Re: OT- this just occured to me- slight rant

[Guest guest]

> I so agree with this statement! The really cool thing for me is that

> is just starting to learn that when he's getting upset he can ask for a

hug

> to help regain his control! And when the music got too loud at the dance,

> went out into the hall and handled it!

Totally valuable skill!

Last week when I was so upset about my future and lack of direction, Marc

and I were talking and I was just sobbing. He made a move towards me and I

said, " Don't hug me. I know you want to, but don't. It will make me

worse. " So he didn't, and I calmed down pretty quickly.

Learning what triggers you REALLY helps life go more smoothly.

Jacquie