Re: Re: Mike GR and Everyone!

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I want to be more ready for the dating scene then I am. Of course, how do you

really know your ready anyways without getting your feet wet right? Well, I

think it's great that you keep trying to determine when the right time is for

you. Then again, in my opinion it is when you least expect it, that someone

wonderful enters, and throws everything else out the door. Those ones to me have

meant the most. I believe I still need some more time to settle my life a bit

with my new life change, unless I find someone who can inhance my new life and

shares in the same things as I, which is what I prefer.

Mike websculpt@...> wrote: Well TECHNICALLY we started talking

about going out in November and

didn't TECHNICALLY go out until Dec 2 and then again on Dec 16. Those

were the only two times we went out alone. Otherwise it was all

family or kid events. Personally I still think those count if there's

some sort of score that's being kept.

It all seems rather abritrary to me. We never had an agreement that

we were dating exclusively. It was never even brought up. We were

spending a LOT of time together I suppose even though it was not

alone. But then I do that with friends so I'm not really sure how

that's a problem. I guess maybe she was searching and hoping for more

and I wasn't delivering or vice versa or something. Again, I wasn't

all into it and maybe THAT was what happened or didn't happen.

If it sounds like I didn't know what I wanted then I think you've

figured me out. I'm not real hot on dating a lot or even a little. I

think if it happens it happens. Period. I'm certainly not searching

for my soul mate or crap like that (apologies for those who like that

term).

Being friends with her was very enjoyable decades ago and

could/should be now too. She's a great gal. I suppose if I envisioned

a long term more involved relationship it would have ideally started

with some sort of friendship level maybe. Again, not sure I suppose.

On the bright side I am now free, I feel, to tactfully ask an old

mutual friend whom we visited at a school play she directed to give

my number to a woman that wound up in a picture I took of the old

mutual friend that night. Gotta get back on that bicycle ya know.

Mike in GR

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> > > > My female older cousin told me about this tonight.

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> > > > http://tinyurl.com/ym6g6l

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> > > > " Losing weight then tends to increase your sex drive, he

says.

> > And,

> > > > losing weight improves the sex lives of men in another

> way. " If

> > you

> > > > lose 35 pounds, if you're a male, you are gaining one inch of

> > penis

> > > > length, " he says. Often when a man is carrying a lot of extra

> > > weight,

> > > > Dr. Oz says a fat bundle builds up and starts to surround the

> > > shaft.

> > > > As a man drops the weight, that fat starts to recede. "

> > > >

> > > > Now you know I had to sit down and figure this out right? If

I

> > was

> > > > 491 in August of 2005 and I'm 270 now. That means I've lost

> about

> > > > 6.25 blocks of 35lbs. That's either really good news now or

> > really

> > > > bad news for back then.

> > > >

> > > > While I'm wondering if there's some way I can discretely

> > advertise

> > > > this I also have new incentive to lose another, oh shall we

> say,

> > > > 70lbs or so?

> > > >

> > > > Mike in GR (just call me Mr. Tripod)

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I agree , I think my issue is getting rid of so much of the old crap to

make room for all the new and better things that are coming. I want to make sure

I can be the best woman I can be.

W akwalker13@...> wrote: I am not quite ready for dating

either. I'm not afraid of it but I've

just started losing the weight and I want to get some weight off

before I put myself out there (not for other people but I want to feel

more self confident). I guess I'm not afraid of dating because my

dating experiences mostly all grew out of friendship or proximity

(school or work) so they just kind of happened. I've never been in a

position where I was actually trying to find someone to date. That

will be scary and I don't know how I'll meet anyone.

I'm also pretty casual in my ideas of dating. Dinner, movies, walks,

listening to music, etc. are my only experiences. I guess maybe I've

just never dated anyone that was any more creative than I am. I also

haven't really dated in over 10 years so I guess when you're in your

early 20's that's pretty much what dating is. I don't know what to

expect from a date with a guy in his mid to late 30s except for what

Mike in GR posts (keep it up Mike). I'm pretty independent so I don't

feel like I need a man. However, it would be nice to be around someone

that I feel comfortable with just for the companionship. I am so tired

of being a hermit/couch potato.

in MI

> > > > >

> > > > > My female older cousin told me about this tonight.

> > > > >

> > > > > http://tinyurl.com/ym6g6l

> > > > >

> > > > > " Losing weight then tends to increase your sex drive, he

> says.

> > > And,

> > > > > losing weight improves the sex lives of men in another

> > way. " If

> > > you

> > > > > lose 35 pounds, if you're a male, you are gaining one inch of

> > > penis

> > > > > length, " he says. Often when a man is carrying a lot of extra

> > > > weight,

> > > > > Dr. Oz says a fat bundle builds up and starts to surround the

> > > > shaft.

> > > > > As a man drops the weight, that fat starts to recede. "

> > > > >

> > > > > Now you know I had to sit down and figure this out right? If

> I

> > > was

> > > > > 491 in August of 2005 and I'm 270 now. That means I've lost

> > about

> > > > > 6.25 blocks of 35lbs. That's either really good news now or

> > > really

> > > > > bad news for back then.

> > > > >

> > > > > While I'm wondering if there's some way I can discretely

> > > advertise

> > > > > this I also have new incentive to lose another, oh shall we

> > say,

> > > > > 70lbs or so?

> > > > >

> > > > > Mike in GR (just call me Mr. Tripod)

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

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