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Hi lin

I accept advice from everybody because it never hurts and you don't have to do

what they say, unless you want to.

> It is possible that someone has indeed joined that group and is harassing

> people. The job of being in a position requiring you to adjudicate problems

> (such as a moderator) is not easy. The moderator may honestly believe,

> based on some " evidence " they have, that you have signed up using a phoney

> name.

If the moderator was any good at his job he would now that you can backtrack who

has sent an e-mail quite easily, so if there is somebody harassing members of

the group he should do this. Other moderators on that group know how to do it,

anyway.

> It's distressing to be accused of bad behaviour, but the accuser may

> be trying to fulfil their obligation as a moderator and be making an honest

> mistake. All you can do is tell them it isn't you. If someone has signed

> up they must have supplied an email address. Funny the moderator would be

> writing to you at your email address instead of the one used by the guilty

> party. You could ask the moderator about the " proof " , since you know it

> isn't you. It could be the moderator is just guessing and claiming to have

> some proof to try to trick you into an admission.

If I was doing it, which I swear I am not, then I wouldn't admit it anyway. I

asked who I was supposed to be harassing and the moderator wouldn't answer.

Plus, he e-mailed me from his home e-mail not the group, so that is suspicious -

is he acting on his own without the backing of the other moderators?

> Is it possible someone has managed to infect your computer with a virus that

> is actually sending out these offensive emails from your computer using your

> email address? I don't know how you would determine this, but it would

> certainly explain the situation.

I have a firewall and constant virus checking on all the time so no viruses, but

to make absolutely sure I ran a system check last night and no viruses found.

This moderator is English and an ex-policeman as well so he should know that

what he is sending to me is libellous. I know who his Internet Provider is so if

he sends me anything else I will get in touch with them and let them sort him

out.

I cant change my e-mail address due to business requirements, so all I can do is

screen my e-mails more thoroughly and I have loaded a program I bought last

year, that I used to use for dumping Spam previously.

Thank you for your advice, because it made me think of things that could have

occurred and I also ran a system deletion application that deletes thoroughly

all deleted files also, so that my hard disk is clean and clear of any previous

viruses that I may have picked up and deleted.

Many thanks once again and as I say I accept any advice, because there is

usually something that I haven't thought of.

Blessed Be

Rob

T2 Dxd 04/05 Met Amaryl Diet Exercise 28 pounds lighter

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The other thing that comes to mind is that since this e-mail supposedl came from

the moderators

own private e-mail address, which wouldn't be shown to members normally, is it

really his? Or is

somebody ELSE hiding behind the moderators supposed identity to victimise you?

Ted Quick

--- Rob Fearnley RobFearnley@...> wrote:

> > It is possible that someone has indeed joined that group and is harassing

> > people. The job of being in a position requiring you to adjudicate problems

> > (such as a moderator) is not easy. The moderator may honestly believe,

> > based on some " evidence " they have, that you have signed up using a phoney

> > name.

>

> If the moderator was any good at his job he would now that you can backtrack

who has sent an

> e-mail quite easily, so if there is somebody harassing members of the group he

should do this.

> Other moderators on that group know how to do it, anyway.

>

> > It's distressing to be accused of bad behaviour, but the accuser may

> > be trying to fulfil their obligation as a moderator and be making an honest

> > mistake. All you can do is tell them it isn't you. If someone has signed

> > up they must have supplied an email address. Funny the moderator would be

> > writing to you at your email address instead of the one used by the guilty

> > party. You could ask the moderator about the " proof " , since you know it

> > isn't you. It could be the moderator is just guessing and claiming to have

> > some proof to try to trick you into an admission.

>

> If I was doing it, which I swear I am not, then I wouldn't admit it anyway. I

asked who I was

> supposed to be harassing and the moderator wouldn't answer. Plus, he e-mailed

me from his home

> e-mail not the group, so that is suspicious - is he acting on his own without

the backing of the

> other moderators?

>

> > Is it possible someone has managed to infect your computer with a virus that

> > is actually sending out these offensive emails from your computer using your

> > email address? I don't know how you would determine this, but it would

> > certainly explain the situation.

>

> I have a firewall and constant virus checking on all the time so no viruses,

but to make

> absolutely sure I ran a system check last night and no viruses found.

>

> This moderator is English and an ex-policeman as well so he should know that

what he is sending

> to me is libellous. I know who his Internet Provider is so if he sends me

anything else I will

> get in touch with them and let them sort him out.

>

> I cant change my e-mail address due to business requirements, so all I can do

is screen my

> e-mails more thoroughly and I have loaded a program I bought last year, that I

used to use for

> dumping Spam previously.

>

> Thank you for your advice, because it made me think of things that could have

occurred and I

> also ran a system deletion application that deletes thoroughly all deleted

files also, so that

> my hard disk is clean and clear of any previous viruses that I may have picked

up and deleted.

>

> Many thanks once again and as I say I accept any advice, because there is

usually something that

> I haven't thought of.

>

> Blessed Be

>

> Rob

>

> T2 Dxd 04/05 Met Amaryl Diet Exercise 28 pounds lighter

>

>

>

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Hi Ted

I backtracked it and it was his address - I had a vague memory of what it was

like and it tracked back to a site where he is the secretary of group to do with

a ship he used to serve on in the Royal Navy. His name was there in plain view,

I even checked the site out. He sent this using the e-mail address he uses for

contact about the RN site so if he loses that e-mail address he is well and

truly screwed.

I wonder if he realises how much trouble he could be in with his ISP for this?

Thanks for the thought, but as you can tell paranoia has well and truly set in

and I am checking everything now.

Blessed Be

Rob

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--- Rob Fearnley RobFearnley@...> wrote:

> Is it possible someone has managed to infect your

> computer with a virus that

> > is actually sending out these offensive emails

> from your computer using your

> > email address? I don't know how you would

> determine this, but it would

> > certainly explain the situation.

>

> I have a firewall and constant virus checking on all

> the time so no viruses, but to make absolutely sure

> I ran a system check last night and no viruses

> found.

> Rob

Rob, let me ask you a question? Do you know how to

read a HiJack log? Or a StartDrek Log?

I ask this because I can...and that is what it would

take to find out for SURE if your system is truly

CLEAN. You can come up clean of viruses and still have

spyware or dialers or a rootkit on your system spying

on you.

If you would like the help to find out if your system

is clean, come visit my forum at

http://southernladysecurity.com/forum/index.php where

the help is FREE.

Liz

Type II, dx'ed Dec 1998, insulin since 6/02(my choice), pumping since

8/03. On glucophage, and other meds. Have neuropathy, PCOS, RLS, ET,

Fibro, and asthma.

www.southernladysecurity.com

www.mysouthernlady.com

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Liz

Thank you for that. I've joined SouthernLadySecurity and posted my HiJackThis

log.

Even with the firewall, virus scanner and spyware blocker I use from my ISP

aren't completely doing the job.

Rob

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