crazy relatives

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Wow! I’m glad we are not the only

ones with crazy relatives!

From: Kelley

Cook

Sent: Monday, May 10, 2004 9:09 AM

To: LUPIES

Subject: Re: Vent: In Law

Saga Visit/Saga Continues.... Did I mention they brought an gift? The FLU!!!!e

Give away my bed? Not Me!... Not my

husband...... His parents helped themselves, yet my husband didn't do anything

about it. These people are social clots... Meaning they just barge

in and my husband just didn't

I didn't say anything because my husband

has always accused me of " hating his parents " . I don't hate them, I

just dislike them. .... and I hate to say it, but he has said I'm bitchy. Oh,

well.. I'm bitchy. I guess I should have been bitchy.

They decided they were going to stay last

night .... Sunday.. Didn't ask. Never said when they were leaving . Last night

... Sunday, we ordered some pizza ... we paid... and we were sitting there

eating when she makes some comment about wanting Chinese food.. I

had to keep from laughing as my husband jerked his head up with this look on

his face... It was so funny. See, they will offer to take you

out to eat, but they make it very clear they aren't intending to spend much.

These people are not poor by any means. They just paid to have their kitchen

remodeled with all new appliances and granite. He's retired from the Fed.

Govn. They saddled my husband with dept from college after they paid

completely for the other two kids. (Now, I know that you can't expect a

parent to completely or even partially pay for college, but when they

completely pay for the other two????... And his brother didn't even finish...)

They are gone ... finally. But my stomach

leapt to my throat after 10 minutes they pulled back into the driveway, because

she forgot her frieking sewing bag. I can't sew... I can't even button my

blouse or put on a bra sometimes.

Did I mention she was sick!!! She has the flu~~!

My husband ask me why I was hiding into he computer room all day yesterday....

DUH?! I told him I didn't want to get sick, and he didn't say anything else.

I had nowhere to go.. They hogged our bedroom and

bathroom.....and then they started using MY BATHROOM!! Why?

I asked my husband why they had our bedroom and bathroom why were they

taking a DUMP in my bathroom. There is no fan in there, and they didn't even

open the window. They just let the pooh drifted through the house.

Oh, and they also

plopped themselves down in the living room....where they stayed for two

days.... with the TV OFF. They just sat there ... and stared. I can't take that crap..

Sit and stare at each other for two frieking days! This won'[to

happen again. My husband said lets go away next weekend, and I said.. I

probably won't feel like it. I didn't have anywhere to go and really needed to

lay down.

I feel like crap. I also feel like

a FOOL!. I feel Used! I didn't

even get to talk to my own Mother. She and Dad ran off to escape my

sister and two kids ..... After all this, my sister called me last night and

wanted to know if she could bring over her two kids (almost 3 and 1 !!))).. She

does this to Mom and Dad all the time. Mom has Lupus too. She has seizures, and

my sister will take those kids over there anyways. She sends the little girls

in first so they will feel guilty.

What is with people? Do you

have to be a jerk just to keep people from steamrolling you? I mean, this is

family... not outside people. These are supposed to be your loved ones?

Kelley/Okidoll