Happy New Year

[Guest guest]

Dear friends, I have just come home from a very frightening experience. Last

night started out great, Iw ent for dinner with mny kids, partners and grand.

Dgters partner was a jerk, had a scowl the whole time, said he thought we were

wasting good money, it was expernsive but it was New Years and he had agreed to

come. Then when my dgter went to the washroom he loudly said he didn't know how

much longer he was going to be able to ahndle ehr, she is a handfull. I agree

but very inappropriate. it was all I could do to stay at that point.

Then dgter decided, not asking, that I would babysit because they " " needed " to

party....not a big deal.

Today was as bad as it gets. Grand and I went to church, thank God we started

off strong. Got home to dgter calling, clearly drunk, yelling, abusive. I hung

up, grand crying. She calls back, told me the dog needed to be picked up, he ahd

run away (smart dog!!!) and get HER dgter home and bring food...

So grand now really upset so I deceided to go thinking I would droip ehr off

and leave but found dgter with alcohol poisoning. I called the Health Link for

advice and ws told keep ehr hydrated and asleep and if she got violent to call

911. It was awful, she would sleep, get sick, yell, sleep....I knew calling 911

would terrify grand and I also knew that time would ease the situation adn it

did. I just got home and I just need to unload, my body is stiff with tension so

I am going to hjsut chill amd relax.

I see my own psycholgist tomorrow and I am going toa sk him to help me with a

plan for next time, this is the third or fourth major drunk in the alst 2 months

and I am not going to support it or rescue anymore so I need to set up a plan

and thne find a way to spell it out for her so wish me luck...

Elaine

May there be peace on earth and may it begin with me and with each one of us

Elaine

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