Re: New Years....I'm PO'd- W

[Guest guest]

, He's always been a butthead, but at the holidays he's always

done for them. So, this is the first year he has done this to them.

Since, I posted earlier his mom called me. She was in tears for the

kids. She said they took it pretty hard. She said he was ice cold to

the kids for no reason. My son gave his gift then he just went

off. She said she intervened on the kids behalf, but the hurt was

already shoveled out. She made thier dad leave her house. So, it must

have been more than the kids led me to think. She said both the kids

were shaken, then tore him a new one, (if you know what I

mean). I'm even more ticked off now. Their dad hasn't exercised his

visitation in years, except at Christmas. My kids has never asked for

anything but his love, not even for Christmas when he called a few

weeks ago and asked what they wanted. So, it did come as a big

surprise to them. I just hope he gets his sooner than later. Sherry

> > Ok guys, I have a change of plans. I'm not leaving my kids

tonight.

> > My kids came home today from thier dad's mothers. They had a late

> > Christmas with her. I'm so freakin po'd right now. Thier dad

didn't

> > get them one single thing for Christmas. He told them he didn't

feel

> > obligated to buy them presents because he doesn't have contact

with

> > them. THAT WAS HIS CHOICE!!! not my kids. He's the one cut off

thier

> > relationship. My son(15) is so hurt his dad could say that to

him. My

> > daughter(17) told him exactly how she felt about him abandoning

them

> > years ago and the way he has treated them since. And the wimp

> > couldn't take his medicine. His wife spoke up and told her that

was

> > why he was not obligated to do anything for them. Sissy said your

> > suppose to be our dad, not a sperm donor, and she didn't want

> > anything to do with him ever again. Of course I haven't told the

> > whole story, but you can image how it went. How can a man be so

cruel

> > to his own children? I don't know what to do to help them feel

> > better. All I've been able to do is apoligize for him, and tell

them

> > I love them no matter what. I'm so ready to get in the car and

drive

> > to his house and (use your imagination) the both of them. Just

had to

> > vent a little, sorry guys. Sherry

> >

>

[Guest guest]

That's so sad. I'm sorry for your kids. Glad his mom stood up for them.

W

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sherrya_neal wrote:

> , He's always been a butthead, but at the holidays he's always

> done for them. So, this is the first year he has done this to them.

> Since, I posted earlier his mom called me. She was in tears for the

> kids. She said they took it pretty hard. She said he was ice cold to

> the kids for no reason. My son gave his gift then he just went

> off. She said she intervened on the kids behalf, but the hurt was

> already shoveled out. She made thier dad leave her house. So, it must

> have been more than the kids led me to think. She said both the kids

> were shaken, then tore him a new one, (if you know what I

> mean). I'm even more ticked off now. Their dad hasn't exercised his

> visitation in years, except at Christmas. My kids has never asked for

> anything but his love, not even for Christmas when he called a few

> weeks ago and asked what they wanted. So, it did come as a big

> surprise to them. I just hope he gets his sooner than later. Sherry

>

>

[Guest guest]

I hope they take in their grandmother's love...It is nice to know it is not that

entire side of the family - what a lazy jerk.

Jackie in CA

sherrya_neal sherrya_neal@...> wrote:

, He's always been a butthead, but at the holidays he's always

done for them. So, this is the first year he has done this to them.

Since, I posted earlier his mom called me. She was in tears for the

kids. She said they took it pretty hard. She said he was ice cold to

the kids for no reason. My son gave his gift then he just went

off. She said she intervened on the kids behalf, but the hurt was

already shoveled out. She made thier dad leave her house. So, it must

have been more than the kids led me to think. She said both the kids

were shaken, then tore him a new one, (if you know what I

mean). I'm even more ticked off now. Their dad hasn't exercised his

visitation in years, except at Christmas. My kids has never asked for

anything but his love, not even for Christmas when he called a few

weeks ago and asked what they wanted. So, it did come as a big

surprise to them. I just hope he gets his sooner than later. Sherry

> > Ok guys, I have a change of plans. I'm not leaving my kids

tonight.

> > My kids came home today from thier dad's mothers. They had a late

> > Christmas with her. I'm so freakin po'd right now. Thier dad

didn't

> > get them one single thing for Christmas. He told them he didn't

feel

> > obligated to buy them presents because he doesn't have contact

with

> > them. THAT WAS HIS CHOICE!!! not my kids. He's the one cut off

thier

> > relationship. My son(15) is so hurt his dad could say that to

him. My

> > daughter(17) told him exactly how she felt about him abandoning

them

> > years ago and the way he has treated them since. And the wimp

> > couldn't take his medicine. His wife spoke up and told her that

was

> > why he was not obligated to do anything for them. Sissy said your

> > suppose to be our dad, not a sperm donor, and she didn't want

> > anything to do with him ever again. Of course I haven't told the

> > whole story, but you can image how it went. How can a man be so

cruel

> > to his own children? I don't know what to do to help them feel

> > better. All I've been able to do is apoligize for him, and tell

them

> > I love them no matter what. I'm so ready to get in the car and

drive

> > to his house and (use your imagination) the both of them. Just

had to

> > vent a little, sorry guys. Sherry

> >

>

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