Re: Someone smack my hand...

[Guest guest]

,

Dont beat yourself up over this......just get back on the horse

tomorrow! But if you insist, SMACK!!!

On your child support issue, I totally agree (keep in mind I have no

kids) but if you have the kid living with you then she should be paying

him!! I know that the world never works like this, and the woman would NEVER

have to pay the man.......Oh god I need to stop right there before I get

some people all mad at me!! LOL........But I would take it back to court!

Good luck, and get back on track in the morning!

Mike T

[Guest guest]

--- SMACK YOUR HAND. STEP ON YOUR TOE, KICK YOUR ANKLE. SAY

UNCLE... c ya donna In GastricBypass-LOSERS ,

Woodard wrote:

>

> I had a bad day today & reverted back to my old habits of stress

> eating. UGH! I have got to not do that anymore! I've done so

well

> thus far; but today was just horrible. Tim asked his ex if he

could

> just pay her half the child support he normally does since Jane is

> living w/ us now. He has 2 kids & pays $1K a month. It's killing

us w/

> Jane here because of the extra utilities, food, giving her $$, her

meds,

> etc. She had the nerve to laugh at him. UGH! It frustrates me to

no

> end. We're behind on bills and she won't be nice enough to give us

a

> break. So we're paying child support for a child we are taking

care

> of. Sounds like a winner to me! We're going to talk to a lawyer

> tomorrow. She'll be lucky if we have to pay here anything once it

goes

> back to court. Which would suit me just fine! And don't get me

wrong.

> I have no problem paying her child support. But when one of the

kids

> lives w/ us now we shouldn't have to pay as much! She just doesn't

know

> how lucky she has it. I have an ex that the state has to force to

pay

> by taking it out of his check and is over a year behind in medical

> payments and about $2K behind in child support.

>

> OK..sorry I went off on a tangent there. Needed to vent. Thanks.

But

> I have grazed all day because of the stress this is putting on us.

I

> know I'll see a gain on the scale tomorrow. I'm disappointed in

myself

> for doing this. I thought I'd become stronger. *cry*

>

> W

> 380/262/160

>

[Guest guest]

we all have been there....take a breathe and take it one day at

a time. happy holidays

>

> I had a bad day today & reverted back to my old habits of stress

> eating. UGH! I have got to not do that anymore! I've done so

well

> thus far; but today was just horrible. Tim asked his ex if he

could

> just pay her half the child support he normally does since Jane is

> living w/ us now. He has 2 kids & pays $1K a month. It's killing

us w/

> Jane here because of the extra utilities, food, giving her $$, her

meds,

> etc. She had the nerve to laugh at him. UGH! It frustrates me to

no

> end. We're behind on bills and she won't be nice enough to give us

a

> break. So we're paying child support for a child we are taking

care

> of. Sounds like a winner to me! We're going to talk to a lawyer

> tomorrow. She'll be lucky if we have to pay here anything once it

goes

> back to court. Which would suit me just fine! And don't get me

wrong.

> I have no problem paying her child support. But when one of the

kids

> lives w/ us now we shouldn't have to pay as much! She just doesn't

know

> how lucky she has it. I have an ex that the state has to force to

pay

> by taking it out of his check and is over a year behind in medical

> payments and about $2K behind in child support.

>

> OK..sorry I went off on a tangent there. Needed to vent. Thanks.

But

> I have grazed all day because of the stress this is putting on us.

I

> know I'll see a gain on the scale tomorrow. I'm disappointed in

myself

> for doing this. I thought I'd become stronger. *cry*

>

> W

> 380/262/160

>

[Guest guest]

::hugs:: It's okay just because you had WLS doesn't make you not human. You

do make mistakes, we all do. Just learn from it and go on. Don't beat yourself

up because then you get depressed, and eat more, feel worse, get more depressed,

eat more, etc. So, nip it in the bud, take a deep breath, smile and go on to the

next learning experiance. We all stumble, and fall, the differance is whether or

not we pick ourselves up again afterwards. And now, before I can possibly slip

in any more cliches , It will be okay, and we are all there rooting for you.

Donna in VA

LAP RNY 9-18-06

315/255/171

Re: Someone smack my hand...

we all have been there....take a breathe and take it one day at

a time. happy holidays

>

> I had a bad day today & reverted back to my old habits of stress

> eating. UGH! I have got to not do that anymore! I've done so

well

> thus far; but today was just horrible. Tim asked his ex if he

could

> just pay her half the child support he normally does since Jane is

> living w/ us now. He has 2 kids & pays $1K a month. It's killing

us w/

> Jane here because of the extra utilities, food, giving her $$, her

meds,

> etc. She had the nerve to laugh at him. UGH! It frustrates me to

no

> end. We're behind on bills and she won't be nice enough to give us

a

> break. So we're paying child support for a child we are taking

care

> of. Sounds like a winner to me! We're going to talk to a lawyer

> tomorrow. She'll be lucky if we have to pay here anything once it

goes

> back to court. Which would suit me just fine! And don't get me

wrong.

> I have no problem paying her child support. But when one of the

kids

> lives w/ us now we shouldn't have to pay as much! She just doesn't

know

> how lucky she has it. I have an ex that the state has to force to

pay

> by taking it out of his check and is over a year behind in medical

> payments and about $2K behind in child support.

>

> OK..sorry I went off on a tangent there. Needed to vent. Thanks.

But

> I have grazed all day because of the stress this is putting on us.

I

> know I'll see a gain on the scale tomorrow. I'm disappointed in

myself

> for doing this. I thought I'd become stronger. *cry*

>

> W

> 380/262/160

>

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[Guest guest]

You have every right to be upset. It is sad that you have to revert back to

court to settle this, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do to be sane in

the long run.

Hang in there .

Jackie in CA

Woodard alittleisenough@...> wrote:

I had a bad day today & reverted back to my old habits of stress

eating. UGH! I have got to not do that anymore! I've done so well

thus far; but today was just horrible. Tim asked his ex if he could

just pay her half the child support he normally does since Jane is

living w/ us now. He has 2 kids & pays $1K a month. It's killing us w/

Jane here because of the extra utilities, food, giving her $$, her meds,

etc. She had the nerve to laugh at him. UGH! It frustrates me to no

end. We're behind on bills and she won't be nice enough to give us a

break. So we're paying child support for a child we are taking care

of. Sounds like a winner to me! We're going to talk to a lawyer

tomorrow. She'll be lucky if we have to pay here anything once it goes

back to court. Which would suit me just fine! And don't get me wrong.

I have no problem paying her child support. But when one of the kids

lives w/ us now we shouldn't have to pay as much! She just doesn't know

how lucky she has it. I have an ex that the state has to force to pay

by taking it out of his check and is over a year behind in medical

payments and about $2K behind in child support.

OK..sorry I went off on a tangent there. Needed to vent. Thanks. But

I have grazed all day because of the stress this is putting on us. I

know I'll see a gain on the scale tomorrow. I'm disappointed in myself

for doing this. I thought I'd become stronger. *cry*

W

380/262/160

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[Guest guest]

LOL!!! Well since there are 2 kids and only 1 is living w/ us she won't

have to pay unless she's making more money than Tim. And that's not the

case. Which is fine. We have no problem paying what we're supposed

to. We talked to a lawyer today who said that our offer of paying half

is right about what a court would say since Tim does make more $. Not a

lot more; but some more. But...the kicker is...she said he should only

be paying about $600 a month instead of the $1000 if both kids lived w/

their mom. Big difference. Tim's going to try to talk to her one more

time & let her know what the lawyer said. I told him to tell her we'd

even offer to pay Jane's car payment. We'll see what she says. But,

I'm sure it'll wind back up in court.

W

380/262/160

PS...even w/ all I ate yesterday I lost 1 lb. LOL

Mike Tune wrote:

> ,

> Dont beat yourself up over this......just get back on the horse

> tomorrow! But if you insist, SMACK!!!

>

> On your child support issue, I totally agree (keep in mind I have no

> kids) but if you have the kid living with you then she should be paying

> him!! I know that the world never works like this, and the woman would NEVER

> have to pay the man.......Oh god I need to stop right there before I get

> some people all mad at me!! LOL........But I would take it back to court!

>

> Good luck, and get back on track in the morning!

>

> Mike T

>

>

>

>

> We are a very active support group.

> If the email becomes overwhelming,

> please change your setting to NO EMAIL!

> Please contact Group Creator

> Robyn@...

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

LOL Thanks Donna. I needed that!

W

380/262/160

donna wrote:

> --- SMACK YOUR HAND. STEP ON YOUR TOE, KICK YOUR ANKLE. SAY

> UNCLE... c ya donna

[Guest guest]

Thanks!!! I appreciate the words of encouragement. I was just so

disappointed because I didn't handle myself better. I did better today

tho. Only " snack " I had was to lick the pb from the knife when I made

my daughter's sandwich for lunch tomorrow! LOL

W

380/262/160

aladikat@... wrote:

> ::hugs:: It's okay just because you had WLS doesn't make you not human.

You do make mistakes, we all do. Just learn from it and go on. Don't beat

yourself up because then you get depressed, and eat more, feel worse, get more

depressed, eat more, etc. So, nip it in the bud, take a deep breath, smile and

go on to the next learning experiance. We all stumble, and fall, the differance

is whether or not we pick ourselves up again afterwards. And now, before I can

possibly slip in any more cliches , It will be okay, and we are all there

rooting for you.

> Donna in VA

> LAP RNY 9-18-06

> 315/255/171

[Guest guest]

Well there is a bit of hope. Tim talked to her tonight and she's agreed

to talk about it at least. We'll see how far it goes.

W

380/262/160

J Tro wrote:

> You have every right to be upset. It is sad that you have to revert back to

court to settle this, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do to be sane in

the long run.

> Hang in there .

>

> Jackie in CA