Re: Beautiful/BPD / Milena

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In a message dated 6/2/2006 10:32:46 P.M. Central Daylight Time,

milenaoh@... writes:

Another strange thing abot my daughter - people are bending backwards to

help her. Most of the time she takes no notice of it and continues to be

miserable.

Milena

Oh Milena - mine too, mine too!!! I have always noticed this!

I've seen the t.v. shows where people are prejudiced about pretty people,

and it does make you wonder!

As you said - looks like a Madonna. Mine too has gained weight through the

years, and she does look rougher than she did since being married to the jerk

who abused her so badly, but she is still way pretty.

Her face is just gorgeous.

Maybe the good Lord knew when he put our's here, that they'd need that

pretty face to get away with the crap that they put people through!

LOL - not funny, but funny.

Blondie

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TxCoastGal@... wrote:

Maybe the good Lord knew when he put our's here, that they'd need that

pretty face to get away with the crap that they put people through!

LOL - not funny, but funny.

Blondie

Blondie,

that thought also crossed my mind.

Milena

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Milena / Blondie:

Looks and being able to talk her way out of things I never would have gotten

away with!

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To: WTOParentsOfBPs

Sent: Saturday, June 3, 2006 12:58:14 PM

Subject: Re: Beautiful/BPD / Milena

TxCoastGal@... wrote:

Maybe the good Lord knew when he put our's here, that they'd need that

pretty face to get away with the crap that they put people through!

LOL - not funny, but funny.

Blondie

Blondie,

that thought also crossed my mind.

Milena

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> In a message dated 6/2/2006 10:32:46 P.M. Central

> Daylight Time,

> milenaoh@... writes:

>

> Another strange thing abot my daughter - people are

> bending backwards to

> help her. Most of the time she takes no notice of

> it and continues to be

> miserable.

Hi Milena,

My daughter (22) missed graduating from college this

year, but she went to a party for the graduates, and

one girl got drunk and started yelling at her because

everybody loved her (my daughter) but she didn't seem

to realize it. I think that's just what you're

saying--she continues to be miserable even though she

has so many people pulling for her and trying to cheer

her up. I think we are actually making some progress

since that party in February. She's beginning to

actually believe it when people seem to care about

her. Perhaps for the first time EVER. She's also

becoming more clear on who her real friends are as

opposed to the users who eventually turn on her.

Like your daughter, she has a boyfriend who wants to

" do " for her. The two of them together,

unfortunately, are unable to propel themselves

forward. They go around in circles. She knows they

are better off apart, but, lacking any new guy, she's

getting sentimental about him again. I've made up my

mind that as long as she's at home and we're

supporting for her, if she gets back with this guy it

will be under the condition that he goes to family

therapy with us. This is Japan--parents can get away

with " bossing " their kids around later than 18...

Deborah

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Deborah,

I dont know everybody's history. You are living in Japan?

Shanara

>

> > In a message dated 6/2/2006 10:32:46 P.M. Central

> > Daylight Time,

> > milenaoh@... writes:

> >

> > Another strange thing abot my daughter - people are

> > bending backwards to

> > help her. Most of the time she takes no notice of

> > it and continues to be

> > miserable.

>

> Hi Milena,

> My daughter (22) missed graduating from college this

> year, but she went to a party for the graduates, and

> one girl got drunk and started yelling at her because

> everybody loved her (my daughter) but she didn't seem

> to realize it. I think that's just what you're

> saying--she continues to be miserable even though she

> has so many people pulling for her and trying to cheer

> her up. I think we are actually making some progress

> since that party in February. She's beginning to

> actually believe it when people seem to care about

> her. Perhaps for the first time EVER. She's also

> becoming more clear on who her real friends are as

> opposed to the users who eventually turn on her.

>

> Like your daughter, she has a boyfriend who wants to

> " do " for her. The two of them together,

> unfortunately, are unable to propel themselves

> forward. They go around in circles. She knows they

> are better off apart, but, lacking any new guy, she's

> getting sentimental about him again. I've made up my

> mind that as long as she's at home and we're

> supporting for her, if she gets back with this guy it

> will be under the condition that he goes to family

> therapy with us. This is Japan--parents can get away

> with " bossing " their kids around later than 18...

> Deborah

>

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>

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