talk shows and 48 hours,

voicing an interest in seeing a show done on this. I shared the

sites with the group and encouraged others to also contact them as

well. It has been months though and it would not hurt to do it

again. What do you think?

Abundant Blessings,

Macky

> > > Macky,

> > >

> > > Yes, I too have suffered from many of the great experiances

that I

> > have had

> > > with the tubal. I would like to see the list if you could

please

> > share it.

> > > I thought maybe I was going crazy but I know that because of

the

> > tubal it

> > > has caused a lot of pain and suffering to me mentally and

> > physically.  I

> > > said your cute because it is nice to know that I am not alone

in

> > this.  That

> > > woman all over the world feel just the way I do.  Sometimes I

may

> > seem a

> > > little off myself but I know why.  Until I am fixed I hope you

all

> > can bare

> > > what I am going through!  Did that make any sense??

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > R. - Emotions!

> > >

> > >

> > > I agree to a huge extent and I know that women go through some

of

> > > this - period. Some more than others it seems. I really was not

> > > trying to sound down because I was not even feeling that way -

> > > really. I am happy! I was just trying to explain how it is and

I

> > > really do feel for anyone who goes through it.   I'm not sure

if

> > you

> > > are saying that maybe this is not related to the tubals or

> > reversals

> > > but I fully believe it hugely is. The site where I found side

> > > effects of tubals listed around 34 symtoms and I have suffered

> > from

> > > 22 of them - all starting right after the tubal - all new to me

> > and

> > > I kind of went into a shock. There is too much evidence for it

all

> > > to just be a coincidence. When I found the sites for TR's I

> > finally

> > > found women who knew what I was talking about and it felt so

good

> > to

> > > be able to open up about all that I was going through. Have you

> > read

> > > a list of side effects that can happen from a tubal? It really

can

> > > cause some severe problems for women. I'm not sure if you said

I

> > was

> > > cute because you think I'm a lil' off in my thinking on

this.???

> > > Anyhow I think it's great because you do indeed have the right

> > > attitude!

> > >

> > >                                            Abundant Blessings,

> > >

> > >                                                 Macky

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

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Macky,

Was it you that was getting info a few months back about PTS? I remember

someone on here that was wanting to contact Oprah and other shows about the

problems after a TR, but I can't remember who that was.

Hugs, Vicki

TL 1998

TR 8-11-03

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Can you give me a more complete address for the TL problems group. I typed in

tubalproblems101 and hit return and received the check your spelling/not

found answer.

Thanks,

Jeanette

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I also read about that site and I wish that my doctor had informed me about

it before I had the TL. That was 2 years ago. Now, my physical side effects

are gone, but our emmotional side effects are still hanging on and our

marriage is really on a roller coaster ride. I need to get a job before I can

handle

the cost of the TR to help fix my emmotional health. I just want to trust

that the TR will not make my physical and emmotional health worse.

Jeanette

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I agree,

We really need to get the TL doctors to listen to us and accept their

responsibility in not informing us about these resulting symptons before the TL

is

done.

I'd like to be involved in some action to get the results of what a TL does

to the female body more recognized.

Thanks,

Jeanette

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I think they should be made to tell us everything plus give everyone a copy

of the systems to i told my girl if she ever desided she didnt want to

anymore kids NOT to have a TL and i showed her the systems paper i have shes

like wow i wont ever have that done hubby will just have to suffer lol

Diane = 38yrs

Tony Brent = 39yrs

= 18yrs

Kathleen = 16yrs

-- Re: Re: R. - Emotions!

I agree,

We really need to get the TL doctors to listen to us and accept their

responsibility in not informing us about these resulting symptons before the

TL is

done.

I'd like to be involved in some action to get the results of what a TL does

to the female body more recognized.

Thanks,

Jeanette

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The reason that most doctors won't admit this condition exists, I

belive is money. I would open them up to huge class action lawsuits

by all of the women who have been told that there are no

complications or side effects.

It is not normal for your body to reabsorb the eggs and hormones that

do not flow because of the tubal ligation. Makes sense to me...

I guess hindsight is always 20/20. I think many of us new better

than to do it, but were pressured to. I know I was by my family. My

poor husband begged me not to do it, even on the operating table he

was saying don't do it. I guess I should have listened!! Oh well,

what's done is done and all we can do is move forward and support

each other as we move on to undo and learn from our mistakes. My

love and prayers go out to you all. Have and amazing day!!!

Hug...

-- In TubalLigationReversal , katie breen

wrote:

> I am baffled as to why so many doctors refuse to believe there is a

> correlation between a tl and all of the symptoms women complain

about.

> My doctor basically says that the hormones and the basic

functioning of

> the reproductive system is exactly the same. that there are no

change in

> hormones whatsoever, that tying the tubes simply prevent the egg

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Vicki, that was probably me. I heard that there was a show done on (

I think 48 hrs.) about histrectomys (spelling?) and the lady told me

she thought they talked about tubals. Any idea? This is a lady who

just had her first baby and it sounded like she was just partially

watching. I would love to help make an impact on what so many

Doctors still won't acknowledge. I'm surprised I never have seen

anything on TV about this but I don't watch much TV.

Abundant Blessings,

Macky ---

In TubalLigationReversal , VLCopus@a... wrote:

> Macky,

>

> Was it you that was getting info a few months back about PTS? I

remember

> someone on here that was wanting to contact Oprah and other shows

about the

> problems after a TR, but I can't remember who that was.

>

> Hugs, Vicki

>

> TL 1998

> TR 8-11-03

>

>

>

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Too funny, I didn't even notice!

Abundant Blessings,

Macky

> I mean after a TL, geez, I should wake up before I start posting!

LOL!!!

>

> Hugs, Vicki

>

> TL 1998

> TR 8-11-03

>

>

>

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I know over all I feel so much better! Diet, exercise, etc. have

alot to do with how we can feel too and now I finally feel positive

about these things.

Abundant Blessings,

Macky

> I also read about that site and I wish that my doctor had informed

me about

> it before I had the TL. That was 2 years ago. Now, my physical

side effects

> are gone, but our emmotional side effects are still hanging on and

our

> marriage is really on a roller coaster ride. I need to get a job

before I can handle

> the cost of the TR to help fix my emmotional health. I just want

to trust

> that the TR will not make my physical and emmotional health worse.

>

> Jeanette

>

>

>

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Hi, everyone. My name is M. I am 30 yrs old and married. Was reading

some of my e-mails from this group when I ran across this one about the PTS

syptoms. I have experienced the clotting and not being able to go anywhere for

at

least the first couple of days during my period. I never thought of it being

anything else. Just knew that I never had the problems before getting tubes

tied. So for those of you going thru this i feel your pain.

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