Guest guest Posted October 19, 2005 Report Share Posted October 19, 2005 Hi, my thinking about why they keep looking for abuse is that it affirms for them what they beleive, thay are worhtless, lousy, etc, ec, so this type of partner just says see, I told you so to self. Why do they abuse us, becuse we are the only place it is safe to get angry, as has been written, if they yell at most anyone else that else leaves, ends the relationship, etc, but we as primnary care givers and I think for me at least feeling guilty, take it and justify it as , she ahs no where else to turn, poor kid, so mnay ahrd knowcks, there needs to be a constant. That is the message I ahve worked so hard to dispel,, it isn't poor me any ;longer, she had it better than lots of others, and lots of the stuff is a consequence of ehr won behaviour, so let go. So my 2 cents worth, my foster cat is being adopted tomorrow so I am a bit blue but I will soon have a new foster cat no doubt. Did anyone think about the flower they are? Elaine May there be peace on earth and may it begin with me and with each one of us Elaine --------------------------------- Find your next car at Yahoo! Canada Autos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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