Debbi

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Thanks Debbi-

She didn't stop in, but we have stayed in touch pretty much all day via the 2

way- its kinda like an intercomm system between our houses.....she says

right now her throat isn't sore but has that sore when swallowing

feeling...... am sure you know what I mean- like its in the glands- but she sure

sounds nasal to me. She told me she felt a bit better earlier but right now

9:38 p.m. she's feeling really horrible again and we all know everything seems

to hurt worse at night.

She pretty much has some harsh feelings against this doctor now too..... She

will be seeing my doctor on May 12- for a family doctor and switching completely

over to him...... there is a specialist in the same building that she tried to

get in to see but she has to have a family dr referral and she knew that this

one would not give the referral....... ( he'll be losing money ).

Right now though , other family members are gving her some problems by stating

well you should have " tried my doctor- he would have given you an antibiotic

etc " ------- which might be true- who knows but its going through that thing

again that each person wants to have her follow their ideas instead of anyone

elses lol- how weird. But she already has the appointments and is keeping them

as far as I know.

Thanks for the response and advice,,,,, take care

Hugssssssssssssssssssssss TJ

TJ~

At the very least she can gargle with warm salt water to help with the pain

and horsiness. YOU ARE RIGHT HE IS A #^%&&**(*( and needs to have his

license

removed but ... that is another story.

I would call her and encourage her to stop by. You can help her with the

gargle and quietly discuss the doctors actions with her. Try not to be too

aggressive about how he is a shit... More that see now perhaps you should see

someone else.

I know my mom can be stubborn and it takes a quite discussion, rationally not

execrated to get thru to her.

Hope things start to work out for you and her.

Blessings,

Debbi

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Actually- at this point it is so hard on my body to get out- i only go out for

dr appts and court ( when forced )- was hoping the new meds he has me on would

change that to a certain degree- but- I know even though I won't be able to go -

she will go- she is fed up with her family dr and wants a new one and I do think

she has been impressed that I've never come out of his office crying............

she knows he is tryin to take good care of her daughter and now her too :-)

But if I find out she didn't go in, when my appt comes around on the 19 th I

think it is, I'll drag her in with me LOL LOL

Mom has never been this serious about changing......... she's talked about it

but not to the point of making the appt......... I feel pretty sure this is all

going to be great for her......... Thanks much for your concern...... I know

some moms are that way and she can be at times but when he told her that her

sorethroat and stuff was from asthma today ( her ditzy family dr ) that pretty

much helped make the decision on the move to a new dr- because this so called

ashtma also hit her grandson and daughter............. ( the fool )

Hugssssssssssssssssssssss TJ

In a message dated 5/4/2004 18:48:00 PM Pacific Daylight Time,

moondancer@... writes:

But she already has the appointments and is keeping them as far as I know.

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Are you in a position to go with her?

Even if you sit in the lobby at least you will know she got there.

Am I sounding too much like a protective daughter?

Debbi