Guest guest Posted September 22, 2005 Report Share Posted September 22, 2005 I am reading a book called " Whys does it always have to be about you " I am finding it very inforamtive, easy to read and it is helping me to put some of the story together. My psych, thinks mine may be BPD with Narcistic trait and the more I read the more it fits. The book talks about why things happen and why they act in certain ways. It is a quite short and cost under $20. CdnD. We are ahving a few good days after a bit of a challenge last weekend. It is interesting to stand back and watch how she reacts whne I set boundaries, it is almost like a red flag goes up that says see if she means it, how far can I push, etc. RE: father's role. Her dad was abusive and finally left us for the neighbor woman, I sent ehr to live with him when she became to challenging for me, boundary setting and follow through. Then she alleged he tried to molest her, never proven, and sadly that became the pivotal event for close to 20 yrs now of severe behaviour, bpd stuff, etc stc. Thre is some light now and hopefully each day will be a little bit better. GRand seems to be a bit calmer as Mom is also a bit calmer. Dgter let slip she is seeing a counsellor, perhaps that is where the growth is coming from, I have to be careful to not pry, she will tell me as she is ready. Elaine May there be peace on earth and may it begin with me and with each one of us Elaine --------------------------------- Find your next car at Yahoo! Canada Autos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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