Re: ok, now I'm really mad at dealing with schools!

[Guest guest]

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sounds like home schooling is looking more and more like an optioin

for your girls and your son later on too if needed. this way

can be safe from IDIOT MORONS like this foul mouthed kid, I mean sure

she may be all talk and no action but you never know if she may be or

decide to act now or in the future and your would be the one

to suffer the injuries etc.

Sharon

> My daughter is trying to get a sweatshirt back from

a " friend " , and was talking to her on IM about it.

> Then this girl gets all rude, crude and defensive, and says the

most horrible things to .

> She said " you have to get your big sister to beat me up, cause you

can't do it, cause you'll probably hurt yourself again, baby!

(neither her nor her sister said anything about beating her up -

just asked her to bring the shirt to school tomorrow)

> blah blah

> So, now the bratty kids are even making rude comments to her

because she is disabled? I can't believe it!

>

> I hate the whole deal. The kids (not all of them) the teachers,

the district. It's like, we don't need this crap from any of them.

I can't believe the kids at this school. You would not believe the

things that came out of this girls mouth. I had print it out,

just in case anything happens. It's like X rated stuff.

>

> She has too much to deal with, to have to worry about these kids

who act like they are gang bangers. It's ridiculous.

>

> Oh, the crap!

>

> I can't believe someone would say those things about her because

she gets hurt so easily. Like she thinks is faking it. Or

making fun of her cause she's so fragile. What kind of a family do

these kids live in? I can't imagine any of my kids saying anything

like that, even if they didn't have EDS. Know what I mean?Oh, this

makes me so mad!!!!! And, I can't tell you what she actually said.

It was AWFUL.

> I can't imagine what their parents must be like.

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[Guest guest]

Oh , I am so sorry to hear of the horrible time is

having at school right now. I can really sypthaise on this one as I

went to hell and back with schools thanks to the kids and teachers

too. I wont go into the sordid details, but suffice to say certain

people's actions have left indelible scars on my life and cost me my

place at University as I almost had I was on the verge of physical

and nervous breakdown by the end and just walked away from schooling

completely before I cracked completely.

You and you're girls don't need the extra crap to cope with, life is

hard enough with EDS without unnecessary stress from mindless,

uncompassionate morons like that. Please give the girls my love and

know that I'm thinking of you all. If you want to talk more offlist,

please feel free. The one single bets bit of advice I can offer

though is do what is best for you and your family.

Love and hugs....Jo

xxx

[Guest guest]

We actually looked a some small jacuzzi tubs at home depot last weekend. They

are only around $600.00.

I'm hoping for that. We have a small bathroom and a small tub too.

I do have a lot of friends that would help. I have called on my neighbors a few

times too. I just don't like to do it. Just one of those things.

When my good friend came over after my hyst to vacuum for me, I felt terrible.

When my mother in law came to help after the birth of my 2 last kids, I felt

terrible.

But, each time, I ended up doing more than I should, and started bleeding. Had

to take meds to clot me up again.

I don't know why I'm like that. I'm happy to help friends in need. I have many

times. I even watched my friend's 2 daughters for a week while she and her

husband went to Paris. She kept asking me when Me and Tom were gonna go

somwhere, when she could watch my kids, but we never did it.

Stupid, really.

I think it must be that " don't show any weakness " thing that's inplanted in me

for some reason. I don't know where that came from. Oh yes I do - my mom.

For some reason, I think my husband should be the one helping. I just do't want

people to think I'm a weakling. All my friends are always saying " That ,

she's so amazing and strong. I could never handle what she does, and do all she

does. "

That makes me feel good.

It's just stupid. I gotta get over that.

[Guest guest]

We actually looked a some small jacuzzi tubs at home depot last weekend. They

are only around $600.00.

I'm hoping for that. We have a small bathroom and a small tub too.

I do have a lot of friends that would help. I have called on my neighbors a few

times too. I just don't like to do it. Just one of those things.

When my good friend came over after my hyst to vacuum for me, I felt terrible.

When my mother in law came to help after the birth of my 2 last kids, I felt

terrible.

But, each time, I ended up doing more than I should, and started bleeding. Had

to take meds to clot me up again.

I don't know why I'm like that. I'm happy to help friends in need. I have many

times. I even watched my friend's 2 daughters for a week while she and her

husband went to Paris. She kept asking me when Me and Tom were gonna go

somwhere, when she could watch my kids, but we never did it.

Stupid, really.

I think it must be that " don't show any weakness " thing that's inplanted in me

for some reason. I don't know where that came from. Oh yes I do - my mom.

For some reason, I think my husband should be the one helping. I just do't want

people to think I'm a weakling. All my friends are always saying " That ,

she's so amazing and strong. I could never handle what she does, and do all she

does. "

That makes me feel good.

It's just stupid. I gotta get over that.