Re: He fell off the wagon / Jean, so sorry

[Guest guest]

Awww Jean - I've wondered if Will came home this weekend after I read your

posting, although I've just now had time to reply.

We knew the other shoe would drop - I remember us talking about it here many

times... but it sure is disappointing nevertheless when it does happen.

I sure hope he came home Saturday night, and I hope that he has most of that

paycheck left... which I doubt, but we can hope.

They need that money. I feel so bad for your daughter at this time being so

pregnant, and waiting and wondering where the heck he was all night!! She

is trying hard, and she darn sure doesn't deserve this from him!

Blondie

In a message dated 3/26/2006 12:18:23 P.M. Central Standard Time,

cascorsam@... writes:

Hello to all

My daughter's hubby, who was doing so well, wasn't at work when she went to

pick him up Friday night. Boss said he left with some guy who works there.

He has not come home since and has not called . He has his paycheck

of over $300. How much cocaine can that buy?

The owners of the company who had given him this chance and the boss's son

,

both of whom had befriended him, are furious. He always works on

Saturdays

(for overtime money) with the boss's son and he never showed up Saturday

for

work either. When he wasn't home yesterday by 8 am, my daughter called the

police and reported him as a missing person.

The police in town who have been very involved with him over the past 2

years feel that even though he appeared to have been getting his life on

tract,

that his cut off date for screwing his life up has ALWAYS been at the 2 1/2

month point. It seems that he can stay out of jail no more than 2 1/2

months

before he does something stupid and ends up back there.

Krisitn said they were watching TV one night last week and Will said, it

would be fun to hold up a bank. said she thought he was kidding or

just

looking for a response from her, but she is now getting concerned that he

is

up to no good. One minute she is afraid they will find him dead in the

gutter and the next she is afraid of what he is planning and here she is in

her

8th mmonth of pregnancy with all this stress. The last time he did this is

when he took the baby while he was high, so this is also a concern.

I am very concerned for her. She was so happy for once in such a long

time.

But I guess she is going to have to learn as we all have had to that you

can depend on another to make you happy. ANd the needier one is for a

relationship, the more elusive it will be.

Jean

[Guest guest]

No, he has still not come HOME, but we know he is not dead (unfortunately

!!!!!!!). He showed up at work. My daughter went out early with the baby in

tow. Parked in an adjoining lot to see if he went to work and if so, who

brought him. And low and behold, the boss's daughter, who was the one

consoling

Krisitn thru all this, was the one who brought him to work. She is in her

late 30's, divorced, sleezy and has a record herself for embezzlement. Her

brother, the boss's son has nothing to do with her outside of work. So we are

wondering if he was wwith her all week end while she was telling Krisitn that

he left work with one of the other guys. My daughter is just devasted. He

hasn't called. She doesn't know if he was out binging on drugs or sex or

both. I am back to considering him the dirtbag I originally thought he was.

Jean

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 3/27/2006 10:29:06 AM Eastern Standard Time,

cascorsam@... writes:

My daughter is just devasted. He

hasn't called. She doesn't know if he was out binging on drugs or sex or

both. I am back to considering him the dirtbag I originally thought he was.

Jean

Well Jean, there you go. I think now it's in K's best interest to get rid of

this guy. This will not be the last time he has pulled something like this.

He doesn't deserve a family. The daughter, whom I am sure was " consoling " K

through the whole ordeal, is up to no good, otherwise she would have told K

what he was up to. I'm sure he was with her all wknd.

Too bad K couldn't have gotten a hold of her brother on Friday, I'm sure he

probably would have told K about his low life sister.

DebbieL

[Guest guest]

Right now, after crying her eyes out, she said she will be getting an

attorney. No need for the boss's daughter to call Krisitn to say he was there

because both Will and the boss's slut daughter (for lack of a better term) saw

Krisitn as she was leaving the adjacent parking lot and they were driving in.

Both looked like they got caught with their pants down (no pun intended).

I am just concerned for her health at this point and she is scared to go

theu labor and delivery without him there.

Jean

[Guest guest]

I too am astounded---why did he act so loving and caring toward his daughter

and and go to work even with pneumonia? Quite honestly, I don't

know why he went to work today after a drug week end. His usual behavior is to

get so stoned, he blows everything to hell.

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 3/27/2006 11:28:31 AM Eastern Standard Time,

cascorsam@... writes:

I am just concerned for her health at this point and she is scared to go

theu labor and delivery without him there.

Jean

Well then, MOM, you will be by her side as long as he's not allowed there. I

hope K realizes now what you are to her and what he TRULY is.......the

dirtbag he is known as!

After she stops her grief, then anger will set in. Hopefully.

DebbieL

[Guest guest]

Thanks, . I hope she sends him paking too. But she is very vulnerable

at this point in time with delivery date so near. I told her to maybe wait

till after the baby is born when she is able to think with less emotion

involved.

She can be very vindicative and if she is going to trash him, I want her to

be sure she does it with a clear head and no regrets. Remember what she did

to me with my grandsons when she was in a vindicative mode. I have no doubt

that if she is through with him, he will be in for misery and then some.

Hell hath no fury....................... AND Hell never met Krisitn when she

has had it with someone !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Guest guest]

Ok, you used the word for the boss' daughter that I really wanted to use,

rather than 'tart'!

The year before my daughter's 2nd husband committed suicide, they had come

down to the city where I live because she had talked him into a 'mini

vacation', and that he could work with some guys that I knew in the construction

industry. It was supposed to be real fast money, and under the table. This

lasted exactly 3 days. Actually it was 2 1/2 days since he didn't begin in the

morning. Each evening when he got done the guys would go out drinking up the

money he'd made that day! So during that time, they're in a bar, and picks

up some slut, and didn't come home that night. She, too was devastated. To

top it off, when he did get back to where they were staying, he beat her up.

Telling her all about his 'fun' with this girl he met in the bar. He was one

of the worst sicko's that I know. Some people are just plain mean and

deceitful, and thrive on hurting others. This guy sounds like one of them.

Blondie

In a message dated 3/27/2006 10:28:30 A.M. Central Standard Time,

cascorsam@... writes:

Right now, after crying her eyes out, she said she will be getting an

attorney. No need for the boss's daughter to call Krisitn to say he was

there

because both Will and the boss's slut daughter (for lack of a better term)

saw

Krisitn as she was leaving the adjacent parking lot and they were driving

in.

Both looked like they got caught with their pants down (no pun intended).

I am just concerned for her health at this point and she is scared to go

theu labor and delivery without him there.

Jean

[Guest guest]

Jean,

I'm sorry this has happened to your daughter - she has been trying so hard to

keep it all together. I do hope she wakes up and gets rid of this dirt bag.

She is better off alone - just hope she realizes this and sends him away.

Sending prayers for her and the kids.

cascorsam@... wrote:

No, he has still not come HOME, but we know he is not dead (unfortunately

!!!!!!!). He showed up at work. My daughter went out early with the baby in

tow. Parked in an adjoining lot to see if he went to work and if so, who

brought him. And low and behold, the boss's daughter, who was the one

consoling

Krisitn thru all this, was the one who brought him to work. She is in her

late 30's, divorced, sleezy and has a record herself for embezzlement. Her

brother, the boss's son has nothing to do with her outside of work. So we are

wondering if he was wwith her all week end while she was telling Krisitn that

he left work with one of the other guys. My daughter is just devasted. He

hasn't called. She doesn't know if he was out binging on drugs or sex or

both. I am back to considering him the dirtbag I originally thought he was.

Jean

[Guest guest]

And I guess the boss' daughter didn't see fit to call this a.m. to say

" hey he's fine and I gave him a ride to work " . My guess is that he was out

bingeing on both sex and drugs. What a horrible thing for her to do to

-- pretending to be her friend, etc.

Will . . . well it's just too bad that your faith in him was unjustified. If

it were me, I'd change the locks on my house, AFTER putting his crap out in the

garbage. And then I'd be getting an attorney pretty quick to get child support

set. But that's just me . . .

I can't imagine having a SECOND baby with the low-life scum.

I'll be praying for your daughter and her family.

Kelley C.

cascorsam@... wrote:

No, he has still not come HOME, but we know he is not dead (unfortunately

!!!!!!!). He showed up at work. My daughter went out early with the baby in

tow. Parked in an adjoining lot to see if he went to work and if so, who

brought him. And low and behold, the boss's daughter, who was the one

consoling

Krisitn thru all this, was the one who brought him to work. She is in her

late 30's, divorced, sleezy and has a record herself for embezzlement. Her

brother, the boss's son has nothing to do with her outside of work. So we are

wondering if he was wwith her all week end while she was telling Krisitn that

he left work with one of the other guys. My daughter is just devasted. He

hasn't called. She doesn't know if he was out binging on drugs or sex or

both. I am back to considering him the dirtbag I originally thought he was.

Jean

[Guest guest]

I've just joined so don't know all the background of . But this guy is

such bad news.

I can't imagine what excuse he was going to give her for not coming home. Even

if she

hadn't caught him with the tart, it was obvious he was off somewhere up to no

good.

It has to be a terrible time for her to be in the position of being about to

give birth and he

is running around and being a disaster. I can't begin to imagine how alone she

must feel,

even with him in the room. He's just not going to be there for her emotionally.

He must be

very charming when he is in the mood to have gotten everyone convinced that he

had

changed.

I hope she has the courage to make good decsions about this and to get herself

out.

Ginny

>

>snip.... But she is very vulnerable

> at this point in time with delivery date so near. .....snip...... AND Hell

never met Krisitn

when she

> has had it with someone !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Guest guest]

So sorry, Jean. It's a shame.

Carol

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From: cascorsam@...

> No, he has still not come HOME, but we know he is not dead (unfortunately

> !!!!!!!). He showed up at work. My daughter went out early with the baby in

> tow. Parked in an adjoining lot to see if he went to work and if so, who

> brought him. And low and behold, the boss's daughter, who was the one

> consoling

> Krisitn thru all this, was the one who brought him to work. She is in her

> late 30's, divorced, sleezy and has a record herself for embezzlement. Her

> brother, the boss's son has nothing to do with her outside of work. So we are

> wondering if he was wwith her all week end while she was telling Krisitn that

> he left work with one of the other guys. My daughter is just devasted. He

> hasn't called. She doesn't know if he was out binging on drugs or sex or

> both. I am back to considering him the dirtbag I originally thought he was.

>

> Jean

>

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