Guest guest Posted September 28, 2005 Report Share Posted September 28, 2005 Just when I see hope and begin to feel a bit safer bingo off we go again. I set a firm boundary about babysitting and she is respecting it but I also said I would do one evening that she ahs to work late (9:00 pm) as there is no daycare and all of a sudden that gets pushed to 10 and then 11 and now alst night midnight but the worst was she called at nearly 11:00 that she was enarly home but ahd jsut gotten a call to massage and she was going...never asked and then flipently said and I 'll give you $20.00. I felt like I ahd been slapped in the face. No respect jsut like some animal that could be paid off for ehr crap. Rmember she probably earne d $200 to $250 for the call. Of course I can't just leave as I ahve grand asleep and I won't wake ehr up and take ehr to children's services, why should she pay the price for ehr Mom. So finally arrives at midnight, I ahve my coat on adn she wants to talk, turns out she felt proud she ahd resisted crack and coke but not booze. She was quite inebriated, the client bought ehr a double to top off whatver else she had been into to. so she is now miss chatty, I kept opening the door and she kept just one more thing....finally about 12:15 I just siad I'm outa here and left. with my $20.00 that she insisted I take.) I think I will give it to charity Of course then a poor sleep and now I am at work, and along three days coming up as I ahve a conference to attend. Even the foster cat got in on the action, waking me up at 5:00 am rubbing my face with his whiskers...must be a full moon!!!!!!!!!!! So at least now I ahve a week with no booked babysitting and I WILL not budge from that, I am really cross and I wonder if she did use, or??? The worst part was when grand was getting ready for bed she called her Mom to say good night and thens aid " Mom, proicse me you will come tob ed and not sleep on the couch " What a life for a 4 yr old to feel responsible for ehr Mom and where she sleeps. Oh we have a long journey ahead of us..... Elaine May there be peace on earth and may it begin with me and with each one of us Elaine --------------------------------- Find your next car at Yahoo! Canada Autos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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