Re: I've had it....I QUIT!!!!!!! :(

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In a message dated 3/23/03 9:00:54 PM Eastern Standard Time,

tamara_b73@... writes:

> I almost called Terry at work and told him to come home.

>

> Tamara

But you didn't? Why? Because you are one of the strongest of us and even

hysterical can handle more than most men have to handle in their entire

lifetime. You are a wonderful mother. You know that each and every one of

us has at least one time that our kid has gotton out.

Just Christmas day my husband was watching and when I loved for her she

was on the front porch snow all around her jumping up and down in front of

the door with only a T shirt and a diaper!

I'm glad the police found her so quickly so you didn't have alot of time to

worry. Hey at least she wasn't naked This will give you an opportunity

to write a thank you letter and include some information about autism and

Ebony's picture.

Hugs

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He had me so upset that I have just now stopped being hysterical.

did

> not know what to think. He is so confused. He has never seen me

upset like

> this. I almost called Terry at work and told him to come home.

>

> Tamara

((((((Tamara))))))

Im SO very sorry you had to do this again....

that must be very hard to deal with (im grateful

that jenna is not a runner, yet...)

Im so glad she was found, safe....and sorry

the police were such jerks. As if you don't

have enough to worry about...

your in my thoughts and prayers....

nancy

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Tamara,

Please hang in there. It will get better. I know the bad times are really bad,

but we have to remember the good times, the little things.

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Thanks .

I just sometimes wonder how many bad times are going to happen before the

world says that I cannot keep her safe in my home. I'm scared.

Tamara

>

>Reply-To: parenting_autism

>To: parenting_autism >

>Subject: Re: I've had it....I QUIT!!!!!!!

>Date: Mon, 24 Mar 2003 07:49:38 -0500

>

>Tamara,

> Please hang in there. It will get better. I know the bad times are

>really bad, but we have to remember the good times, the little things.

>

>

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Thanks .

I just sometimes wonder how many bad times are going to happen before the

world says that I cannot keep her safe in my home. I'm scared.

Tamara

>

>Reply-To: parenting_autism

>To: parenting_autism >

>Subject: Re: I've had it....I QUIT!!!!!!!

>Date: Mon, 24 Mar 2003 07:49:38 -0500

>

>Tamara,

> Please hang in there. It will get better. I know the bad times are

>really bad, but we have to remember the good times, the little things.

>

>

>

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Thanks . She was at least dressed. You're right. That is a good idea

about the letter. I am going to try to get some info together about

autistic kids who are runners.

Tamara

>But you didn't? Why? Because you are one of the strongest of us and even

>hysterical can handle more than most men have to handle in their entire

>lifetime. You are a wonderful mother. You know that each and every one of

>us has at least one time that our kid has gotton out.

>

>Just Christmas day my husband was watching and when I loved for her

>she

>was on the front porch snow all around her jumping up and down in front of

>the door with only a T shirt and a diaper!

>

>I'm glad the police found her so quickly so you didn't have alot of time to

>worry. Hey at least she wasn't naked This will give you an opportunity

>to write a thank you letter and include some information about autism and

>Ebony's picture.

>

>Hugs

>

>

>

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Thanks . She was at least dressed. You're right. That is a good idea

about the letter. I am going to try to get some info together about

autistic kids who are runners.

Tamara

>But you didn't? Why? Because you are one of the strongest of us and even

>hysterical can handle more than most men have to handle in their entire

>lifetime. You are a wonderful mother. You know that each and every one of

>us has at least one time that our kid has gotton out.

>

>Just Christmas day my husband was watching and when I loved for her

>she

>was on the front porch snow all around her jumping up and down in front of

>the door with only a T shirt and a diaper!

>

>I'm glad the police found her so quickly so you didn't have alot of time to

>worry. Hey at least she wasn't naked This will give you an opportunity

>to write a thank you letter and include some information about autism and

>Ebony's picture.

>

>Hugs

>

>

>

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Thanks Jacquie.

I still can't believe I actually spouted off to a cop. But I was so angry

and upset. He shut up pretty quick after I went off, but I think he needs

to apoligize for his attitude. He knows nothing of my life and assumed

everything. I don't remember this officer from before. But if I ever run

into him again, believe me. I'll remember him and he will remember me.

Tamara

>

>(((hugs)))

>

>What was with the cop? Was he new in your area, or what? I thought your

>local cops knew all about Ebony!?

>

>Good for you for calling him on his attitude and not letting him intimidate

>you. You go, girl.

>

>Try not to worry too much about . Every toddler has seen his or her

>mother hysterical upset about something at some point. I'm sure he doesn't

>like it much, but he'll be just fine! You're a good mom, and babies are so

>forgiving of their mommies. :-)

>

>Jacquie

>

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Thanks Jacquie.

I still can't believe I actually spouted off to a cop. But I was so angry

and upset. He shut up pretty quick after I went off, but I think he needs

to apoligize for his attitude. He knows nothing of my life and assumed

everything. I don't remember this officer from before. But if I ever run

into him again, believe me. I'll remember him and he will remember me.

Tamara

>

>(((hugs)))

>

>What was with the cop? Was he new in your area, or what? I thought your

>local cops knew all about Ebony!?

>

>Good for you for calling him on his attitude and not letting him intimidate

>you. You go, girl.

>

>Try not to worry too much about . Every toddler has seen his or her

>mother hysterical upset about something at some point. I'm sure he doesn't

>like it much, but he'll be just fine! You're a good mom, and babies are so

>forgiving of their mommies. :-)

>

>Jacquie

>

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Thanks Jacquie.

I still can't believe I actually spouted off to a cop. But I was so angry

and upset. He shut up pretty quick after I went off, but I think he needs

to apoligize for his attitude. He knows nothing of my life and assumed

everything. I don't remember this officer from before. But if I ever run

into him again, believe me. I'll remember him and he will remember me.

Tamara

>

>(((hugs)))

>

>What was with the cop? Was he new in your area, or what? I thought your

>local cops knew all about Ebony!?

>

>Good for you for calling him on his attitude and not letting him intimidate

>you. You go, girl.

>

>Try not to worry too much about . Every toddler has seen his or her

>mother hysterical upset about something at some point. I'm sure he doesn't

>like it much, but he'll be just fine! You're a good mom, and babies are so

>forgiving of their mommies. :-)

>

>Jacquie

>

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Tamara:

The letter to the police it's a great idea. I can't even imagine what is

like to lost your kid for one second. I would go crazy. I hope you are

feeling better now.

Cecilia from Perú, mom to Dessirée (05/07/99)

Lovely husband

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De: tamara laskowski

Enviado el: Lunes, 24 de Marzo de 2003 10:20 a.m.

Para: parenting_autism

Asunto: Re: I've had it....I QUIT!!!!!!!

Thanks Jacquie.

I still can't believe I actually spouted off to a cop. But I was so

angry

and upset. He shut up pretty quick after I went off, but I think he

needs

to apoligize for his attitude. He knows nothing of my life and assumed

everything. I don't remember this officer from before. But if I ever

run

into him again, believe me. I'll remember him and he will remember me.

Tamara

>

>(((hugs)))

>

>What was with the cop? Was he new in your area, or what? I thought

your

>local cops knew all about Ebony!?

>

>Good for you for calling him on his attitude and not letting him

intimidate

>you. You go, girl.

>

>Try not to worry too much about . Every toddler has seen his or

her

>mother hysterical upset about something at some point. I'm sure he

doesn't

>like it much, but he'll be just fine! You're a good mom, and babies

are so

>forgiving of their mommies. :-)

>

>Jacquie

>

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Thanks Cecilia. It is definetely not a good feeling. Although I should be

getting used to it by now. Ebony is a runner and she is darn good at it.

Tamara

>>

>The letter to the police it's a great idea. I can't even imagine what is

>like to lost your kid for one second. I would go crazy. I hope you are

>feeling better now.

>

>

>Cecilia from Perú, mom to Dessirée (05/07/99)

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Sorry Tamara. It sounds like the guy was a total ass. I'm glad she was ok.

Didn't they got information already about her running?

Sue

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Sorry Tamara. It sounds like the guy was a total ass. I'm glad she was ok.

Didn't they got information already about her running?

Sue

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((((Tamara))))

I'm glad she's OK. I'm so sorry that ass who calls

himself a cop jumped on you like that. He has no

fucking idea.

Tuna

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((((Tamara))))

I'm glad she's OK. I'm so sorry that ass who calls

himself a cop jumped on you like that. He has no

fucking idea.

Tuna

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((((Tamara))))

I'm glad she's OK. I'm so sorry that ass who calls

himself a cop jumped on you like that. He has no

fucking idea.

Tuna

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Oh, Tamara.

(((hugs)))

What was with the cop? Was he new in your area, or what? I thought your

local cops knew all about Ebony!?

Good for you for calling him on his attitude and not letting him intimidate

you. You go, girl.

Try not to worry too much about . Every toddler has seen his or her

mother hysterical upset about something at some point. I'm sure he doesn't

like it much, but he'll be just fine! You're a good mom, and babies are so

forgiving of their mommies. :-)

Jacquie

[Guest guest]

Oh, Tamara.

(((hugs)))

What was with the cop? Was he new in your area, or what? I thought your

local cops knew all about Ebony!?

Good for you for calling him on his attitude and not letting him intimidate

you. You go, girl.

Try not to worry too much about . Every toddler has seen his or her

mother hysterical upset about something at some point. I'm sure he doesn't

like it much, but he'll be just fine! You're a good mom, and babies are so

forgiving of their mommies. :-)

Jacquie

[Guest guest]

Oh, poor poor Tamara. I hate it when people act as if you just aren't doing

a good enough job. I know that little Ebony is FAR more work than other

children and I wish that other people got it. Didn't they try to talk to

her? I mean, really, I should think you could tell that something was up

with Ebony if she is a tenth as autistic as I think she is.

Sorry, sorry, sorry that you felt so bad. But very glad that she was

swiftly found and no harm otherwise done.

What great links and suggestions people have posted for runners. Maybe

someone less lazy than me should put them up in the files for Ebony is not

the only runner.

Salli

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Oh, poor poor Tamara. I hate it when people act as if you just aren't doing

a good enough job. I know that little Ebony is FAR more work than other

children and I wish that other people got it. Didn't they try to talk to

her? I mean, really, I should think you could tell that something was up

with Ebony if she is a tenth as autistic as I think she is.

Sorry, sorry, sorry that you felt so bad. But very glad that she was

swiftly found and no harm otherwise done.

What great links and suggestions people have posted for runners. Maybe

someone less lazy than me should put them up in the files for Ebony is not

the only runner.

Salli

[Guest guest]

Hey Salli.

Yeah, he knew she was autistic. He still didn't get it. I am apparently a

bad parent. Go figure.

I have gotten some awsome links. I never realized people other than me had

to board up their windows, for instance. Ebony runs into them and breaks

them. I thought that was unique to Ebony but its not. And their were some

really good ideas in some of the stuff too.

Tamara

Tamara

mom to Ebony, 5 years old, asd, adhd, bipolar

and , 2, polish (lol)

wife to Terry

Hey

>

>Reply-To: parenting_autism

>To: parenting_autism >

>Subject: Re: I've had it....I QUIT!!!!!!!

>Date: Tue, 25 Mar 2003 10:02:53 -0500

>

>Oh, poor poor Tamara. I hate it when people act as if you just aren't

>doing

>a good enough job. I know that little Ebony is FAR more work than other

>children and I wish that other people got it. Didn't they try to talk to

>her? I mean, really, I should think you could tell that something was up

>with Ebony if she is a tenth as autistic as I think she is.

>

>Sorry, sorry, sorry that you felt so bad. But very glad that she was

>swiftly found and no harm otherwise done.

>

>What great links and suggestions people have posted for runners. Maybe

>someone less lazy than me should put them up in the files for Ebony is not

>the only runner.

>

>Salli

>

Salli

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> Yeah, he knew she was autistic. He still didn't get it. I am apparently

a

> bad parent. Go figure.

Nope, he is just one of the many for whom autism is merely a word. He

doesn't have a clue how hard it is to parent such a child.

> I have gotten some awsome links. I never realized people other than me

had

> to board up their windows, for instance. Ebony runs into them and breaks

> them. I thought that was unique to Ebony but its not. And their were

some

> really good ideas in some of the stuff too.

>

I still think we should put those links permanently on the site for PA.

Which of us is not busy? LOL!

Salli

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> Yeah, he knew she was autistic. He still didn't get it. I am apparently

a

> bad parent. Go figure.

Nope, he is just one of the many for whom autism is merely a word. He

doesn't have a clue how hard it is to parent such a child.

> I have gotten some awsome links. I never realized people other than me

had

> to board up their windows, for instance. Ebony runs into them and breaks

> them. I thought that was unique to Ebony but its not. And their were

some

> really good ideas in some of the stuff too.

>

I still think we should put those links permanently on the site for PA.

Which of us is not busy? LOL!

Salli

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I stole all 's links and put them in a folder on the PA site. :-)

ellen

Re: I've had it....I QUIT!!!!!!!

I still think we should put those links permanently on the site for PA.

Which of us is not busy? LOL!

Salli

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