Re: Venting

March 31, 2003

Because in a past life you were a horrible evil and selfish man who never paid

any attention to his children, ignored his wife, and spent weekends with the

boys drinking beer and shooting large animals, having a great time.

Jacquie

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Hmmm, this is impossible, my ex-husband is still alive and kicking, much to my

dismay(hehehe, couldn't resist, sorry)..just need to change the hunting animals

to thinking he is singing in a band and that he is terrific at it, though he did

hunt a few times, never got anything though..story of his life, hehe

Missy

April 1, 2003

> Why am I not allowed to do normal things? Why can't I have pictures

> up on my walls and stuck to my fridge with magnets without my demon

> child getting ahold of them and destroying them? Why am I not

> allowed a normal child who does not destroy everything she friggin

> touches????? Why can't I have normal children that I can send

> outside to play so they will leave me the hell alone?????

Because in a past life you were a horrible evil and selfish man who never

paid any attention to his children, ignored his wife, and spent weekends

with the boys drinking beer and shooting large animals, having a great time.

You have been reincarnated to pay for all those mistakes.

At least, that's what I feel like most of the time.

I hear ya, honey.

Jacquie

April 1, 2003

> Hmmm, this is impossible, my ex-husband is still alive and kicking, much

to my dismay(hehehe, couldn't resist, sorry)..just need to change the

hunting animals to thinking he is singing in a band and that he is terrific

at it, though he did hunt a few times, never got anything though..story of

his life, hehe

> Missy

>

Don't worry, in his next life he'll be a fishmonger's wife.

:-)

Jacquie

October 16, 2005

Thanks to all for your responses. Please keep in mind I was venting to the

site and not taking my frustrations out on DH. As for the grocery thing, more

of my frustration was coming from it taking him just shy of 3 hours to do it and

him calling me constantly to see what kind of something we needed, like butter.

May seem simple, but when you are already frustrated it doesn't take much to

encourage it. Plus my real kicker right now was DH, on the phone with a friend

telling him sacarcastically, " Yeah, she has it real rough, laying around and

being waited on. " I don't think he completely understands how difficult this is

for me or can completely rationalize it. He is in a complete pity party stage

and believes he needs mucho credit and pats on the back when he does the

simplest thing. I am going to stop here before I get started again.

Mikell, My bedrest is similiar to yours. I am allowed to go to the bathroom,

get something to eat/drink, and bathe. No steps (Which is difficult considering

I live in a 5 story house). So I am planted on the main living level, where I

have access to everything with minimal walking. I am currently at the stage

that my body is starting to hurt and ache. My hips are killing me, laying on

your left side makes this difficult, and I am getting muscle spasms in my legs.

No position is comfortable. I do notice this is mostly after taking the

medication for contractions....Not sure if it is related but will talk to the

Peri about it tomorrow.

Keeping busy has been diffiult and my sleep habits are all messed up. Of

course, I have done books, crosswords, word finds, and TV. Prolly the most

productive thing I have done is starting the baby's scrapbook. Scrapbooking is

a little time consuming, so it kept me occupied for a little while. Once I get

some more supplies I will get the pages set up, so they will be ready for new

pics since I doubt I will have a lot of time to work on it after he is here.

I know this is an adjustment for us all and everyone copes in their own way. I

don't think it is helping that I think my nesting phase is kicking in and I feel

completely helpless and unprepared. I keep hearing from DH, " I will, I Promise "

and the vast majority of things I am still waiting on.

Hope all is well,

, UU 31w 5 days.

October 16, 2005